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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 8:01am | IP Logged
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If Ganga or jagya or any other shekhars for that matter took similar decision about Amol, how will the viewers take it? Will it be OK because amol's parents are sick, others can decide to give amol to them? Anandi might agree because she is mahaan. But as viewer how many of you will really take kindly to that decision maker?
 
 


I dont mind. It is not about giving mannu or amol. It is arranging a meeting .
 
Ok! But that someone decided and promised to give up amol. Is it also within that person's right acc to you?
 
As per me, I will not agree anyone deciding on my behalf even if its something I would agree. Nobody is allowed to assume that I would agree or assume that they can convince me.
 
Anandi has no right to give any kind of promise on behalf of JaGan whether they agree or not is a secondary point. Even if Ganga agreed and had no problem with it, its not within Anandi's rights to promise anything  about a matter unconnected to her.
 
I'm for Mannu - Ratan meeting. But anandi promising that was out of line acc. to me. She should have just said I will talk to them and try. Beyond that what can she do? What if Ganga remains defiant? Then anandi would have given unnecessary hopes to a dying man. Promise is not so easy. Promise means you have the obligation to fulfill it.

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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 8:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

If Ganga or jagya or any other shekhars for that matter took similar decision about Amol, how will the viewers take it? Will it be OK because amol's parents are sick, others can decide to give amol to them? Anandi might agree because she is mahaan. But as viewer how many of you will really take kindly to that decision maker?
 
 


I dont mind. It is not about giving mannu or amol. It is arranging a meeting .
 
Ok! But that someone decided and promised to give up amol. Is it also within that person's right acc to you?
 
As per me, I will not agree anyone deciding on my behalf even if its something I would agree. Nobody is allowed to assume that I would agree or assume that they can convince me.
 
Anandi has no right to give any kind of promise on behalf of JaGan whether they agree or not is a secondary point. Even if Ganga agreed and had no problem with it, its not within Anandi's rights to promise anything  about a matter unconnected to her.
 
I'm for Mannu - Ratan meeting. But anandi promising that was out of line acc. to me. She should have just said I will talk to them and try. Beyond that what can she do? What if Ganga remains defiant? Then anandi would have given unnecessary hopes to a dying man. Promise is not so easy. Promise means you have the obligation to fulfill it.


She accepted that she should have consulted.. And I would not have promised. I would have said that I will try my best. Many of anandi's supporters also agreed about this except one or two. the point is about Ganga shouting at anandi which was not acceptable because the same Ganga asked anandi's advice on so many things before. It was sheer ingratitude on ganga's part. To accept favours without any protests and now shouting.

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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 8:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves


She accepted that she should have consulted.. And I would not have promised. I would have said that I will try my best. Many of anandi's supporters also agreed about this except one or two. the point is about Ganga shouting at anandi which was not acceptable because the same Ganga asked anandi's advice on so many things before. It was sheer ingratitude on ganga's part. To accept favours without any protests and now shouting.
 
LOL  Uninvited advice is rarely appreciated. Advice only when asked and maintain a safe distance this is important to keep respect.
 
And again i'm saying the same thing anandi didn't advice. She made a promise and came. That makes a lot of difference. If somebody made a decision and trying to thrust that decision on you, how will anyone appreciate that. And what did she shout? She only said she had no right to decide on this matter which many agree anyway.
 
 
When Amol's bio-parents were introduced, anandi also shouted at that orphanage lady and ran off from there. Just because ganga shouted at anandi, it becomes so bad.


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The promise Anandi made is binding on Anandi. It is not binding on anyone else. If she is not able to abide by that promise, she will carry a guilt in her heart. And she will pay for committing this horrible horrible crime.

But now that Jagya and Ganga know about this last wish of a father, what will they do. Will they ignore it outright and carry on with their lives or find a way out?



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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 10:20am | IP Logged
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She accepted that she should have consulted.. And I would not have promised. I would have said that I will try my best. Many of anandi's supporters also agreed about this except one or two. the point is about Ganga shouting at anandi which was not acceptable because the same Ganga asked anandi's advice on so many things before. It was sheer ingratitude on ganga's part. To accept favours without any protests and now shouting.
 
LOL  Uninvited advice is rarely appreciated. Advice only when asked and maintain a safe distance this is important to keep respect.
 
And again i'm saying the same thing anandi didn't advice. She made a promise and came. That makes a lot of difference. If somebody made a decision and trying to thrust that decision on you, how will anyone appreciate that. And what did she shout? She only said she had no right to decide on this matter which many agree anyway.
 
 
When Amol's bio-parents were introduced, anandi also shouted at that orphanage lady and ran off from there. Just because ganga shouted at anandi, it becomes so bad.


The equation between anandi and ganga is different from that of anandi and the orphanage lady.

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Today the closed door meeting between Dadisa, Anandi and Jagya was perfect.  

It looked like a team meeting was going on,  J-A the team and dadisa the team leader.
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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 10:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

 
LOL  Uninvited advice is rarely appreciated. Advice only when asked and maintain a safe distance this is important to keep respect.
 
And again i'm saying the same thing anandi didn't advice. She made a promise and came. That makes a lot of difference. If somebody made a decision and trying to thrust that decision on you, how will anyone appreciate that. And what did she shout? She only said she had no right to decide on this matter which many agree anyway.
 
 
When Amol's bio-parents were introduced, anandi also shouted at that orphanage lady and ran off from there. Just because ganga shouted at anandi, it becomes so bad.


The equation between anandi and ganga is different from that of anandi and the orphanage lady.
 
I don't know what difference you mean here. 
 
Current equation CVs showing ganga is not comfortable with Anandi meddling in her life. Anandi too knows this. Anandi should have been more careful on this.
 
Orphanage lady was a nobody, she was just informing about the new truth that came before her. Anandi shouted at her. That was a mother's 1st reaction. Understandable.
 
Same way Ganga is scared of Mannu getting to know about rattan. She fears problems that may come from it. She is being escapist here but these are her fears. So she shouted at anandi who is trying to reveal the truth she has kept hidden. On the same matter when Jagya discussed, he got bigger words from Ganga. Compared to that anandi escaped. She only reminded anandi that she has no rights to decide on this matter. How is that wrong when most here also agree that Anandi cannot decide for others?  
 
I'm not saying Ganga is right in hiding the truth. Hiding truth will always result in bad repercussions. She is doing it now and she will pay for it when the truth comes out. She may even say later mujhe anandiji ki baat maanna chahiye tha. But right now she did no big wrong if she reminded anandi of her rights.

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Posted: 04 May 2015 at 11:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

 
LOL  Uninvited advice is rarely appreciated. Advice only when asked and maintain a safe distance this is important to keep respect.
 
And again i'm saying the same thing anandi didn't advice. She made a promise and came. That makes a lot of difference. If somebody made a decision and trying to thrust that decision on you, how will anyone appreciate that. And what did she shout? She only said she had no right to decide on this matter which many agree anyway.
 
 
When Amol's bio-parents were introduced, anandi also shouted at that orphanage lady and ran off from there. Just because ganga shouted at anandi, it becomes so bad.


The equation between anandi and ganga is different from that of anandi and the orphanage lady.
 
I don't know what difference you mean here. 
 
Current equation CVs showing ganga is not comfortable with Anandi meddling in her life. Anandi too knows this. Anandi should have been more careful on this.
 
Orphanage lady was a nobody, she was just informing about the new truth that came before her. Anandi shouted at her. That was a mother's 1st reaction. Understandable.
 
Same way Ganga is scared of Mannu getting to know about rattan. She fears problems that may come from it. She is being escapist here but these are her fears. So she shouted at anandi who is trying to reveal the truth she has kept hidden. On the same matter when Jagya discussed, he got bigger words from Ganga. Compared to that anandi escaped. She only reminded anandi that she has no rights to decide on this matter. How is that wrong when most here also agree that Anandi cannot decide for others?  
 
I'm not saying Ganga is right in hiding the truth. Hiding truth will always result in bad repercussions. She is doing it now and she will pay for it when the truth comes out. She may even say later mujhe anandiji ki baat maanna chahiye tha. But right now she did no big wrong if she reminded anandi of her rights.
agree wid u subah.
@bold i don't want ganga 2 say this rather i want her 2 sya that she shud listened & accepted J's talks 5 yrs ago.

and where J & A r team. J din't agree wid A . he said if sees from ratan's POV then ratan is rite but he din't say that A was/is rite & his wife is  wrong.if he'd thot like this he wud'd told mannu long ago despite ganga's opposition 2 it.

it luks like ppl r happy that J is agreeing wid A & not wid ganga but in fact hes agreeing wid ganga more & thatswhy widout consulting her & her permission he won't let mannu meet ratan unliek A who gav e promise on behalf of JaGan widout thinking abt their feelings.

and moreover ganga shouted on AShockedis that shouting. i think that was much better rxn of ganga after wat a did. rembr A's shouting on that orphanage lady . wat shud we call that??politely telling as it was done by AShocked
oh yes its shud b bcoz its done by the great goody 2 shoes A & while ganga only reacted bit angrily so that bcums shouting. any mother will react like this will talk like that. a's rxn on that orphanage lady was proof enough
but as its said that A kare toh raasleela aur ganga kare toh ckt dheela.

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