Is this because of age gap?? - Page 2

Thank God, you atleast trying to understand the reasons behind Sanchi's behaviour.

Yes, age is one factor but not important factor.

Take the case of a child, you can make her/him believe any story or they trust any stranger. But , as the child grew up , he/she does not believe any story or person so easily. With age this faith decreases but atlast an age comes when experience of life weakens their eyesight but clears their vision to see life.

Life's ups & downs also responsible for a person's vision towards life. When a person live a very protected & carefree life he/ she bound to be more cool towards life than the person who faces lots of hurdles in his/her life.

Here, both the factor is responsible for Sanchi's action.

Sanchi, from 19yrs of age, handling a business successfully as well as her family . She has become mother of her 2 younger siblings at 19 and savior of 2 oldies who lost their son & daughter. She is also very sensitive towards her employees. She is always a decision maker. She is always took all small & big responsibilities happily. She alone faced all tough & adverse situation but never let others to affect by that. Life is never bed of roses for her. She is walking on thorns for rears to make  smooth way for others. All these stops her to believe someone easily and make her strong disbeliever on her own fate. Very deep in her heart a belief made home that, nothing good can happen to her & anything loved by her won't stay with her. This implant a her severe fright of losing DV. She lives in a shell made by herself where she feels very protected. She is living with this emotional baggage for last 15 years. Its not easy to come out of this. Any adverse situation arises immediately withdrawal syndrome attacks her & she cuts off herself from the world of happiness & goes inside her shell.

Sanchi's older age also play a very very small role in her attitude but it is very ignorable.

nahi sanchii aapnee aapko saach mai devii saamjaatee hai 🤣 

Originally posted by: aparna37

Vinnee, Personally I feel it is not at all due to age gap or anything like that. 

 As we all know,  her experiences in life have always been bitter, and she behaves as the way she does only as the result of what she has experienced earlier in very early days of her life .  She also feels whatever she loved never remained with her. Now she loves DV so much that she is so insecure about many things (like age gap, his  mom's wish to get him married to Ankita, this newly introduced PE ) etc   only with the fear of losing him!! Also in few situations, DV could not handle situations to his best.  But as DV said "Saanchi is in his jigar not dil because he needs guts along with love to LOVE her" .  I totally agree for her confused and harsh behaviour towards DV is not at all justiciable.  At the end of the day, it is DV more impressing!!  Poor DV!

Absolutely I agree with u aparna...interesting post

Originally posted by: nidhirohan

nahi sanchii aapnee aapko saach mai devii saamjaatee hai🤣

Sanchi dsnt know abt the fundamental Right to equality... 🤣

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

We are seeing Saachi dominating their relationship. We see Dhruv in awe of her maturity. We see Saachi dictating terms to Dhruv and Dhruv respecting her and adds a Ji to her name.

We see how hyper Saachi gets when DV even slightly modifies from what she wants him to do...remember when she wanted DV to inform the police when Anky went missing and DV wanted to initially search her himself, how annoyed she was with dv.

We also see how Saachi gets mad at him when he does something wrong in her opinion like not informing Saachi even after 24 hours of knowing about PE or telling Anky or telling his parents and is unconcerned what reasons he has for not doing it...like Ankys big mouth in telling everybody...or wanting to talk about Saachi when his parents are face to face and not on phone..but Saachi was never listening.

What do you think, is Saachi's behaviour a result of her being older in the relationship that she in subconscious think that only she is right and DV being younger should listen to and obey her. Is her dominance due to the big age gap.

I am not able to decide if it is...please discuss as to what you feel like.

I think age is definitely a factor for her behaviour, atleast with DV. But one more thing which she has repeatedly used for DV is this "bade ghar ke bete ho" wala line. As per her things have come rather easily to DV in his life so he is little casual about life in general. 

vinee..i want to project this question on u as u r in such relationship 😊

Originally posted by: .shinchan.

vinee..i want to project this question on u as u r in such relationship 😊

Originally posted by: ak75

Its age and her attitude. She is used to giving orders at home and office and everyone listens to her. She expects DV todo the same.He is still a bachcha for her who is always take everything lightly...Actually its a good combination and they can do wonders together if the CV 's can make a good story out of it. But they have already started spoiling it ...

Originally posted by: naneta

Sanchi dsnt know abt the fundamental Right to equality... 🤣