Posted: 03 May 2015 at 2:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by xaviara
Originally posted by harisha_kb
My take on abhi character...
Posted it already in the previous pages... Posting if again for Navz...
Watched some of the previous episodes and now I am totay convinced with abhi behaviour( no, not tad I am convinced he is right but I am convinced tad he did what he does always)
Abhi shouting at pragya shows he doesn't love her properly. This was wat I felt before watching the episode but I changed my opinion after watching it...
Ignoring Abhigya and coming to abhirab.
Purab was abhi friend for the past 20+ years but still he misunderstood him many times ( ofcourse the circumstances and purab behaviour too)
The day he knew purab is in love with some one he don't bother to question purab he immediately hit him.from that day till the scene on the ledge..
Frankly how did he think purab will make her stand on the ledge risking her life..
The reason why I took all this is. Abhi reaction to pragya was v much his character. He shouted at her to vent out his anger but he dint mean anything ( bts .. He is not hating her .. Ofcourse there is some sarcasm but I don't expect him to be lovey dovey )
Finally even after being married for years or having kids and being with her in everything . He is going to be the same ... He is going to shout at her when he is irritated. He is going to hurt her and later realise he is wrong..
I don't think we will get to see purab type(who is cool and composed )abhi at all in the show. We may see abhi act smart once a while..
Though I want to see abhi being smart and sensible I doubt my dream will come true..
A person with arrogance or ego or impulsive behaviour or lack of patience are problematic and abhi has all the above characteristics ..
I don't know whether his love for pragya will change him. I don't know whether I want him to change or not..
Because I love him this way.. I love hating him when he is indifferent to pragya ., I love to bash him when he acts dumb..if he is too much lovey dovey it will be boring for me..
Ps: thanks for reading this. I don't know why I wrote this LOL
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Thank you so much for posting this again for me Rishu, and I agree with you. Abhi is very impulsive, so he has a tendency to react without thinking. He usually flies of the handle in a moments time.
After reading the LU of the anti confession scene, I was upset and angry, but when I watched the episode the next day, I could see that both Pragya and Abhi were extremely consistent in their characters. I think the only thing which disturbed me was the fact that Pragya was being blamed for acting according to her values. If Abhi has the right to react impulsively and misunderstand the people he loves, then Pragya has the right to make decisions based on her values and beliefs.</font>
I can connect to abhi easily navz because I am almost like him.. When I get angry I talk nonsense and I have lost many friends due to my anger and impulsiveness ... I tried to changes but couldn't.. May be we cannot change wat comes with us from birth..
But me personally I cannot connect with pragya at all . The sacrifice , the selfless love , the heart to forgive .. I don't have any of these .. May be tads the reason I cannot accept wat she did... Still I believe she would have told him directly rather than doing this..,
But she is the heroine and heroines are always mahan .. So she did this.. I don't care now as he is not believing her completly..