Posted: 04 May 2015 at 11:12pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves
What about DS?
Many criticise anandi for interfering.
Is not DS doing the same thing again and again?
She first interefered with sumitra and bhairon when they wanted to bring up Jagya in their own way.
She interfered with Basant's life, Gehna's life continuously.
She always used to phone anandi and invited that family for every little function whether they are in a mood to come or not. After Sanchi's fiasco.
She sent Jagya to carry things to KB house. What was the necessity to send an ex to anandi's newly married home?
When anandi wanted to live alone or in staff quarters, DS again interefered.
Now she is also taking part in all aspects of SN.
She wants anandi with her forever along with Jagya.
Is she waiting for Ganga to die so that she can unite her ladesar with anandi by emotionally blackmailing both? Her favourtite team.
Dsa is a very interfering person or rather she likes to take charge of the people around her.
But what is also true is that she has been allowed to get away with her bullying acts and meddling.
Basant in his love for his mother didn't care how he fulfilled his mother's wishes
Bhairon and Sumi yes they wanted to bring up J in their own way and Dsa in her doting grandmother avatar though she did not counter them she diluted their efforts to put him on a straight line with her excessive laad pyar.But thye also bowed down invariably out of love and respect for her.
Gehna - First she bought her like Gehna is piece of cattle who could be bought and made her life miserable later on when she realised how terrible she had been to Gehna she bullied blackmailed Gehna into marrying Niranjan who she thought was more suitable husband for Gehna.Looks like she had suceeded there.
Jagya - First she maipulated his emotions through excess laad pyar and after that just to keep Jagya and Anandi connected she agreed and endorsed Jagya Sanchi match and now also she manipulated Jagya into agreeing to Anandi's stay in BH using his respect and concern for Anandi.
Interference in Anandi's life has been the maximum. She has been meddling in Anandi's life since the time she entered BH as a Balika Vadhu - be it out of her beliefs in how a wife and bahu should be or later on in her efforts to undo all the wrong things she did to Anandi again she interfered manipulating situations so that Shiv and Anandi end up meeting often starte developing liking for each other and when that didn't work manipulating Bhago and Khazan so that her plan to get Anandi Shiv will be a success
Even after marriage she made sure that Anandi's concerns regarding BH affairs remain intact by constatntly involving her in everything. Also agreeing to marriage offer between the two families just to keep Anandi in their lives.
Now after Shiv's death Anandi is back with her and she has become a huge part in Anandi's life
Ganga - I think Ganga is the one who was least manipulated by Dsa.
But all these manipulations and controlling was done with the intentions of making their lives better according to her own thinking. That's the reason why it is difficult to resent her even if we know about her manipulativeness.There is certain amount of selflessness in that manipulations.
She is also a lost opportunity.She is this strong woman who stands up for what she believes and has the capabilities to take people along with her be it by bullying or blackmailing or manipulating them.
Had she been born in a more progressive society and belonged to an educated and enlightened family she would have done so much for the betterment of society.
I'll put it this way.Had Dsa been born in the family like that of Shekhars she would have been a head of a huge business or politician.
DB is also manipulative cunning selfish and uses people just like Dsa does but there is a world of difference between both simply because of the intentions behind their behaviour