Posted: 06 May 2015 at 3:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RTee
If Anandi would have been in whatever limits that are being expected from her, there would have been no JaGan.
If Anandi thought from the head and not the heart she would not have taken the bullet meant for Jagya
If Anandi would have been within her limits and exercised her rights, Jagya would have gone to prison for bigamy.
If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would not have made any effort to get Jagya back for the family even after her marriage
If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have ignored a mother's cry, attended her function, not bothered about seeing a child resembling Mannu, come back home to her loving husband and not involved him in family matters of other people. After all between Ganga and Ratan it was just a marital dispute. She should have gone to the family court.
If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told DadiSa to stop coming to her for everything to do with Jagya, from crying at her shoulder because Jagya would not agree to marriage etc. etc.
If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told Jagya to fend for himself when he made her promise that he would marry only if she approved of the bride.
So on and so forth...
BH people have been interfering in Anandi's life right from the beginning.
Anandi's parents were not rich. But they were well off. Her 1st set of in-laws were rich. Her 2nd set of in-laws were well-to-do. She was never financially dependent on anybody.
It is only her love and affection that makes here stay. And also because she was assured that she was welcome.
Now that she knows she is not welcome by everybody, she is moving out the first instance that she realised this.
Wish Ganga had talked to Jagya or DadiSa about her reservations about Anandi. Everybody knew that Anandi was not keen to stay in BH 11 years ago. They insisted. Now if they felt that things are not how they thought they would be, they should have the courage to talk to Anandi and make her shift. She would not have minded.
very true Arti
i just wonder where was this so correct, super intelligent ganga...when she brushed off anandi's reservations of staying in BH 11 years back...and was more eager than Jagya to bring her in...didnt she know of her over interfering nature back then...after all she was always trying to be a shadow of the great anandi...
or i then assume that since she already had a discussion about her going for MBBS and thought this to be a perfect fit...someone to take care of her kids...in her absence and look after the household.
i wont go further...but what i mentioned in my previous post is true that Ganga has always been an opportunist and now the mask is falling!
Edited by rdjha - 06 May 2015 at 3:26am