Originally posted by: poeticYes, if you think only from the viewpoint of the KIDS, she is right. But I guess, neither Nachiket nor Ragini will ever ask Pam to step away from the lives of these kids. Which Pam is asking Ragini to do actually? She is askign Ragini to stay away from the kids? And Nachiket as well?
I am sure NR didn't have ball of a time and now what they are asking for is a little bit of happiness. And they are not even planning to exclude Pam or anybody else from their lives.Both N and R are equally aware of the fact that they owe a lot to Pam for brinign up the kids and loving them like a Mother. At one point, even Ragini told Sunny Tai the same. NR made a huge mistake, paid for them heavily, but when life has given them a chance, should they not seize it? As a result, they generally do not react to what Pam does or says and let's her get away with enarly everything.I for one don't want Pam to be excluded of their lives, she is a part of their lives.My question is - why is she asking Ragini to forget everybody? Is that humanly possible?
Originally posted by: xyze
Yes...she is the mother to the 3 kids and the biggest problem is she doesn't want to SHARE that position with anybody.She is insecure of that position now that her kids are meeting Ragini and trying to make up for the lost years.She fails to see a simple point that NR want to make up for their mistakes and even the kids want the same.I get your point that Pam deserves the highest position in their kids life and I don't think either Neil or ragini would ever want to challenge that position. Its all in her head...Unfortunately, she is soon going to overstep the mark and would herself distance the kids from herself.Regarding her dialogue about walking out, that was pure drama. She was using emotional blackmail to send Ragini on a guilt trip...all she wanted to convey was " you broke your family. Now its mine ,you can never get it back. In fact its wrong and selfish on your part to even wish for it"
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