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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

what is interference then see old dadisa in beginning of bv episode who use to interfere life of others the name of reeti rivaaj

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dolly

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Posted: 8 years ago

no1 is saying DS never interfered in oder's lives whether in the name of reet-riwaz or 4 sum ode r reasons like thinking gud 4 her kids or Aji the great. All ppl who r discussing abt it hav seen this show from the 1st day 1st show. no need 2 telll that go & watch old epis of DS.

but it doesn't mean Aji never interfered in oder's lives. she did/does it always whether directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally ,in the nae of doing gud 4 oders or correcting sum1.

interference is not only one-dimensional like DS used 2 or still sumtimes does. ppl interfere in many ways just like A did/does.

A shud b in limits. if 2marrow ganga tells shivam abt nandini widout consulting Aji in the name of giving promise 2 sum dying prsn wud it make ganga rite or non-interfering??

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

anandi js in limit that is why she decided to leave bh and finally decided to stay in niketan ,

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dolly

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Posted: 8 years ago

if Aji wud'd been in limits then this wudn't'd happened at 1st place.

if she wud'd been in limits she wud'd left BH long ago & shifted 2 SN.

if she wud'd been in limits she wudn't'd given blind promise 2 ratan wid out consulting JaGan.

if she wud'd been in limits then she wudn't'd interfered in JaGan's prsnl matters.

if she wud'd been in limits she wud'd nevre thot so narrow abt ganga wen ganga only questioned Ajis interfering in their prsnl matters.

its now that things had gone overboard so Aji realized she shud move out but still shes blaming ganga & making herself martyr & victim of ganga's so-called hatred 4 her (in Ajis view )

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

chalo ab to anandi ne badi haveli chod diya

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aparnauma

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Posted: 8 years ago

She knew her limits and we also know that it was her love and affection for Dsa and not wanting to hurt her feelings that made her stay on and not because of her love for interfering in people's lives 😛

Was Anandi'so called interfering that is the problem for Ganga or the fact that J disagrees with her more while aligning with Anandi that is the problem?

Or what she sees as interference Jagya sees as an advice from well wisher is the problem for Ganga?

Edited by aparnauma - 8 years ago

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dolly

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Posted: 8 years ago

ganga doesn't've prob wid J wanting 2 mannu 2 know abt ratan bcoz he agrees wid Aji bcoz she knew J is saying this thing from past 5 yrs.

she has prob wid Aji giving promise on their behalf & interfering in tehir prsnl matters.

we also know that Aji knows her limits thatswhy she gave promise 2 ratan or interfered in JaGan's prsnl matter.😛and not bcoz of her luv .

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RTee

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Posted: 8 years ago

If Anandi would have been in whatever limits that are being expected from her, there would have been no JaGan.

If Anandi thought from the head and not the heart she would not have taken the bullet meant for Jagya

If Anandi would have been within her limits and exercised her rights, Jagya would have gone to prison for bigamy.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would not have made any effort to get Jagya back for the family even after her marriage

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have ignored a mother's cry, attended her function, not bothered about seeing a child resembling Mannu, come back home to her loving husband and not involved him in family matters of other people. After all between Ganga and Ratan it was just a marital dispute. She should have gone to the family court.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told DadiSa to stop coming to her for everything to do with Jagya, from crying at her shoulder because Jagya would not agree to marriage etc. etc.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told Jagya to fend for himself when he made her promise that he would marry only if she approved of the bride.

So on and so forth...

BH people have been interfering in Anandi's life right from the beginning.

Anandi's parents were not rich. But they were well off. Her 1st set of in-laws were rich. Her 2nd set of in-laws were well-to-do. She was never financially dependent on anybody.

It is only her love and affection that makes here stay. And also because she was assured that she was welcome.

Now that she knows she is not welcome by everybody, she is moving out the first instance that she realised this.

Wish Ganga had talked to Jagya or DadiSa about her reservations about Anandi. Everybody knew that Anandi was not keen to stay in BH 11 years ago. They insisted. Now if they felt that things are not how they thought they would be, they should have the courage to talk to Anandi and make her shift. She would not have minded.⭐️

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anshurg5

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: RTee
If Anandi would have been in whatever limits that are being expected from her, there would have been no JaGan.
If Anandi thought from the head and not the heart she would not have taken the bullet meant for Jagya

If Anandi would have been within her limits and exercised her rights, Jagya would have gone to prison for bigamy.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would not have made any effort to get Jagya back for the family even after her marriage

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have ignored a mother's cry, attended her function, not bothered about seeing a child resembling Mannu, come back home to her loving husband and not involved him in family matters of other people. After all between Ganga and Ratan it was just a marital dispute. She should have gone to the family court.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told DadiSa to stop coming to her for everything to do with Jagya, from crying at her shoulder because Jagya would not agree to marriage etc. etc.

If Anandi would have been within her limits, she would have told Jagya to fend for himself when he made her promise that he would marry only if she approved of the bride.

So on and so forth...

BH people have been interfering in Anandi's life right from the beginning.

Anandi's parents were not rich. But they were well off. Her 1st set of in-laws were rich. Her 2nd set of in-laws were well-to-do. She was never financially dependent on anybody.

It is only her love and affection that makes here stay. And also because she was assured that she was welcome.

Now that she knows she is not welcome by everybody, she is moving out the first instance that she realised this.

Wish Ganga had talked to Jagya or DadiSa about her reservations about Anandi. Everybody knew that Anandi was not keen to stay in BH 11 years ago. They insisted. Now if they felt that things are not how they thought they would be, they should have the courage to talk to Anandi and make her shift. She would not have minded.⭐️

Arti,

So true, agree with you about Anandi remaining in her limits. 👍🏼

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As for her interference in Jagan matters it was Ganga who many times invited her interference herself without thinking once it's effect on A's life.

There are many incidences but I want to count specially one here .

I hope you have remember very well that how Ira prohibited Anandi fron having any connection from BH ppl if she wanted to continue her relationship with Shekhars after J filling G's maang in temple.

Ira did not want A's connection even with BH peeps though who were themselves against Jagan at that time. Now see the gall of Ganga , she called Anandi to inquire welfare of J when he was in Jail in Udaipur knowing very well that A could get in trouble if anyhow Ira would come to know about it. But this was not enough to deter her from calling A for her own cause.

For her part A did not once became rude to G for putting herself in an unwanted situation and tried to answer all G's concerns very sympathetically. Even did not forbid her to call again.

Any other girl would have reacted in a different way if would have been aware of her limits but A took risk for G's sake.

G madam forgets all this and now blaming A for her interference.

Jagan must be knowing her interfering nature very well when J( he must have gone there with his wife's permission) along with DS went Udaipur to bring A in BH , why they did that then if have problems with her nature? And why not agreed when she herself wanted to go and live in Basant Niketan? To make her and her son feel unwanted by accusing her for her interference later?

Btw it was absolutely wrong of A to make a promise without consulting Jagan but I have not seen her forcing them to fulfill her promise . She informed them and when G refused she has left the matter there though she might be feeling guilty towards Ratan Singh for not be able to keep her promise.

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Surabhi01

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Posted: 8 years ago

anandi is always in limit , at least she is not like sanchi who try to kill ganga and her child .it is amazing that anandi showing courtesy is term as interference

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