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My friend asked me recently why im not dating and what kinda of guy im looking for to set me up with friends .. and i refused to asnwer because i thought that the type of guy i want cannot ve summed up in words.

But today in the shower i thought and spoke to myself about what kind of guy do i want.. lots of introspection..

And i came up with the following. So guys i want an honest unbiased opinion.. because u guys are all friends but with no faces to me which makes it easier to speak how i really feel without getting a judgement. 

Iw want to k ow if its a shallow outlook, deep, or honest frank and incredible. 

Here is what i look for in a guy:

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Is it shallow to want a healthy guy? Im sorry i dont want an unfit unkept man. I want someone who is clean in presentation and appearance. A guy who doesnt have fat and flab sticking out from all angles and whom i domt have to worry of dying of arterial clogs at a young age and spent my future years running to hospitals for him. I want a healthy well groomed well kept man. He doesnt have to have muscles oozing from him and have six packs. He just has to be healthy and fit. Yes some health issues are herditary like diabetes and high cholesterol but i want a guy who is proactivr about stuf like that and tries to balance those issues by working out eating healthy and taking care of himself. Its not that ill run when the guy is dying and sick.. but theres a difference btw doing it for a guy who didnt give to shoots about himself and doing it for a guy who tried his level best to maintain himself but something were out of his control.

I want a guy who is intelligent. I dont mean book smart. I dont mean he has to be a know it all and a geek. He has to have know how. He has to be well versed. He has to speak fluently and not with a dick wad dictionary for bumbling lunatics. I dont want hood type guys who utter verbiage thats repulsive and derogatory. He has to ooze class from his speech. And he cant have fob accent. Thats a turn off. He cant speak guju or hindi 24/7. He has to know fluent English. 

My friend said thats also shallow. Is it shallow to expect a guy to be well versed and use proper vocabulary? Is it shallow to be turned off by fobbiness?

I want someone who knows my temperment. I am short tempered ans easily get anger it sits on my nose. I easily am emotional and i am so stubborn. I need someone who knows how to handle those personality traits. Who knows what to say and when to say it and can know my mood swings and how to handle them. So i need someone who is willing to break the ice. Someone who is okay to be stubborn and passionate and strong minded about his beliefs but if we get into a fight, he has to be the one to break my anger. 

Likewise ill love if he argues with me. I dont mind if he sets my mind straight if im truly wrong id love if he gives me a rude awakening. He just has to know and be smaet about what to say when to say it and how to say it. 

He has to be a true romantic. By that i just mean, romantically i do not want to know everything about him at all. The one area that i want to remain a mystery. I want to be surprised everyday for the rest of my life. I want our love life to be a sacred and special and intimate thing that is not turned into an everyday sick sort of marred by pop culture thing. I dint want it to be dirty. I want our love life to be classy and romantic. Im sorry but im fine not screwing eachother every God damn day. I want it to be special moments unique and pure love each time. Nothing repulsive.

I want someone who i can maintain good conversations with. Someone who shares my passion to discuss political international/world affairs and eve pop culture. Someone who knows whats going in the world and doesnt live in a bubble. Someome who has principles ideals morals standards and a point of view and not someone indifferent. Someone who doesnt only talk about spoets and cars and girls and sex. Someone who talks about real issues and knows his stance. Someone who argues but is respectiful of others opinions. Someone who may not like someone but wont be a dick to them either. Someone who is willing to admit wrong and fault when they are wrong and ready to apologize if they are wrong but also someone who maintains and fights for the right thing. 

My man needs goals aspirations and thirsty for ahcieving more and more. He doesnt have to ve wealthy. He just has to have passion to acheive and work extremely hard and be the man and take care of his woman and his children. A responsible man. 

He has to be a conpssionate human being bot afraid to show his tender and emotional side. He has to take care of my family. My parents and brother. He has to be their son not son in law. He has to love children. I love kids and want kids and even plan to adopt. He has to support that.

He has to he an old way of doinf things knda guy in that he cant deoend on technology and ease for everythibg. He has to be willing to struggle. I would rather be haopy with a guy who fails 50 times but keeps trying than with someone who fails and gives up. He has to be someone whonputs his phone and games away and talks to people. Someone adventurous and a risk taker cause thats not me at all. I want someone who challenges me and makes me push my limits. Takes me bungee jumping and says dont worry im holding you. 

Opinions?

Why are you home on Thursday?

With man thoughts?