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Wow so many blames on Ganga i have read here She is selfish , pathetic  , so heart less  , ungrateful not fulfilling poor dying man's last wish  even criminals having death sentence last wish is fulfilled Dead Ganga does not know how to forgive people she uses them fully i don't know when she used Ratan Singh and for what ? Seriously people want Ganga to forgive her rapist otherwise she is wrong ShockedAmazing Ganga is suppose to forgive her rapist  otherwise she is selfish Ganga is selfish if she does not  forgive the man who tried to kill her ?

My Question to all these people who are bashing Ganga and blaming her Is she not human for them ?  How do they do know  she will not fulfill Ratan's last wish Hello this woman saved his father's life giving him her own blood Same Ratan's father who was torturing her since childhood and planning to kill her but she saved his life so why she won't fulfill Ratan's last wish ? She has more heart than poor dying man Ratan but if she needs sometime to forget about Ratans ill deeds done to her  from her childhood , he raped her , physically emotionally abused her , tried to kill her , tried to take her son away from her so many times ,  his ill deeds done to her husband Jagya  tried to kill him , humilated him so much when  Mannu had cancer , her  family Singhs tried to kill them  , her son Mannu Don't forget Ratan refused to save Mannu's life to plot revenge on Jagya Ganga  He said to Jagya let him die i won't save him this will be my revenge on you both and he laughed seeing Jagya suffering and begging to him  and he  only agreed after seeing JaGan begging to him he took advantage of their weakness  and forced them to agree  to his deal of giving Mannu to him and never look back at him   , forever stay away from mannu this was his deal and still  after that deal he took full advantage of Mannu's pain and suffering to torture JaGan , make Jagya beg in front of him so many times A well reputed doctor Jagya was begging in front of Ratan in front of everyone because Ratan Singh refused to save Mannu's life as Jagya's grandmother asked to him  behave with his grandson  He was abusing Jagya and Ratan asked Jagya i can say anything to you anytime if anyone try to stop me  i will leave, will not save Mannu and Jagya said  to him you can abuse me say anything to me but don't go  Save Mannu's life 


 If to Ganga all this is coming in her mind and she needs sometime to look beyond that and take any decision  How she is wrong in that ?People are calling her decision pathetic calling her names she is selfish does not know how to forgive  Moral policing on Ratan is dying Dying man's wish should be fulfilled How  Ganga can be so selfish ?

i ask from these people they can see Ratan Singh dying but what about that girl who died how many times when each time this monster raped her ?and he never had any mercy on her ?

How many times Ganga died when he beaten , abused her mentally and physically tortured her  ?

How many times he tried to kill Ganga ?

How many times Ganga died when he tried to snatch away Mannu from him ?He when she was with him would only  give Mannu to her  for feeding milk otherwise would never let her touch Mannu and later how many times he tried to snatch Mannu from her ?


He tried to kill Jagya , he tried to kill Singh Did n't Ganga die from inside seeing all this and suffered in pain ?

How many times Ganga died when he refused to save mannu's life and Mannu was suffering in pain in front of her and saying to her Mannu is sick 

How many times Ganga died  when he forced her to agree to his deal of giving Mannu to him forever and never look at him ever only then he will save Mannu's life 

This is all forgotten by some people they expect Ganga to turn great soul all of a sudden and fulfill this dying mans last wish instantly otherwise she is selfish , bad , ungrateful pathetic and does not know how to forgive people WahClap

Ganga wants to protect her son  This all cannot be hidden from Mannu  if  he meets with Ratan Singh and Mannu  will not be the most happiest person on earth after knowing about Ratan He will never forgive him and will be made to  He will never accept Ratan as his father until Jagya Ganga  themselves don't convince him 

 Ganga wants to save her son from emotional shattering but she is bashed for it as she is being concerned for her son not fulfilling poor Ratan Singhs last wish Amazing Dead

This again and again given credit to ratan he so called saved Mannu's life Ha!!!!!!  what he did gave his bone marrow  How ? for his own selfish self he can have Mannu as his heir when he forced jaGan for the deal The so called loving father life savior of his son why he refused to save Mannu's life first  ? It were JaGan who saved Mannu's life bearing every abuse of Ratan , killing  themselves and agreed to distance themselves forever from him  then Ratan so called saved Mannu's life 

It was Jagya who was begging to Ratan save my son's life  Take my life if you want  revenge on me but save my son and this so called Mannu's father Ratan was laughing and saying Mannu's death will be best punishment for you 

JaGan bore all abuses of Ratan , begged to him , agreed to his deal and will distance themselves from Mannu forever to save Mannu's life  and people are giving credits to Ratan for Mannu's life saving What great work he has done?  Wah 


Ganga is expected to forget all this and immediately melt and send Mannu to him because poor Ratan is dying   Why ?  Show me one religious context which holds Ganga as sinner here if she never forgives Ratan and never let Mannu meet with him she is not sinner Sinner is Ratan who will never get peace to his soul and will straight away go to hell till Ganga Jagya and Mannu and all other people he sinned don't forgive him 

and he did favor on himself by giving Mannu's custody to JaGan not on JaGan He wanted to save himself from  son's wrath if he became like him like that criminal's son became and slapped his father and father committed suicide So please ratan and his so called favors counted on JaGan are his favors on himself It will be JaGan doing a great favor on him by forgiving him and convince Mannu as well

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On contrary i am seeing Poor Anandi ji defended She was in her usual self Aww cannot say refuse Very helping person she is then how come she refused to Amol's parents and was angry at warden and them? They were too begging to her as well but she angrily left the orphanage and came home was crying hugging Amol  What was that ?  so how she did not think about Ganga here  how ganga will send her son to this man who tried to  separate Mannu from her and Mannu from his mother so many times How it will impact Mannu  She did not bother to ask jagya either feelings of this father  , his decision does not matter to her that she took decision herself and gave promise to Ratan and later at home preaching JaGan on humanity forcing her decision on their heads ? What wrong Ganga has said to Anandi how you took this decision without asking us , with what right  on which basis , you did not think about me ? 

Anandi was completely wrong here  She was just too proud of herself and wanted to show herself great in front of Ratan Singh he asked something from her and she will do that otherwise her greatness will become less She could not do what that man was asking her Ganga and jagya anyway she consider them   her puppets She will pull their threads how  in what way they  will dance on their tunes Right? otherwise what else her reason could be 

Any sensible person who is caring to others would have said to ratan ' i cannot do anything in this  You should talk to Ganga and Jagya 

if Ratan would have asked her i am not sure Ganga would let me meet with Mannu ;'' she should have said to ratan then thats your own karma  you have to get forgiveness from her  for your sins to her You tried to separate Ganga from Mannu so many times and Mannu from ganga so many times Now only she can help you in meeting with Mannu''

These would be words of a sensible , good , caring woman but this Anandi she herself took decision and later instead of straight away telling JaGan she was bullying them with her lecture on humanity Wow just how great of AnandiThumbs Down


This was a sensitive issue  A sensitive matter but Anandi did not ask from JaGan at all and took decision for their son and later telling them her decision  Wow  Just how great of Anandi Words are less for me to praise this so good woman who take everyone for granted , take decisions about their lives , their children without asking them and expect them to follow her only  

She even cheated Ratan She was not sure she can fulfill this promise then why making  promises ?

 So Glad even Dadisaa was not in support of Anandi Who would be  ?How Dadisaa became double standard for this In fact for the first time Dadisaa looked beyond Anandi mania 

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Jagya he will do what he wanted to after seeing things  what he thinks is right not that he is going to follow Anandi ji 's theories 


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Very well said saba 

I really don't understand how credits are given to Ratan Singh for saving Mannu's life while i remember he clearly refused to save Mannus life  More than him  it was jagya Ganga who saved Mannu and took all abuses , curses of this man and killed themselves and agreed to give Mannu to him and never look at him ever again Just he give his bone marrow to Mannu 

He refused to save Mannu's life It will best revenge of him  on Jagya and ganga

It was this father Jagya who begged in front of ratan and begged him to save his son's life Take his life , kill him if he wants to take revenge on him but save Mannu but ratan went away laughing at him  the so called life savior of Mannu At that time he did not think Mannu is his son he is dying , in extreme pain but he was enjoying that Let him die it will satisfy his revenge on Jagya Ganga

He later called Ganga to him and asked her he will only give his bone marrow if she gives Mannu to him and never look at him ever again  Ganga Jagya they even accepted this How painful was that to them but they agreed just for Mannus life 

He abused Jagya to no limits Dadisaa asked him to behave He left jagya ran after him and begged to him to stop  Ratan asked him i can say anything to you  do anything with you if anyone tried to stop me i will not give my bone marrow to Mannu  Jagya asked him you can say whatever to me i promise no one will say a word to you but please don't leave 

Jagya Ganga begged , bore each abuse of this man , and he enjoyed Mannu's cancer , his pain , his suffering every bit It was blessing for him he is taking revenge from his enemies and here credits are given to this man he saved Mannu's life so Ganga and Jagya are indebted to him  and Ganga should forget all wrong he has done to her and her husband , her son He can separate Mannu from Ganga and even really try to kill her but ganga is pathetic he is not fulfilling this dying man's wish immediately ?I am really stunned to read this  

This reminds me of  some people are debating  on death penalty to be finished around the world because every human being has basic rights to live  Yes of course someone goes and kill a person , destroy lives of his family members , give them never healing wound  but that person should not be sentenced to death because it becomes cruelty he has basic right to live so didn't that man whom he murdered have basic right to live Same way Ganga is tortured crossing all limits of humanity by this man Ratan He raped her every night from 13 years of age Still remember that scene when she is sitting holding her stomach trembling and he entered in room drunk and from then on how long she lived with him he raped her every night , he tried to kill her so many times , kept Mannu away from her , tried to kill Jagya , tried to kill Singhs , burn them alive , he refused to save Mannu's life and Mannu suffered in front of Ganga every day Even that child could feel something is wrong with him he said to his mother Mannu is sick and this monster was laughing around enjoying his revenge on Jagya and Ganga and people have all sympathies for this man and calling names to Ganga she should forget this immediately and run to fulfill this dying man's wish   i am stunned 

and poor  Anandi ji is defended who was insensitive to Jagya Ganga Mannu She did not think to ask from JaGan at all before giving promise to Ratan  She did not think about what hell Mannu will go through  knowing about all this from which Ganga wants to protect him  Anandi ji just wanted to show off to Ratan she can do anything otherwise any normal . sensible caring person would have said exactly what you have said 

i am quoting your statements 

 i cannot do anything in this  You should talk to Ganga and Jagya 

if Ratan would have asked her i am not sure Ganga would let me meet with Mannu ;'' she should hae said to ratan then thats your own karma  you have to get forgiveness from her  for your sins to her You tried to separate Ganga from Mannu so many times and Mannu from ganga so many times Now only she can help you in meeting with Mannu''

but what she did she gave promise to Ratan without asking JaGan and later as usual telling them their decision and they must follow it thats why she was preaching them on humanity 

Kudos to dadisaa who did not support her in this 

and Jagya will take any decision exactly after seeing everything of course he will help Ratan He is very kind hearted noble person He will convince Ganga and Mannu too and that will be such a slap on Ratan's face what he did with Jagya and he still helped him 

and Ratan's soul will never be free He will keep suffering until all people he sinned Jagya Ganga Mannu Singhs all don't forgive him He sinned Padma and her daughter too but he does not remember them at all 


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No ganga is not wrong. Basically she is much better than ganga at least ganga does not sit at ratan s house like anandi

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i don't find  Ganga's wrong  but i find Anandi very wrong and her act quite pathetic  Ganga is justified and Anandi is not 

Ganga has not seen Ratan's so called redemption neither he has ever shown to her he has any shame for his ill deeds done to her and to Jagya  as well Ganga wants to save Mannu from   emotional breakdown which definitely the kid will have after knowing this devil is his father The fact Ratan himself wants to keep himself away from Mannu so Ganga is not wrong

and  Anandi ji told what she thinks for JaGan How much respect she has for them She took decision of  their son without asking them even for once Very sensitive matter  but she did not bother to ask from them and it was small mistake according to her and she was  forcing her decision on their head by her preaching  Absolutely  pathetic  Anandi Thumbs Down

We know she can refuse but she will do that when it suits her since it is matter of Ganga and Jagya so why  care for them  She promised to Ratan and later forcing her decision on JaGan's head Thumbs Down

Happy Dadisaa for first time supported the right person  Ganga not blindly supported Anandi

Jagya does not agree with Anandi His own morals and principles will make him  help Ratan and Ganga will too get convinced after a bit convincing That woman has been tortured enough from childhood by this Ratan , he tried to kill her , tried to take her son away from her , she saw her  son dying in front of him suffering in pain and he was laughing taking his revenge , she saw Jagya on death bed  this Ratan tried to kill him , she  saw him abusing Jagya crossing all limits  I cannot expect ganga the wounded woman to forget all this in a minute and help poor Ratan  Ganga is justified 

Ratan got a great karmic slap  Karma is surely a bi***Evil Smile He made Jagya and Ganga suffer refused to save Mannu's life He enjoyed their pain , he abused Jagya and grabbed his collar and ordered him and his family not to say anything otherwise he will not save Mannu 's life He ordered Jagya and Ganga to stay away from Mannu forever only then he will save Mannu now  tch tch tch he himself is dying and desperate for same child Mannu to meet him one last time and will have to beg to Jagya and Ganga but they are not like him they will definitely grant him his wish 

but it is rightfully said karma comes to bite everyone  Ratan tortured Ganga from her childhood very much Kept her away from her son  Never shown any mercy on her now that woman is in better position than him and he needs her mercy to meet with his same son  separating whom from Ganga he tortured Ganga very much even he tortured Jagya very much 

Praise cvs here for this writing Just keep Anandi and her pathetic greatness out of this track it will be worth watching track then 


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What i find shocking to read here   is  Ratan Singh never showed any mercy on Ganga , was cruel to her Soul shakes on writing what what wrong he has done to her never showed any mercy on her but now when he is in pain some people want Ganga to melt immediately otherwise they will call her selfish , bad , pathetic what not  So Ratan Singh has got sainthood status too for bashing Ganga  Shocked!!!!!!!!!!!!

While Ratan made JaGan suffer a lot to save Mannu's life He tortured them and even ordered them to quietly take all his abuses and also stay away from Mannu forever and give him to him only then he will give his bone marrow to mannu  That was i guess ok for people that now they are bashing Ganga to melt down easily and fulfill this man's wish 

Sigh!!!!!!!!!! shocked really shocked 


Anandi ji is so called poor woman who did not think about Mannu's parents at all before giving promise to ratan , did not think about Mannu too and gave promise to Ratan 

O  poor Anandi cannot refuse then how she refused to her crying , begging mother How she refused to her parents and did not go with them and stayed with Singhs only How she did that Hmm she cannot refuse Wacko  

She could tell to Ratan ask from Jagya and Ganga but they can help you in this but she thinks Jagya and Ganga are her puppets they will dance her tunes thats why she gave promise to Ratan  without asking from them Thumbs Down


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i agree that ganga is not wrong if she doesn't want ratan 2 meet mannu. why shud she??
and A is wrong  as who has given her rite 2 make promises on behalf of JaGan??

why ppl  r assuming that A took care of JaGan kids wen shes doing her MBBS??so she has  rite & ganga shudn't mind. post leap i din't see any scene where its shown mannu & abhi r close 2 either DS or A.they r close 2 their parents .and if A'd taken care of them then mannu & abhi wud'd been close 2 A more than ganga bcoz 8yrs r v.long time. i lived earlier wid my GM for 2 yrs afrom 9 months & then wid my father as my parents  were posted at difft places.my mom was posted at faraway place. after that my parents lived 2gether.so i was more close 2 my GM & father but my GM was in village so i cudn't tell her all things or discuss anything but i shared my all probs etc wid my father 1st then wid my mother.
so its clear that A din't take care of JaGan's kids & JaGan themselves raised their kids alongwid ganga doing her MBBS.

and if A brought back mannu from ratan earlier does it give A rites 2 take decisions & make promises over JaGan?? if 2marrow ganga accidentally meet nandini & brougt her 2 A  risking her life does that mean she can take decisions & make promises on behalf of A like did/does??

and no1 likes 2 hav interference in their prsnl lives. its fine 4 sumtime but not always .even siblings don't like it.

A shud'd simply told ratan that she will/can talk 2 JaGan but rest is in their hands.but no A had 2 make promise.then she shud'd told this  2 JaGan & after that its up2 J 2 convince ganga.
and i think ganga will agree in the end.


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This is 'everybody loves Anandi' show. There are certain guidelines to follow if you want to be liked by audience:
 
1) never, remembe,r never ever bash Anandi. She might be illogical, naive and annoying but she has a pure heart of gold. She forgave a drug-giving crimial, waited for her to drug some other members of family before any action is taken against her, lost her girl because of her foolishness and now tries to be the decision maker but you must have the ability to understand her reasons.

2)Being selfless like her. You have to forgive your abusers even if you don't the heart to do so. becoz Anandi says so. How can you be in her show and not do what she says?

3) Be like her. Learn to cook food, make tea and do many other things like her. If  you don't learn to be like her and make the mistake of  haveing your own independent thinking then you might meet the same fate as Gauri.

Now since Ganga has not followed these rules she needs to be punished, bashed and get tagged by the viewers. That's how BV works.

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Originally posted by libsrocks

This is 'everybody loves Anandi' show. There are certain guidelines to follow if you want to be liked by audience:
 
1) never, remembe,r never ever bash Anandi. She might be illogical, naive and annoying but she has a pure heart of gold. She forgave a drug-giving crimial, waited for her to drug some other members of family before any action is taken against her, lost her girl because of her foolishness and now tries to be the decision maker but you must have the ability to understand her reasons.

2)Being selfless like her. You have to forgive your abusers even if you don't the heart to do so. becoz Anandi says so. How can you be in her show and not do what she says?

3) Be like her. Learn to cook food, make tea and do many other things like her. If  you don't learn to be like her and make the mistake of  haveing your own independent thinking then you might meet the same fate as Gauri.

Now since Ganga has not followed these rules she needs to be punished, bashed and get tagged by the viewers. That's how BV works.
perfectly said .
and u know Ganga is wrong & Aji is rite. and ganga was/is trying 2 b "mahaan" & gud  which shes not .and only AJi's gudness & mahantaa is genuine. ganga is faking.if she doesn't like Aji's interference in her prsnl matters then shes heartless & faking gudness.
this is also a rule of this forum.

and if ganga'd done like Aji did wid amol or nay oder kid of Ajis & Aji wudn't'd wanted then ganga wud'd been fried..

and saying that J wud'd done the same is difft matter. hes mannu's father & adopted him & ahs half rites on him while Aji has no rite on mannu.

but no shes rite bcoz she gave "promise" 2  a prsn whos on death bed. how can any1 like such interference?? if i wud'd been at ganga's place i wud'd reacted the same & said same things 2 Aji but that doesn't mena Aji is sum actually mahaan.s he fakes the mahanta oderwise wants oder ppl 2 follow her blindly & oders shudn't've their own POVs.

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