We all know how much Seetha loved Pratyusha... she wrote so
many beautiful post praising her favorite actress, who was a reason why Seetha come on HHN Forum.
Here is what she wrote about Pratyusha....
She is an
ideal character for me and A Diva !
Whenever i watched her action ...always feel that she is the epitome of the talent !
What a beauty and what a way of emoting the feelings in different situations !
Today's episode ...she presented in a commendable manner ! See her screen presence ...her musical voice ...every word was clearly heard ... excellent control on pitch and pause system!
She is born for stealing the show and for grabbing the attention !
Compassionate actress ... with commendable acting skills!
There is a natural aristocracy and a rustic beauty in her . There is a plethora of talent ...a unique personal and interpersonal skills ,... as an actress she displayed it in different occasions!
No other actress can or ever will compare herself with our highly talented Pratyusha
Suchitra Sen :--- She is famous for showing subtle and fiercest...romantic and matured...feelings ...instantaneously...and have a rare quality of changing expressions at ease...at no time even the camera will fumble to catch those feelings at that speed !! Suchitra mostly exhibited grit and determination through the characters she portrayed, sometimes tending to be overly confident! Admirably this pretty girl is as talented as Suchitra !! And -I sometimes feel that as if I am watching her as a teenage girl...because surprisingly she resembles Suchitra too!??
You are beauty personified...attractive and dignified ..
Like a rare species of an exotic flower ... One of a kind and unique!
You possess soothing traits that give peace and pleasure to our senses
A natural beauty without any synthetic pretensions!
A heart of gold which enhances the value of every person around you
You possess talent and grace , who knows your rightful place ..
Your words are like musical melodies...
Your smiles are like mist-filled mornings with warm sun rays ..
Your every move reminds a dancing peacock's charming steps ..
How wonderful it is to see angelic beauty in an eternal frame! .
Always greeting every one you meet with warmth ,
With a nod of your head and a smile on your face.
Lucky we are, to have come across you, though not face to face!
But have visual treat with your acting talent's festive feast !
Credit: Bikica ❤️
Seetha was here from the day one, all excited with a divine
possibility to see Prats back on the TV screen...We all remember her childlike
enthusiasm during the LUs, her beautiful posts, her kind and caring nature...
Here is what she posted on 1st of September,2014, when HHN started to air...
Here is my enchantress ...her musical voice , expressive eyes ...what else we want ...feeling as if witnessing a celestial marvel !
Her voice is always musical ...She is immensely talented actress -- There is
something unique in her expressions---her way of running is just like a dancing
breeze-- so gentle...---her smile depicts thousand statements...on any subject
...her expressive eyes signals triumph or surprise - sorrow or furore--with her
body language she can emote sensationally!!! in one word --an excellent
actress...too precious to miss !!
She is the queen of expressions !
Lovely couple with great screen presence !
Sagarika .. already started loving you as Bunty's Balika !
And yes... Sagarika's Bunty has all sparks in his eyes for her!
KD's acting is very good ...a magnetic spark in his eyes !
Bunty ji ...the first flushes of romance are clearly visible...flashing on your face ...having a walking goddess next to you ...can seem like a dream to you ... but not an easy task to tackle !
Romantic demands will be there from her lovely looks ...but respect for other one's time and feelings will also be there in her ...the whole world revolves around her ...some of the issues you will have to face routinely ..trust me dear ...it gets interesting ...very fast ...you have to cope-up with your heart and your whole being , her enthralling smiles , her mesmerizing musical words and her lovely expressions will surely destabilize you !
But ...but ,relax ...your lady knows how to strike a balance !! Yes ...she cares about her appearance [Payal and pallu entanglement ] and her own comfort but at the same time knows how to take care of the tender feelings of her near ones too !
She likes to be pampered ...but the good news is ...she is ready to return it too !!
So be prepared for the upcoming events and ...its everlasting impacts !
Edited by Sneha...Love - 9 years ago
A love triangle or rather a romantic love triangle is usually a romantic relationship involving three people ...Bunty , satya Saga ---then Saga Ari and Bunty !While it can refer to two people independently romantically linked with a third, it usually implies that each of the three people has some kind of relationship to the other two. The relationships can be friendships, romantic, or may be need based too !!
Although the romantic love triangle is formally identical to the friendship triad, as many have noted their actual implications are quite different...Romantic love is typically viewed as an exclusive relationship, whereas friendship is not. Satya is a good friend of Bunty but now a jealous person ...after realising the competition !
Two main forms of love triangle have been distinguished here ! There is the rivalrous triangle, where the lover is competing with a rival for the love of the beloved, [Satya ] and the split-object triangle, where a lover has split their attention between two love objects[ Bunty ]In order to love fully, you have to become love itself !That's what happening here ! At present they are carried away by the first ever romantic moment s in their life , learning new lessons ,and most importantly matching their rhythms to the feelings which invades them ...love is a quest --a search ...a never ending beautiful search !
A twister in a T shirt !
A test with a shirt !--where ,a man always love to lose ...a perennial loser in that life long test ...!
A man's dilemma... a wife's longing to win over her man...a mother's plight to show her might ...shirt the teaser ...mischievously bend it's head for Ashirwad before the mother ..and romantically love to lose itself to steal some ''hugs and kisses ''-
Man ...thy name is a chaser to lose ...and woman you are the loser in every victory by losing yourself !
A mother's longing looks for her son ..who is in the process of losing himself in the love of his maiden !
As preparations for the wedding got underway, many mothers of sons , struggle with tension between their desire to be a "good mother" and the challenge of defining their role with respect to their child's wedding and her future role !
The mothers clearly wanted to have some
role in the planning and
in the actual wedding event. ...and in the later part of their
offspring's life too !However, it is always not clear what this
role should be, and who or what defined this role ,she ,her son or
her Bahu ? The inability to define her role was often emotionally
difficult for the mother of the groom !Every mother thinks , she
wanted to be involved with her son's life at every step , yet he
could not actually come and say I want you beside me mum !. She, from
a distance helplessly watching her son who is busy in impressing his
newly found romantic bundle !Here the mother-of-the-groom is feeling
that ..she lost her control over her toddler ,. This mother's looks are
stated, "I could tell ,she didn't really want my presence . I also
knew she didn't allow my son to come near me ...she deliberately
want to hurt my feelings! I tried to support her with minimal
resentment. I wanted it to be wonderful for them...but ..but they are
ignoring my presence ...neglecting me...have to do something now ..to
make them realise my importance !She felt angry and disappointed, with a
sense of purposelessness, and expressed irritation that her Bahu is
getting more attention from her son than her ...this feeling , by
evaluating positions ...is the starting point
of the misunderstanding and a life long tussle .. a vigorous
psychological struggle , typical in Indian households ,in order to
obtain control over the precious son/husband ! Man ..thy name is a
divider ..but always an inheritor of love from either side !
Posted: 21 October 2014 at 12:49pm | IP Logged
😊Have seen many heart felt feelings here 🤗... though ...in every household it is common ,but everywhere with egos hurt .. a sort of confusion ...strong will to win over the situation ..but longing for the association of the concerned person [A son ,a husband !]If you are feeling hurt, and in pain, right now, you may feel angered , it ruined the subtle relationships !
In my case ...dealt with many a situations in my stories in Telugu ..wanted to seal that issue forever !
In the first day itself ...I declared ---be passive or evasive but never support either of us ...I can tackle any situation in a subtle manner ...have faith in me and in my convincing capability .
Yes ...she overstepped many a times ---with a smile..slipped aside and later he faced the music behind the closed door conference ...in the same manner she too tried to influence him ...but till date as usual everywhere ...he always supported the person who is at present in his presence and later did amendments with the other!
If any newly married bride is here ...here is my advise ---win him with a smile , try to convince her in a docile way ..then rule the roost my dear queen of the house ?!!! Always try to avoid confrontation with either of them ...his shoulder or the chest is always there to rest your head ...so, try more to mesmerize her [no mother of him will agree with the Dil ..when she was in her senses best !] with small or great goodwill gestures...after all ...she is the life giver of your other- half ...and make him realise that you are the guiding force from then on wards !
Posted: 26 October 2014 at 4:17pm | IP LoggedIt is true , one has to safegaurd the
relationship with utmost care ...modern world is giving opportunities
to the son to move out of the nest with his wife ,and love to build his
own world ...where ,he will be happily ever after with his wife and a
mother is an occasional visitor, and as beautifully described by Gina
,logical thinking by a son is giving enough space to both the parties
...to adopt ...to adjust and to define their roles in a man's life !
Posted: 26 October 2014 at 4:26pm | IP Logged
Here the culprit is love ...one has to feel guilty for their longing ...over--possessiveness ! The key to overcoming over-possessiveness is truly establishing trust! If both people have an understanding of one another, then there is no reason to be possessive !Besides, if you cannot establish this trust ,then you will never have a relationship ...trust and bonding ...which are very much needed to any successful relationship ...that will last... a life time !
Posted: 26 October 2014 at 4:44pm | IP Logged
Means a well Defined family ! Love to hear this ! 🤗If
three people are at one place ...small differences are bound to be
there ! But we have the capability to deal with them in an adjustable
manner !!!
Posted: 27 October 2014 at 12:30pm | IP Logged
I think when there is a clash between the 'mother ' and 'wife ,' the husband often takes his mother's side. Why is this so? It happens mostly in India and other Asian countries ...because of the societal influencess and the ritualisic way of bonding of a son with his mother since childhood !
According
to me the husband would either stay out of the picture, or would try
and mediate a reconciliation!Some men adopt this policy at home as well,
and prefer staying out of squabbles between the mother and
daughter-in-law. But many men get into the thick of things, and try
playing judge or placing the blame - and all too often the blame falls
on the wife and that is the main reason for breaking up of
relationships !
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/4208380
Yesterday's son re-entered in to the arena ...but yet to prove himself as a man to his wife !
He saw her ... draw her attention ..washed her feet ...adorned them with Payal... shown his biceps...followed her ,cornered her with an ice-cream cone ...conquered her love ...married her ...a vow here and a bow there ...but love where ..where ..seems nowhere !Left as a dry husband ...
The other side of the story so far !
She saw him while lifting his mother ...adored him for his compassion ...
Loved him for his raising power from the flowing river ..admired him for his manly overture ...
A quiver in her heart ..a shower of stars from her eyes ..saw him flutter with wings -around her !
An ice cream here and a pan there ...her eyes followed him everywhere ...
Lost herself in his love ...thought that she is the queen of his world ...
Married him with great expectations ..now watching the exploitations with aghast ...
Left her as a prey to his mother ..dismayed with his dismal performance ...
Now what ? Asking the bride's eyes ! A new hat on mother's head to count ...
With a twisted mind the groom left there !
Time and again we the viewers are asking ...what next ? What next ... though knowing fully well that nothing left ...yet to celebrate!
Edited by Sneha...Love - 9 years agoLove A Misty Quest ! SagUn OS
Winter was slowly unfurling it's veil on the city of Varanasi making the city look hazy !
Sagarika and ShivPrasad aka Bunty went out to attend a birthday party ! Everybody there appreciated Sagarika's singing talent. Shiv also heard her melodious voice for the first time and realized her deep connect to music and her extraordinary sense of rhythm !
While coming back from the function it was half past seven and the sudden fog which was advancing from the river side made the visibility zero...it was very difficult to drive the bike too!
Shiv said ''it will be difficult to drive in this haze... your house is nearer to this place ...let us stay there for tonight and will go to our place tomorrow morning - the morning Sun rays will ward off the haze ..then we can proceed further , what do you say!"
She immediately agreed with glee ! Within minutes they reached her house . While entering in to the porch ..she touched the flowers which were swaying in that evening time as if eager to touch her hand to say hello to her ! A sort of happiness filled her heart ! Pub opened the door and her delighted squeal drew all the members in to the front room ! Her father shouted ..Arika ![ Means ...a complete ruler ...a purple flower too!] and hugged her with affection ...he always loved to call her by that name ...but her mother used to love calling by her full name Sagarika , meaning the Ocean Princess !
''Came out in the evening dad ,but the wind and fog are very severe ...so came here to stay with you all tonight !" --she declared .
Chatarjee's face glowed with happiness ...went inside the kitchen to prepare something special for his daughter, followed by Arika. They were talking non-stop while preparing ...intermittent laughs and some teasing and shouting ...!Shiv started feeling lonely there in the living room . Watching his wife like a child running from him to her people in the kitchen ...for a while he felt loneliness but slowly he realized her plight in his house! It was difficult for him to bear her absence! He has seen her original form of happiness in this free environment and realized how she must be feeling for not getting due importance and priority from him as compared to his mother!
Many topics were discussed at the dining table ...Mr Chatarjee was in exhilaration ,because his daughter is at home with her husband !
Shiv dialed to his house and explained to his mother the situation and their decision to stay back there.
Madhav was there and he grabbed the phone from Ammaji and said ''Bhaiyya ..I have friends there who have both Mercedes and Road Rollers too... which one you want I will arrange with in minutes ! In this atmosphere Road Roller is safest ...It knows only paving the ways , no accidents ever ! Shall I ask a road roller for both of you for safe journey ?'' Bunty shouted, 'If you don't shut your mouth I will press your shirt under that RR with you in it !''---
Ammaji proudly said to Mishraji that her son loves her most by seeking her permission to go to his in- laws' place!
After hearing this conversation , Mishraji suddenly went in to his mother's room and sat on her bed near her feet !
'Ma ...today Bunty made me realize the importance of the parents in a son's life !Tomorrow I will go and meet Papa and will be there till he agrees to come with me !'
'Your father is so adamant to yield ...do you want to stay there for the rest of your life ? I won't agree with that idea ...I always love to see my son be happy with his wife and children ! I don't want you to suffer for me, to satisfy our egos ...I can't even imagine you to move away from your wife and family ! Go and sleep my son' ..she kissed him on his forehead and blessed him ! With tears in his eyes he came out , but before going in to his room he said 'I will go to father's place tomorrow !'
Ammaji was stunned ...now a son's love for his father is going to claim her happiness , she was in a helpless condition ...was in great stress ,but she has seen a mother's real love and realized her mistake !
Amma's eyes were lowered with shame...from her Mil she realized the real role of a mother!Sharing gives us immense happiness ...drawing curtains between a precious relation is a mean deed ..now she is repenting !
In that mood she went in to her Mil's room and asked her for the torn pure silk saris for givingthem for repair !
''Maaji !...Satya is doing a good work in this respect !..I am giving her a few of mine ...though there is no need of wearing them ...but we normally love to keep them to cherish our memories!''--
Satya came there to see whether Bunty and Sagarika came back or not ! Ammaji shoved that heap in her hands and said ''you did a great job to my saree ...so do the needful work on these too ! do it immediately!I want to wrap those saris and put them in the cupboard before the winter approached , to keep them safe '' ! Satya was left there in that room with that heap with stunned looks ! Ratna and Swara who were watching from a distance thoroughly enjoyed the scene!
Bunty called again and asked his father whether he has taken the tablets or not and inquired about his mother's pains ! Mishraji said 'nothing to worry about anybody and spend time happily there instead!'
Ammaji was sitting on the bed and thinking about her husband...'' He too loves his parents ...but he left them for her sake ! What she herself did to her son ? Depriving the young couple from having the conjugal bliss..'' She shook her head with guilt and shame ! She decided to decorate the room for the kids tomorrow night with her own hands ...so that she can elevate her position from that of a mean MIL to a loving mother !!
Bunty looked at Arika and smiled ..
She asked him whether he informed his mother or not ?
'Yes Arika ! Because of fog we have to stay overnight here '--he understood her question in a different way !
He tried to hug her ..she distanced herself from him and said ''first get your mother's permission ,what we have to do and what not !Till then ...''--
It is your house Arika ! I have given Vachan [promise ] to your father before marriage and during the rituals too that ...I will always keep you happy !Here I have to keep that promise !'
With wide eyes she was trying to analyze his mischievous words !
'Really Arika ...I want to fulfill the promise I made to your father ...it is my duty !''
'Then again tomorrow will you follow the wishes of Ammaji ?'
A sudden seriousness descended on his face ! 'Sagarika ...after tonight ...you will become a total woman, a ruler of my life !The marriage rituals never made a girl into a woman ..it is only a pathway ..to a would be mother of my children ...in that way you will be the queen of my life ...you will be the future of mine !'
She was slowly realizing ...the veils are dropping one after the other ... only she and he ...nothing in between
A whisper from him ...''Love is a quest ..love is a test ...let us move in to that arena as a couple to adorn the stars into our eyes , let us write our own love story as we wish !''--The man in him was inviting her in to his life with zest !
Love was radiating from their hearts in to their bodies as desires ..time was moving with a smile ..the expression of love is still to reveal ..yet to manifest ...beneath the moonlight the stars were jealous of the way she moved .. her sweet smile reflected as a flash of lightning and many flowers in her heart were trying to bloom. Then she rested her head on the shoulder of her man , her hands nestled in his hair,his intense desire was shining by the light of the moon...
Just a kiss on her lips in that moonlight, just a touch in the fire burning so bright ... invisible ocean of moonlight .. spreading it's waves everywhere ...
.. The world slips away as the love dance in the fire .in anticipation of the red flame, that melts an iron will. A small quiver of her touch, eyes closed, hearts alive. Spirits flying, the senses aching to feast, souls embracing one another. Entwined together their bodies joyfully singing romantic songs. A powerful union illuminating them, innocently calling, erupting from within, & spreading infinitely into a timeless passion... the eternal love never known before...her arms become garlands in his neck ...his hands encircled around her waist... the hapless space lost it's actuality ..she was listening enchanting music from his fingers...he was seeing heavens in her eyes...there was no need to speak the rest ...it is the joy ...they were swaying in the dreams with misty wings and became an image of themselves, though separate ...yet most intimate ...an ultimate state of unison of two bodies and minds !
Needless to say, the rays of the rising Sun in the morn would blast the haze around and present a perfect environ for the lotuses to bloom and the bees to boom!
They set out for their home the next day with a sense of fulfillment, unaware that their 'true love' already triumphed over the rigidness of Ammaji who was eager to atone her guilt and that a ceremonial welcome awaits them!!!If fishes are wishes ...don't display it on the table ! To fish or not to fish ...
when in doubt , wade in the water for a while ! That is what the HHN people are doing through Mishra family !!
So everybody has a point to prove ...and the Pandora's box is trying to open itself in between !
Sometimes you really have to squirm to get off the hook !That is what Bunty is doing nowadays !
At the sound of a MIL's name even the fish on the table will tremble !
Fish ..Fish in the brook , Pinto catch him on a hook !
Mamma cry foul and fry her Dil in long wait !Baby Bunty tries to eat from both the plates ..but lost from both sides !
Left there as a hungry bird...but knows that his parrot is cooing from the other side ,
Yes ...men and fish are alike ...they both get in to trouble when they open their mouths !Tall fish tales told here ...water in between ...wading through is the hardest part for Bunty ...
I feel ..both Ammaji and Pinto are at fault today !
Pinto is at fault first ...knowing fully well that they are pure vegetarians ,bringing fish on the table is not at all culture and etiquette ...in the same way after hearing his words as a good luck Amulet [Shagun !] Ammaji has to leave that place with a dignified smile ,asking for an excuse and she has to sit in the drawing room without making any fuss ...yes ..she has every right to scold her son afterwords[after coming back to her home !] for pressing her to come over there ,knowing fully well about her reservations ! I expected the creatives to deal with that situation in a dignified manner !Yes both sides are at fault and both have a point to make !
Knowing fully well about the strong feelings ,which she openly expressed in front of him in his previous visit to his daughter's house ,why did he put that fish on the table ?If he had ordered the food from a neighbor's house for the sake of Ammaji ,why that fishy display ?Sandesh is also a good SHAGUN to put on the table !
BUT ...one small cultural belief is there ...Bengalis consider Fish as Jalpushp [Water flower !] so they consider it as a vegetable and offer it to Gods at Puja time and offer it to Shraddha...Pitru Paksha too . So here he is not totally at wrong !
A fishy clash created the rift between the newly married couple ,a rift between ''your people ''and ''my people ''...which will take long time to settle !
So a dead fish did all this !!!If it is a face -to - face clash...may the best person win if at all anyone is there ?!!When two people from different backgrounds come together in the name of love, the cultural challenges can seem overwhelming. Many prove to be irreconcilable , but they have to modify some beliefs ,alter some customs !The sum of attitudes, customs, and beliefs that distinguishes one group of people from another----for a happy life ...we have to understand ...we have to adjust and give mutual respect. Reciprocation is a must in inter caste/ cultural marriages !
I hope the writer / Cvs will deal with this sensitive issue in an agreeable way !
