Posted: 05 May 2015 at 1:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunitas123
Originally posted by DiyaRathore
Ishita falling for Subbu is a pure crap, added masala of BL. Perhaps they didn't watch last episode, how she's irrecovarbly in love with Raman.
At the same time, Ishita is naive and stupid, she will be over friendly with Subbu to invite trouble in her life. And, I was fearing this--Subbu will become Ishita's savior and hero. Had enough shit during Mani track. Will have to stop watching YHM if anything happens like this.
This is bound to happen. Bhallas are all good for nothing. All problems they will run to ishita and then blame her. So Subbu will help her. Subbu will get attached to her, but she wont fall for Subbu. If they have Param, Shagun, etc all plotting against her, who will help her? As it is she is wheelchair ridden and all the Bhallas are useless. Even Rinki is jealous of her bhai and bhabhi's love! When Ishita was over-friendly with Mani, she was actually using him to help Raman and she was already in love with Raman. Whatever Raman saw she was not aware of. Raman used to behave very crassly with her. Mani showed him the mirror. That was required at that point in time. Even now, Raman needs to know how to behave. Just ILU sermons and then constantly howling, shouting, hiding things, throwing her out ( when all claim she is mahaan, JM etc. - this is how she gets treated, if she was normal, Raman wud not even look at her)... Raman's love is purely conditional - so long as he and Bhallas are happy, he romances Ishita, else he blames her for everything and cant control his tongue and temper. Maybe this track is needed to help him tone down a bit, learn basic manners and courtesy to a woamn and to a person you claim is important and your love, and Ishita needs to have some self-respect- she cant allow him to treat her like a doormat!
And Bhallas will be glad when Subbu helps them and then soon as their job is done, they will start blaming Ishita and him - really low class family!
Will you set aside your STRONG HATRED against Raman and Bhallas for some time? Because of that, it becomes almost impossible to have a healthy discussion with you.
For the sake argument, if we consider your premise that Bhallas and Raman are super bad. Then a natural question comes-- why is Ishita stuck with a loveless marriage? Why is she bearing all the craps of such a brute family? Your premise doesn't support your point that Ishita is in love with Raman. Anyone can deduce your reasoning is full of contradictions.
Subbu is not the only "man" in YHM and I guess you are aware of that. She's got Mihir, Romi, Bala, Mr Iyer to help her in Raman's absence. Don't tell me why shouldn't she get Subbu's help? Have you/anyone ever heard that a married person is seeking his/her ex-gf/bf's help in terms of solving his/her in-laws private matters?? It sounds so obnoxiously weird. If she is that helpless, can't she phone Mani? And, what about Ishita's feminist point of view? Why would she need a "man" to weather the storm?
Realistically, Ishita and Subbu's renewed friendship can never happen in the first place. It's got nothing to do with move on or forgetting the past. Subbu is the man who threw her away from his life like a garbage after being in a relationship of about 12 years. Subbu is the man who jolted the very existence of Ishita as a woman. You can forget and forgive your rapist but you can't be friendly with him even after letting it go. Ishita and Subbu have the similar scenario.