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A tale of two relationships

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 10:28am | IP Logged
Of Paro & Varun, and their shared dreams of a future together and sweet child-like innocence.Of believing in the concept of falling in love, for hoping that this marriage will be forever.

Of Rudra & Laila, of fragrant nights, of shared beds & pillow, of the days after that they don't embrace together.


In normal circumstances, I should be more hopeful of the former & appreciate it more. But I cant.

Somehow at this stage I'm more comfortable with Rudra & Laila's relationship as a known enemy is far worse than an unknown friend. Somehow I just cannot get myself to believe in a relationship where the 2 adults know nothing of each other and yet decide to share the rest of their lives together.

But I understand this is the fate of so many young girls back home. I hope their child like belief in such marriages is upheld and their husbands give them the love & respect they deserve.


Edited by Naach_Basanti - 07 January 2014 at 11:37am

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 10:51am | IP Logged
Well said NB

Part of the arranged marriage is , you have to open up yourself in front of complete stranger to be judged.


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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 10:56am | IP Logged
An arranged marriage is a gamble ... 
if you are lucky you hit the jackpot and get a good husband  LOL
But God forbid ... he turns out to be a womaniser ... a drunkard ... Shocked
You are in for trouble ... 
This one organised by Thakursa seems like an exchange of Paro for ammunition ... 
I too would definitely vouch for Rudra-Laila pair than Paro-Varun's ... LOL

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 11:14am | IP Logged
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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 11:41am | IP Logged
I agree.  It seems that the sweetness of Paro's and Varun's feelings are overshadowed by the fact that they have no history, and no knowledge of each other.  But at the moment he seems genuine and if he is, his loss will be even worse for Paro to deal with.

Edited by vena.cava. - 07 January 2014 at 1:32pm

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 11:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Kishmish

An arranged marriage is a gamble ... 
if you are lucky you hit the jackpot and get a good husband  LOL
But God forbid ... he turns out to be a womaniser ... a drunkard ... Shocked
You are in for trouble ... 
This one organised by Thakursa seems like an exchange of Paro for ammunition ... 
I too would definitely vouch for Rudra-Laila pair than Paro-Varun's ... LOL


But with a lot of arranged marriage these days, at least the boy & girls spend some time together in the form of a courtship period and are at least familiar with each other. But in the case of Paro & Varun its literally the case of taking the lamb to the slaughterhouse.

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 11:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by vena.cava.

I agree.  It seems that the sweetness of Paro's and Varun's feelings are overshadowed by the fact that they have no history, and no knowledge of each other.  But at the moment he seems genuine and if he is, his loss will be even worse for Paro to deal with.


That's the thing. I just cant relate to it having known my husband all my life as a friend and having dated him before marrying him.

To me that is far worse and scary than the relationship Rudra and Laila have. Because at least with the later you know where you stand.

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 11:46am | IP Logged
My beliefs are similar to yours NB ...but seen some wonderful arranged marriages amongst my friends also ...so I guess its the way the dice rolls in one's life i guess ...and the fate that one has in store Smile

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