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Posted: 8 years ago
Let us say Anandi was wrong in promising a dying man that she would arrange a meeting with his son. So Anandi will not be able to fulfil her promise. And this will be one more in a long list of wrongs that se would have done to people. And she will suffer a little more than what she is already doing.

But there was another promise made to Ratan wherein Anandi had no role to play.

This was a promise that Ganga made to Ratan in front of Jagya and Ratan's parents that he could meet Mannu whenever he wanted to.

Ratan chose not to exercise that right all these years.

Now Ratan has expressed a desire to meet his son. Medium was Anandi, but could have been Bimla.

And Ganga is refusing to entertain this desire of a father (howsoever bad he had been, and he was bad, undoubtedly) to whom she had promised visiting rights knowing his background.

Are we to presume that Ganga did not mean what she had said that time. Was that a hollow promise, a spur of the moment thing? Just because she was so overwhelmed that he gave up Mannu, she was ready to promise anything without realising the future consequences of her words.

This is what Jagya told her too. She speaks without thinking about the long-term ramifications.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: RTee

Let us say Anandi was wrong in promising a dying man that she would arrange a meeting with his son. So Anandi will not be able to fulfil her promise. And this will be one more in a long list of wrongs that se would have done to people. And she will suffer a little more than what she is already doing.

But there was another promise made to Ratan wherein Anandi had no role to play.

This was a promise that Ganga made to Ratan in front of Jagya and Ratan's parents that he could meet Mannu whenever he wanted to.

Ratan chose not to exercise that right all these years.

Now Ratan has expressed a desire to meet his son. Medium was Anandi, but could have been Bimla.

And Ganga is refusing to entertain this desire of a father (howsoever bad he had been, and he was bad, undoubtedly) to whom she had promised visiting rights knowing his background.

Are we to presume that Ganga did not mean what she had said that time. Was that a hollow promise, a spur of the moment thing? Just because she was so overwhelmed that he gave up Mannu, she was ready to promise anything without realising the future consequences of her words.

This is what Jagya told her too. She speaks without thinking about the long-term ramifications.

So true. Ganga would have reacted the same way even if Bimla had come to meet her.So it  has got less to do with Anandi's promise which she had no business to make but more to do with Ganga not wanting to fulfil the promise that she made to Ratan all those years ago.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Acc to the track with Ratan and his parents earlier shown, Ganga should have no problem agreeing to Ratan - Mannu meeting. But CVs post leap have changed so much in Ganga, its quite obvious for drama sake they are doing this. Ganga is wrong right now acc to me not agreeing to this. But anandi is also wrong in taking decision on completely unrelated matter.
 
But even if Ganga had agreed to this immly, Anandi had no right to make a promise. She made a promise. She didn't say she  will inform JaGan and convince or something.
 
 
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Posted: 8 years ago
Yes Anandi is wrong ... How can she expect others should be behave just like her
 
If Anandi choose to forgive people even they made her life miserable ... Rest can't
 
 
Anandi zeal of help those are needy on cost her own life or her own kid life rest can't
 
Anandi stopped being so stupid expect rest follow your path ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
While Anandi's wishes to fulfil a dying man's wish was not wrong in principle nobody is saying that she is right in making that promise without consulting the concerned people.

She could have just promised him to do her best and left it at that instead of promising that she would make the meet happen.
While making this promise she only brought trouble on herself and will have to bear all kinds of insults and humiliations
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Posted: 8 years ago
We are losing the wood in search of trees.

Here anandi's right or her vachan has no importance. The actual matter is meeting of mannu with ratan which ganga does not want.

As usual, the actual matter is sidestepped and blaming anandi starts.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: aparnauma

While Anandi's wishes to fulfil a dying man's wish was not wrong in principle nobody is saying that she is right in making that promise without consulting the concerned people.


She could have just promised him to do her best and left it at that instead of promising that she would make the meet happen.
While making this promise she only brought trouble on herself and will have to bear all kinds of insults and humiliations


True, she was wrong to promise and she has admitted the same. She said she had no right to do so but could not disappoint a dying man. Another black mark in her looong list of black marks.


But the question is that can Ganga overlook this request from a father to whom she herself promised meeting rights.

To keep Mannu alive, Ganga, the selfless mother, was ready to hand over his custody to this horrible man. Now her fear of the truth coming out is holding her back from granting Mannu's father one meeting.
Posted: 8 years ago
Ratan who is dying why did he wait for so long. And only wants to meet mannu when he sees anandi
Ratan could have come on his own. Anandi should not have promised. She should have said I will try
 If things were so simple then how can there be ganga anandi cat fight
Jagya will also not Find it wrong. And ganga will have more reason to raise finger against jagya anandi relationship. Hope this will make anandi take a step not to stay under same roof.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

We are losing the wood in search of trees.

Here anandi's right or her vachan has no importance. The actual matter is meeting of mannu with ratan which ganga does not want.

As usual, the actual matter is sidestepped and blaming anandi starts.

 
 
Ganga's current problem is about her rights and anandi's interference in her life(by anandi or because of others). So here actual matter is about anandi's interference as well. When her interference is not welcome, she should not interfere.
 
Ganga could be more adamant because it was anandi who told about Ratan - mannu meet. Maybe she would have agreed easily if Jagya had met Ratan and is favor of Ratan-Mannu meeting. Ocourse it is biased attitude, but that's how ppl are mostly. Even good thing is said by someone you don't like, ppl don't take it.
 
Also by making promise, CVs made it her track when track is all about JaGan and their kid. How is that acceptable. Its a serial its not real happening. CVs intentions will be taken into account.
 
Blaming anandi starts? Ganga is not blamed here - is it? Why is anandi being blamed so hurtful even when it is her fault!
 
 
 
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes Anandi is wrong ... How can she expect others should be behave just like her

 
If Anandi choose to forgive people even they made her life miserable ... Rest can't
 
 
Anandi zeal of help those are needy on cost her own life or her own kid life rest can't
 
Anandi stopped being so stupid expect rest follow your path ...

 
 
Exactly! Noone should expect others to have their morals and values. Ppl have different values based on their experiences and what they learnt from it. Forcing their opinion on others is wrong. I have my opinion but I can't expect others to have the same opinion.