Vinee, again there are different people, different families, thier upbringing is different, sanskars are different... There is no common ground for such emotions...Sure, you might not like it if your lover sacrifices without consulting you but then there are others who would happily do that thinking that this way their lover will be with family.Originally posted by: vinee_vineeDon't want to comment much on this twist before finally seeing it...but I won't like it if my lover sacrifices me because of anything. Be it my own people...how can one person in a relationship take all the decisions without even consulting her partner.
Love is two sided and everything has to be two sided.
It's very common twist in every 90's film and every other TV show...so doesn't effects me now. I don't get involved in this story to give me any emotional torture.
Just see it as a story and forget it is my suggestion to everybody.
Originally posted by: anjubalaVinee, again there are different people, different families, thier upbringing is different, sanskars are different... There is no common ground for such emotions...Sure, you might not like it if your lover sacrifices without consulting you but then there are others who would happily do that thinking that this way their lover will be with family.
Yes it is a TV show at the end and some things or tracks work for some audience and not others.. I am trying to detach myself from this and watch it only as a show and nothing more now.
Originally posted by: drveena
yes anju , i agree with you...saachi is in a very sorry position... but hope things brighten up and JLZ stays.the way it was.. zara hatke...i also agree with vinnie that ... at this point in time.. we should watch with a neutral outlook and not get too involved...
Originally posted by: anjubalaI do not understand why CVs are destroying our show in the names of twist, drama and TRPs. It is better to end the show rather than skewing the whole story line.
I went through the spoilers and seems this week it is going to be Saachi humiliation week. Poor girl.. I have always hated the concept of showing the girl during marriage proposal time... It is pathetic and here the same is happening... Saachi has been asked to come and meet the family. I felt so bad for her as she was being insulted left right and center - her issue is falling in love with so-called super rich guy, a guy who hid that he belongs to a super rich family. Saachi is not ready to bear this insult, humiliation - why should she? Just because she is a girl and belongs to a middle-class family. I know I am a minority here for supporting Saachi because I can very well relate to her. She will again be bashed that she sold her love (not land) for 25 crores but we do not know the whole picture. I am sure, DV's mom would have said something which would have resulted in this decision.And jisne Mom ko khoya hai woh kabhi nahin chahegi ki uski wajah se DV ki mom ko koi mushkil ho... Saachi has lost her mom and she knows what mom means...Why would she want to separate DV with his mom and family when she knows what his mom means to her - his sweetheart.There are 2 types of girls - one who make the family and other who break the family. We all know Saachi is the one who will make the family, a house as a home. Nothing wrong with that. So, why will she not leave DV if his mom is the one who will suffer? We do not know the dynamics or the emotional blackmail of so called super rich family? Arey, DV does not know either, he has always been delusional about his family...they are super cool, very progressive etc etc etc...my foot. He has lived and grown in this family and still does not know the true face of his brother and dad. And we expect Saachi to know all and be with DV - at what cost?I would have done the same if I was in the same situation - pyaar does not only mean take, it means give too... "Pyaar ik aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jana hai".All these phases are for testing the love. She must have decided something so let us wait and watch instead of bashing her again.She is sacrificing her respect and love and making herself fall in eyes of DV so that he can be with his family. I am sure she will never cash the cheque. She has taken it just to show DV that she does not care about love. But think what kind of turmoil she would have gone through to make this decision and that too infront of her brother. She saw insult of her brother happening too... DV will definitely come to know why Saachi made this decision - maybe his mom will feel bad or guilty later on???? So let us wait and watch and I am still not losing hope."Umeed pe duniya kayam hai".
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