Originally posted by: Ashu25
Sure II is wrongI did mention in a previous comment of mine that both are wrong. II needs to be responsible as well!!I am not denying it
I have been married over a decade and a half, I am on II's side. But unfortunately life chooses to hand you the toughest of its lessons on your happiest days. That's how it always works. We don't wake up one morning and go "OK today is a blah kinda day let all the lessons flow in today"
The day we get a raise or promotion at work is the day our mother in law tells us how inadequate we are, or our sister in law reminds us how much we talk. Or husband tells us how messy the house is... always
I agree with Swa, YES she could have checked first
The first time in two months she took the liberty of giving the help time off and it blew up all over her face. R&B is on her tail that she doesn't "make any efforts to belong" to his home or its trappings. So she thought... OK... we are all going to be out so why not give the help some time off... it will seem like "I am taking charge"
It's a harmless gesture that enables the help to have a good time while showing my husband "I AM TRYING".
I agree with Anu... if we all became mature and smart and sensible and "deep" there would be no purpose in living. People like II are so sincere and sensitive and playful.. don't meant any harm. Minds her own business, but yet gets rapped in the knuckle because her SIL is her warden. It breaks my heart to see II's innocence been torn down thread by threadðŸ˜
Its easy to say "II deserved it" but the hurt and pain associated with humiliation she endured at Manny's behavior cannot be taken in one's stride😠Bura to lagta hai... Manny had no idea why II took the lead, she was being haunted by her husband for two months now... in various form, by glares, by stares, by sacrcasm, scoldings, he was reminding her to BELONG.
R&B SUSPECTS but does not know fully, how tense and crackling her relationship with Manny is. He knows Manny is opinionated and needy
He knows his wife is insecure and unsure of her position in his life.
What if R&B would NOT have been married and Marliese would have given the evening off to the help? What if R&B had let the help go? Is EVERYTHING II doing causing many to bristle and assume the worst? She lives by herself, of course she knows how to make dinner, or her boy toy could make it
Originally posted by: ishruhidristi, u are a lawyer??? 😊
Originally posted by: Ashu25
Oh we match again!! To some extent..Am a student of political science...
Originally posted by: VeeIyer@ taramira
Had the system been quick, had the case gone on trial quickly, he would not have had the chance to twist and manipulate...so in my opinion law is the same for everyone, the judge wasn't biased this whole fiasco is because Indian society is becoming rotten by the dayI beg to differ...the day the sessions court sentenced Salman, they stayed open till 7 pm to sort the paperwork, which is unprecedented..they usually close at 5pm..The day his sentence was commuted, they fast forwarded his case to the top of the pile as the courts were going on summer vacation from the next day...so he does not go to jail..and i know this personally as my friend's case hearing on some land stuff was due in the afternoon...they just scuttled her time as everyone was too busy sorting Mr. SK's papers...now she has to wait till the court vacation is over...The courts were wrong in what they did...and the judge is part of that system
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