I'm not even sure where to begin with responding to this post... I think the Topic Maker and subsequent response are losing sight of the larger picture here...
Please bear in mind I'm not trying to disprove anyone's opinion - merely airing my own, no offense intended.
Here are my thoughts - Urmi's behavior is annoying agreed but in the context of the situation and with the way her character has been shown thus far - she is reacting with in the means of the character she has portrayed thus far.
As far as I can see she's not crying buckets cause her husband didn't remove her jewelry or romance her like some over the top 80s/90s hindi movie, she's upset because she is slowly seeing that the person she has considered him to be upto this point is not who he is in reality. Urmi's tears are for the harsh realization that her image of Samrat is far removed from the reality that is Samrat.
Naturally as this is a hindi tv soap - everything has to be dramatized - with the slow movements and inconsolable tears.
I personally do not like Samrat - I do appreciate how the CVs have kept his character consistent thus far and while I do admit he doesn't hide who is he and his thoughts - I still fail to have much respect for him as a person - but that is a different topic altogether.