Is Rudra's Character Dheela? - Page 4

Originally posted by: najialuv88

i tried watching him in his previous show but i wasn't interested after two or three episodes plus i didn't persay find him attractive (just a personal thing really) but after this seeing him here i was iffy but actually seeing him, his acting is really, really, really, really good. he emotes with his eyes and to me once u can do that without words im totally sold.

ankita wasn't necessarily the "typical" idk seductress but idk i like her attitude and just think she will be funny and interesting to watch.

good post and no! 😆 he's just a bloke, relationships dont mean anything to him, and he seem's to have been honest with laila. haven't had time to skim thru the forum but i'm guessing people r hating on that scene? i actually thought it was really well done and to the point, leaving no room for interpretation and very nicely laying the foundations of their relationship. and ankita was beyond fabulous. 

Great post. I agree with you

Originally posted by: MissCoco

Not just emoting with his eyes, he says a lot with his body language et all which is pretty impressive.

I haven't yet made an opinion about Ankita. I have a feeling her character will be a fully fledged vamp later on in the show, but hope I'm proved wrong. 

I respect a guy like Rudra for being upfront and honest about the no commitment clause in his life. Let's be realistic; guys like Rudra exist more now, than ever.

Originally posted by: McNinja

He's upfront and honest about where he stands in a relationship. Doesn't lead Laila on by letting her think they are moving any further than what they have at the moment. 

^^I give this honesty preference over this so called notion "untouched, sharif" man. How honest and open a person is says hella more than what they do with another consenting adult.

The whole idea of being the "first" for your one true love is so outdated and has been shown repeatedly throughout the 90s, during the era of the cheesy romantic movies. I prefer some diversity in how different relationships have different dynamics, especially in current times. 

Now this must be my soul sistah! 🤗 My twin sistah.😊  

I absolutely agree with you. I liked the way he made himself clear and didn't pretend to be something that he isn't. He is very open about his relationship and does not want to mislead the woman.

But of course the romantic in us want the first love to be our one and only love. But it doesn't happen that way.   And anyway,  not being the "first" shouldn't really lessen the love in any way. I mean today we fall in love and out of it as quickly as we change sweatshirts. And it is preposterous to believe that you'd hit gold with the first person you fall in love with it. Sadly, all this doesn't happen in real life. You go through a lot of trial and  error before you find the right person.  

So, just because a person was in a relationship with another person previously, doesn't mean he can't do a relationship after it ends.  End being the operative word here. 😆


Edited by ebook-reader - 10 years ago

Originally posted by: stg1

good post and no! 😆 he's just a bloke, relationships dont mean anything to him, and he seem's to have been honest with laila. haven't had time to skim thru the forum but i'm guessing people r hating on that scene? i actually thought it was really well done and to the point, leaving no room for interpretation and very nicely laying the foundations of their relationship. and ankita was beyond fabulous. 

she pulled off looking the part without coming across as a would be vamp. i think she's gonna get her heart broken but it wont be rudra's fault and i think i might even sympathise with her somewhat! women in love never listen to what men say, they always think they can 'change' them - hope they keep her character as one who doesn't want to give him up rather than an out and out vamp, will be refreshing 😊

disclaimer - i am not in love with the parud jodi yet, only with paro, so this may be why i'm not freaking out about rudra having a physical relationship with someone else 😆 i imagine if i loved this jodi obsessively then i would probably be shaking my head saying 'nahiiin!', crying my eyes out and wailing like a banshee 😳 

Originally posted by: Arhi_2205

Great post. I agree with you

Originally posted by: TimelessBeautyy

I respect a guy like Rudra for being upfront and honest about the no commitment clause in his life. Let's be realistic; guys like Rudra exist more now, than ever.

If a guy is a virgin at that age (there are many men who are) - kudos to them.

If a guy wants to pursue as many women as wants - that too, being straightforward about himself; then respect to that too. It's not like he's going behind his girlfriend/wife's back and doing all this; which in my opinion, is very wrong (I've seen this type 🤢). The same would go for women as well. 

I don't think it is a moral issue in any way, it just adds to the drama. They need a good antagonist - Thakur for the overall theme of BSD versus the village and Laila for the Paro and Rudra story.


Edited by asmanichatri - 10 years ago