Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
We are seeing Saachi dominating their relationship. We see Dhruv in awe of her maturity. We see Saachi dictating terms to Dhruv and Dhruv respecting her and adds a Ji to her name.
We see how hyper Saachi gets when DV even slightly modifies from what she wants him to do...remember when she wanted DV to inform the police when Anky went missing and DV wanted to initially search her himself, how annoyed she was with dv.
We also see how Saachi gets mad at him when he does something wrong in her opinion like not informing Saachi even after 24 hours of knowing about PE or telling Anky or telling his parents and is unconcerned what reasons he has for not doing it...like Ankys big mouth in telling everybody...or wanting to talk about Saachi when his parents are face to face and not on phone..but Saachi was never listening.
What do you think, is Saachi's behaviour a result of her being older in the relationship that she in subconscious think that only she is right and DV being younger should listen to and obey her. Is her dominance due to the big age gap.
I am not able to decide if it is...please discuss as to what you feel like.
I have some answers if it will help you clear out your confusion...about the time when Ankita was missing, I was completely with Saachi...reasons :
1) she knew the area very well and knew it was dangerous
2) it was a girl thing...she put herself in Ankita's place and could imagine how scared she must be...
If she was abducted by someone ,then the fear of rape is always there,and in that situation every moment matters,don't you think ?now worrying about police and not involving them,as DV wanted,would be the last thing on her mind...her protective instinct wanted another girl safe even though she was jealous...I think it was commendable on Saachi's part,to rise above herself.that's why she could not understand Dhruv 's behavior ,and wondering why he was taking things lightly.
About telling Ankita and his parents ...she says it very clearly why she is upset in the episode itself...anyway here it is ... she was afraid that DV might be ashamed of their relationship and thought it unimportant enough for him to tell anyone,or give it priority ...He convinces her that was not the case...and then she tells him that she will feel respectful in their relationship only after he tells people about them and they in turn look at it respectfully ...otherwise she was feeling cheap...that's why she was upset when DV had a chance and he did not introduce her to his mom at the party...it is humiliating for a girl in relationship to be not acknowledged...DV should have introduced her...I 100 % understand Saachi...
About not informing the PE matter...now here her honest nature comes into play,as well as her fear of losing her land...DV belonging to PE was the ultimate disaster,and not telling her right away,and hearing from someone else made him a liar to her...do you blame her reactions ? I don't .
I don't think it's her dominance ,but her mature vision and protectiveness which is telling him what to do...we know DV is smart but immature and naive...so isn't his partner's duty to guide him ? And wherever DV was right we have seen Saachi listening to him.
I am disgusted with Saachi but only because of what the writer's did in the last few episodes(baring the last episode,where I am starting to see her comeback) otherwise I loved her all along.
I hope this helps you
Edited by Jyoti410 - 10 years ago
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