this is not the first time for anandi - Page 3

If Ganga or jagya or any other shekhars for that matter took similar decision about Amol, how will the viewers take it? Will it be OK because amol's parents are sick, others can decide to give amol to them? Anandi might agree because she is mahaan. But as viewer how many of you will really take kindly to that decision maker?

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

If Ganga or jagya or any other shekhars for that matter took similar decision about Amol, how will the viewers take it? Will it be OK because amol's parents are sick, others can decide to give amol to them? Anandi might agree because she is mahaan. But as viewer how many of you will really take kindly to that decision maker?

 

 

I dont mind. It is not about giving mannu or amol. It is arranging a meeting .
Edited by leavesandwaves - 8 years ago

I think Jagya will try to convince Ganga. In case Ganga does not agree, he may go with mannu. And then everything depends on mannu. Mannu may decide to stay with his dying father. Or may not. Ratan may die or may not. So many possibilities.

It has been repeatedly said by everyone that Anandi was wrong to have promised Ratan a meeting with his son without consulting with Jagya and Ganga.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I dont mind. It is not about giving mannu or amol. It is arranging a meeting .

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

 

Ok! But that someone decided and promised to give up amol. Is it also within that person's right acc to you?

 

As per me, I will not agree anyone deciding on my behalf even if its something I would agree. Nobody is allowed to assume that I would agree or assume that they can convince me.

 

Anandi has no right to give any kind of promise on behalf of JaGan whether they agree or not is a secondary point. Even if Ganga agreed and had no problem with it, its not within Anandi's rights to promise anything  about a matter unconnected to her.

 

I'm for Mannu - Ratan meeting. But anandi promising that was out of line acc. to me. She should have just said I will talk to them and try. Beyond that what can she do? What if Ganga remains defiant? Then anandi would have given unnecessary hopes to a dying man. Promise is not so easy. Promise means you have the obligation to fulfill it.

She accepted that she should have consulted.. And I would not have promised. I would have said that I will try my best. Many of anandi's supporters also agreed about this except one or two. the point is about Ganga shouting at anandi which was not acceptable because the same Ganga asked anandi's advice on so many things before. It was sheer ingratitude on ganga's part. To accept favours without any protests and now shouting.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

She accepted that she should have consulted.. And I would not have promised. I would have said that I will try my best. Many of anandi's supporters also agreed about this except one or two. the point is about Ganga shouting at anandi which was not acceptable because the same Ganga asked anandi's advice on so many things before. It was sheer ingratitude on ganga's part. To accept favours without any protests and now shouting.

Edited by Sunna_Deewani - 8 years ago

The promise Anandi made is binding on Anandi. It is not binding on anyone else. If she is not able to abide by that promise, she will carry a guilt in her heart. And she will pay for committing this horrible horrible crime.

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

 

😆  Uninvited advice is rarely appreciated. Advice only when asked and maintain a safe distance this is important to keep respect.

 

And again i'm saying the same thing anandi didn't advice. She made a promise and came. That makes a lot of difference. If somebody made a decision and trying to thrust that decision on you, how will anyone appreciate that. And what did she shout? She only said she had no right to decide on this matter which many agree anyway.

 

 

When Amol's bio-parents were introduced, anandi also shouted at that orphanage lady and ran off from there. Just because ganga shouted at anandi, it becomes so bad.

The equation between anandi and ganga is different from that of anandi and the orphanage lady.