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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:10am | IP Logged
it is not justifiable to turn II into a sanskari caring bahu overnight and the same goes with our meanie...she cant behave as an understanding SIL to II who had just turned out to be everyone's laadli...

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by TanjoreGirl



HaHa...we can also see it from her perspective. MM is her house as well...From the days she has been there she knows that there will be a cook...She never had to enquire nor worry about the time...now u come and in two months u change the entire house ???? what else do u expect from her then ?? I can imagine how it would have been if it was a Iyer house...The mother in law would have combined with the daughter to clobber II...Anu, if everyone keeps on adjusting for II and just cooes for her, she will never learn responsibility and she will never mature like sam or vanditha...

Take sam, she was born with a platinum spoon and treated like a princess...but the maturity she has today comes from the experiences like these at her house...we can't just baby II throughout her life rite ????

And is manny exagerating it...Sure...but she is in her father's home...this is the only place where she can order and be herself...she will learn her maturity when she gets married again...
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Yes mistake hogaya II se .. why cant II be a baby why should everyone learn to be mature .. why should every one be a naari mahan bahu taking care.Why should II become a Sam or a Vanditha. I dont want II mature i want her impulsive and crazy .

She made a mistake she sent the help out since they were going on out, she didnt know , she is willing to cook . its clearly a mistake  hota hai all of us do that.
Yes Iyer house or any house she would have been clobbered so in MM too she will get clobbered but i think if some one does things to purposefully hurt and be mean they should be clobbered and when its completely unintentional then why make a big deal.
I wont take ur Ikkat, i will ridicule ur culture and food, watch when my brother makes out with his wife, knock at middle of the nite , enter without knocking how is she different from the chachi clan folks.

 This is Manny's house too i agree she has suddenly decided to make it her own again and give up her PHD and taunt Ranjan and R&B and treat II like dirt like Chachi does is not right and yes some rules change and it will change for both Manny and II , just like it changed for R&B and Ranjan and II for that matter.
I know this is how Manny will react my point is its not right..I get manny's point but i still feel thats mean and not needed.


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@ Anu 

Manny continues to be ' Manny "...why would she suddenly behave right at this juncture ? Right from the moment she arrived, she has been notching points against II and this is one more...Iam not surprised she did this at all
The saving grace is II did all the right things...apologised, offered to make food, and learnt a lesson, albeit tough to be more careful in future...as it is she is careful lately, and pussyfoots around Manny, so lesson well learnt Smile


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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:19am | IP Logged
sam or ranjan will forget and forgive II instantaneously as they knows what II has done in their lives...what she means to rnb...but manya is soo reluctant to that fact and she wholeheartedly tries to ignore II's importance...this can occur between SILs...i really loved this touch of reality and II thinking of akka comforting her...

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Ashu25

Originally posted by swathi1990

Originally posted by Ashu25

Swati... I beg to differ..
Manny needs ro understand here as well!!
She suddenly disappears from the scene and does not inform anybody at home if she is returning, is that called responsibility?!?!!

How ever wealthy you are you learn to be responsible firat. She is living all by herself in sone distant land , we can expect some sorta maturity here


M not denying MM is not her home. But she as a daughter has to know she has ro accommodate new memvers into family! Not all days will be like when they were young. Her brother is married, his wife has all rights to look after tge hoise just as she has rights over MM


Sure.. till now she never had to inform anyone...so just like old times she would expect mahavir to be there illa ???? How would she know that suddenly II changed the rules and let the help go ??? Now that she knows this, she will be more careful and let mahavir know that she will be coming late...

Sure it is II's home as well and she can make decisions...but before sending the help, why didnt she think of manny at all...she wuld have thought of ranjan and r&B for food illa...but she left manny and did not even call her to know whether she will come back or not ??? That is wrong...


Sure II is wrong

I did mention in a previous comment of mine that both are wrong. II needs to be responsible as well!!
I am not denying it


I liked your point. Both are wrong!

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:24am | IP Logged

I have been married over a decade and a half, I am  on II's side. But unfortunately life chooses to hand you the toughest of its lessons on your happiest days. That's how it always works. We don't wake up one morning and go  "OK today is a blah kinda day let all the lessons flow in today"

 

The day we get a raise or promotion at work is the day our mother in law tells us how inadequate we are, or our sister in law reminds us how much we talk. Or husband tells us how messy the house is... always

I agree with Swa, YES she could have checked first

The first time in two months she took the liberty of giving the help time off and it blew up all over her face. R&B is on her tail that she doesn't "make any efforts to belong" to his home or its trappings. So she thought... OK... we are all going to be out so why not give the help some time off... it will seem like "I am taking charge"

 

It's a harmless gesture that enables the help to have a good time while showing my husband  "I AM TRYING".

 

I agree with Anu... if we all became mature and smart and sensible and "deep" there would be no purpose in living. People like II are  so sincere and sensitive and playful.. don't meant any harm. Minds her own business, but yet gets rapped in the knuckle because her SIL is her warden. It breaks my heart to see II's innocence been torn down thread by threadCry


Its easy to say "II deserved it" but the hurt and pain associated with humiliation she endured at Manny's behavior cannot be taken in one's strideCry Bura to lagta hai... Manny had no idea why II took the lead, she was being haunted by her husband for two months now... in various form, by glares, by stares, by sacrcasm, scoldings, he was reminding her to BELONG. 

R&B SUSPECTS but does not know fully, how tense and crackling her relationship with Manny is. He knows Manny is opinionated and needy

He knows his wife is insecure and unsure of her position in his life.

 

What if R&B would NOT have been married and Marliese would have given the evening off to the help? What if R&B had let the help go? Is EVERYTHING II doing causing many to bristle and assume the worst? She lives by herself, of course she knows how to make dinner, or her boy toy could make it

 



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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:41am | IP Logged
Sorry. Just piping up with a totally different note. Watching Pretty Woman and the convo and flirting that Gere and Julia Roberts indulge in totally reminds me of SoSy!

But yes, Nisha. Innocence is always always lost in what is called growing up pains. Unfortunately.

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:44am | IP Logged
Good to see healthy discussions on II vs Manny in SoSY worldWink

Most of us would have essayed the roles of II an Manny in our lives like:
Good II
Good Manny
Mean II
Mean Manny

Make your own combinationsSmile

II's situation is like nut caught between scissor blades. One side hubby and the other side SILUnhappy.
Hubby is reading wife's face and mind! Trying to connect the dotsSmile

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 10:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ishruhi

dristi, u are a lawyer??? Smile

Yup. But I'm pursuing my masters in law as of now. So not much work is being done on the practicing front LOL

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