sirji is keen on burying womanhood and behave as a man to pass out the IPS. why should a woman loose her identity for the sake of it. why cant she be herself and attain IPS
bhagawat gita has answers for this:
lord krishna says that its not necessary that only men can attain me
only they have the qualitfication to reach me. women have equal qualification
women can be themselves , do their duty and feel me in all their duties
which will bring them closer to me
this is what he expected gopis to do
do your duty take care of your husband , take care of your child and experience me in whatever you do , i will always be with you
you dont need to transform yourself into a sanyasi, or wither all your duties which you are committed to and surrender yourself to me
i wouldnt please me
, you be yourself, right from the morning till bed, do all the karmas and surrender them to me
you will attain me easily
the gopis would serve their husbands ,thinking him to be krishna would suckle the child, thinking him as krishna
would feed the cows and calf, thinking them as krishna
they chant his name while doing household works
see krishna in everthing
they came so close to krishna that other male devotess of krishna felt jealous of gopis
krishna said thinking of me all the time along with doing the duties is greater than thinking of only me and doing nothing
being a woman is no shame
and you dont need to shed the girly acts to attain god
be yourself do your duties sincerly
that is what he expects from you
