Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
I married a guy 3 years younger to me...when I told My parents before introducing him they were skeptical but after meeting him they were fine...Initially there are various things which goes in the minds of parents. ...like due to age ga o will they be compatible. ...if the guy is younger is he well settled...does he have the requisite maturity to handle a relationship. ...is he sensible enough to take that decision and it's not a spur of the moment.
This would be foolish to think that such a relationship will not be questioned by parents...Similarly...guys parents would like yo know of the girl is serious for the guy...is she of an understanding nature to adjust with a younger guy...is she too dominant that the son is son is under her influence which will effect the marriage later...
I discussed this with my hubby yday while watching the show. He was very amused with my liking for YG😳 😆 I told him...u think from the point of view of a father...if our son brings a girl 7 yrs older to him will u agree ?? He immediately said a big NO.
initially they will show concern about it...but i think finally they will agree ...if they see that we both are serious about the relation. If other side parents also have no problem then ...100 % yes...I CAN SAY THIS ABOUT MY PARENTS...
Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
I married a guy 3 years younger to me...when I told My parents before introducing him they were skeptical but after meeting him they were fine...Initially there are various things which goes in the minds of parents. ...like due to age ga o will they be compatible. ...if the guy is younger is he well settled...does he have the requisite maturity to handle a relationship. ...is he sensible enough to take that decision and it's not a spur of the moment.
This would be foolish to think that such a relationship will not be questioned by parents...Similarly...guys parents would like yo know of the girl is serious for the guy...is she of an understanding nature to adjust with a younger guy...is she too dominant that the son is son is under her influence which will effect the marriage later...
Originally posted by: koyelbasu
Really, nice to know this. 😊
One of my cousin bro also 3yrs younger than my bhabi. Recently, my nephew married to a girl 4yrs elder than him. We accepted them easily.
2 -5 yrs is ok for me but 7 yrs a little much. My daughter is 14 yrs old . I can accept 3/4 yrs younger SIL if the guy is well educated & belongs to an educated family. But, I will be not ok with 7yrs but if he is really good & I feel their bonding , understanding & love is really strong then I have to accept it. But, won't try to separate them because of age gap.
yes but u as a daughter will try to convince them whole heartedly..if ur parents protest or will give in like sanchi...
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