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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 1:16pm | IP Logged
Great analysis of Ayaan.

This has been my fear as well.  His behaviour disturbed so me so much that I actually skipped the shows he was in.

True Ayaan does not feel any empathy towards anyone.  His father and also his Aunt's influence so far has been poor.

And I do believe the Apple has not fallen far from the tree.

Anshuman ,Lavania and Ayaan need therapy and fast.   Lets hope that the adults recognize that this is a serious problem and handle it accordingly.

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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 2:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dolly-heart

Great analysis of Ayaan.

This has been my fear as well.  His behaviour disturbed so me so much that I actually skipped the shows he was in.

True Ayaan does not feel any empathy towards anyone.  His father and also his Aunt's influence so far has been poor.

And I do believe the Apple has not fallen far from the tree.

Anshuman ,Lavania and Ayaan need therapy and fast.   Lets hope that the adults recognize that this is a serious problem and handle it accordingly.
Thank you Smile
 
Totally agree - they need ICU therapy.
 
However, this is a TV show that is dependent on TRP so -- life will go on.  LOL
 
Paakhi will work on Aaayan; so one day down the road Aayan will be normal.  Big smile
 
The other two - your guess is as good as mine!Wink

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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 8:05pm | IP Logged
I don't think he is a budding psychopath

He has a lot of pent up anger and rage from not getting his father's proper attention and getting no motherly love

As a result he has chosen to hide and suppress his feelings by way of doing nonsense and has grown into an "oversmart" kid...since it seems he has needed to fend for himself

he pretends to be fearless but is sh** scared when Paakhi and Anshuman come back

He is an intelligent kid and knows right from wrong, but was not taught to respect others and their feelings and I also suspect he has never had a loving hand caress his head

Psychopaths do not have any emotions nor empathy; Ayaan does have emotion but its expression is garbled.


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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 8:20pm | IP Logged

It's too early to determine whether he is a progressing towards a psychopath-like personality or not.

So far, Ayaan is acting up because he did not receive adequate amount of attention and care from him parents. Ayaan believes that it is okay to act like the way he is for the attention. 

He is still a child, but he might have an idea that Anshuman replaced his actual mum with Paakhi. That has hurt him more than anything. It is not shown or expressed, but deep down, I think that is the sole problem.



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Posted: 06 January 2014 at 9:04pm | IP Logged
Great posts by all of u
Meena and samaba always a delight to read ur posts Clap Clap

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 12:24am | IP Logged
with AAyan the problem is similar to that of celeberity children who gets all they want and no correct direction or advice. On the top of it the servants around influence their activity With proper attention and care he can be corrected, We have seen Anshuman . He is not caring what his son is upto?
Too busy withhis business and what not. Children need attention with lots of patience.In the absence of it they will develop into stubborn ones like AAyan. Pakhi is sure ti win over him with gentle care and affection

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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 8:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by silvermoonlight

I don't think he is a budding psychopath

He has a lot of pent up anger and rage from not getting his father's proper attention and getting no motherly love

As a result he has chosen to hide and suppress his feelings by way of doing nonsense and has grown into an "oversmart" kid...since it seems he has needed to fend for himself

he pretends to be fearless but is sh** scared when Paakhi and Anshuman come back

He is an intelligent kid and knows right from wrong, but was not taught to respect others and their feelings and I also suspect he has never had a loving hand caress his head

Psychopaths do not have any emotions nor empathy; Ayaan does have emotion but its expression is garbled.


Originally posted by -mango-

It's too early to determine whether he is a progressing towards a psychopath-like personality or not.

So far, Ayaan is acting up because he did not receive adequate amount of attention and care from him parents. Ayaan believes that it is okay to act like the way he is for the attention. 

He is still a child, but he might have an idea that Anshuman replaced his actual mum with Paakhi. That has hurt him more than anything. It is not shown or expressed, but deep down, I think that is the sole problem.

 
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Thank you for your comments. LOL
 
I agree with both of you Aayan's father and other caregivers have more than fallen short. Smile
 
But there is a quality which is innate in all humans from early childhood; that is the feeling of uneasiness, of a moral discomfort that is felt when certain things are done, not because one is told not to do them, not because one fears punishment, but spontaneously.
 
For example, a child who hurts another because of a mischievous impulse, will normally experience uneasiness, a grief deep in one's heart, because what he/she has done is contrary to one's inner truth.
 
For in the depths of all humans is what is referred to as conscience - a feeling of a perfection, a greatness, a truth, that is pained when one behaves in a contradictory manner to truth.
 
Aayan does not show this trait - at this early age, and if he continues in this manner, then yes, he is a budding psychopath.
 
It is my opinion, that Aayan's environment has not aided the growth of this innate morality within him.  His father and other caregivers are deplorable examples.  This environmental influence has caused in Aayan a lack of empathy.  This quality has nothing to do with the level of intelligence it has to do with the growth of 'inner truth' or 'conscience'.


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Posted: 07 January 2014 at 8:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashGC_arja

Great posts by all of u
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Thank you for the encouraging comment Smile

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