Posted: 04 May 2015 at 8:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by yusramazhar1
well according to me ill term them in a lot of good and bad people...
i don't know but i feel...
somya works from her insecurities... all her life her mother ignored her and than husband was foolish enough to go after his mother and behave the way he did with her .. so she became like that . only her best friend suhani gave her everything shared everything with her not even thinking about what will she get back from it..
see we have to understand the fact if throughout her life pratima never spoke infront of dadi even when she knew about her stereotypical ways why will she now? she can't shout out now?? it doesn't work like that... when dadi were filling her sons mind with material crap and was rude with sharad .. jab wo tab nahi boli so no one should expect kay wo suhani keliye bolay gi.. just because dadi has done so much bad with her
about suhani .. born and brought up in a family where no racism conversation.. no differences between daughters .. parents keliye saray bachay aek tran kay hotay hain... she has been taught to make people understand good ... she has values .. and if you talk about values ... kisi book mai ni likha kay baron kay samnay chilao and all even if they are worst with you.. apko hamesha seekhaya jata hai to be calm .. to control yourself .. and all...
there is always a way.. suhani is apt on that way she wants to make people like dadi maneka ragini and even her best friend understand wrong from a harmless way...
the goodness in her its not gonna change ... aur why would she will like to hurt her parents than .. kay dadi nay mujhy yeh kehdia meri itni besti ki meray pati ki shadi karwa rahein hain jo wo karna nahi chata and all.. aisay toh unhay heart attack ajaye ga na.. kisi bhi parents ko aye ga...
about birla family
yahan jalna aur jalana system nahi hain..
yahan traditions and terms ki baat hai..
suhani ki values kuch aur hain and dadi nay apnay grandsons mai kuch aur values dali hain ..
and hence there is a clash of values..
this is how things gonna work..
about yuvraj .. i dont know what people not.. i am not attacking you..
its about everyone including me ..
kia karay wo?
wo kuch karta nahi
chup rehta hai
khara rehta hai
no backbone nothing
what does people want..
kay wo apni dadi ka sar phar dai???
why for his wife's dignity???
which wife .. ??
who according to him is his friend
he is in process usay pyar realize nahi howa..
ya phir wo bolay kay dadi shut up shut it you suck your values sucks .. aisay toh phir wo ghar chorjaye (i bet we all want yuvani to live separately) still
everything takes up time...
and what he is doing with planning is because he wants his dadi to accept suhani in this house... he wants to live with his family... live it happily... wo apni maa keliye nahi cheekha chilaya .. he always feels bad about how his dadi treats his mom same goes with his wife but he can't just tell dadi to f*** off ... sshe is his elder .. his dads mother .. you cant just throw them out or shout at them or fight with them like that no ones taught that way ... be it real life.. yeh toh phir bhi drama hai
whatever may people say ..
yuvraj and suhani both are handeling it dre way which is harmless.. they want bad to understand good... without going violent
i rest my case
I wouldn't disagree with you...
But there are certain things about being "Realistic" too, which none of these characters are...
I started watching this show.. long back... then stopped again started it...
But there is sooo loss of connection,
Suhani... which I knew during initial days is ALMOST THE SAME... I see no growth and depth in character at all..!!!
Someone I read other day used the term , "Becharas" of the show.. that's exactly how they have been... I don't mind or have allergies with good people, but the way they are handling this whole thing is nothing but putting whole thing at toss...!!!! Imagine, what would have had happened if Yuvraj would have refused marrying Saumya when asked, rather then this whole stupid process, anyways,... Saumya was bragging about, I will leave leave leave and yet was just hondering around the family...!!!
But as I said... had the duo been "Confident" they could have dealt with this whole matter maturely...!!!
Rather then making things indirect, it should have been come in terms and point to point... It was all of sudden for Saumya to react on Krishna's remarriage thing... if they realized this, instead of playing games, they could have easily done is bring Saumya and Krishna in face to face, and make them talk...
Suhani.. has these brilliant ideas for Yuvraj and Ssharad but not for Saumya... Wow..!!
Coming to values, OK... They differ, they clash, and there are adjustments require, maximum from girl ... But atleast the little from Family...
I do not expect him to go and break head of daadi, but, atleast have some decency... As a HUMAN, You can also stand up for your friend, like Suhani always did...!! Not necessarily it needs to be wife!!
But Yuvraj is simply doing nothing, or say now doing something,... he didn't act when he actually needed to ... when... Dadi's plans were being taken through, ... he was just sitting there and observing...
numerous articles kept on banging... he will fear losing suhani, he will be jealous.. all those things went fruitless...
I still don't blame anyways but CVs for not handling this story sensibly... like they should have!
PS: I really like the "RagNa" avi of yours..!