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After the SBS segment ,we are all a little uneasy to see shlok reveal his true colors to Astha. Few of us actually waited for this moment but are now wondering how things will be and to what extent can he abuse her so it is acceptable for Astha to forgive and end up with shlok. I also read posts where people were absolutely disgusted and could not accept Astha falling in love with him and forgiving him.
Having witnessed few dear women in my life going through these situations , I can say there is no Right or wrong in this unfortunate situation. It is easy for us to sit in our secure environment with comfortable relationships and comment on how wrong it is for the victim to forgive the abuser, But there are emotional, financial and social pressures that might influence a woman to think otherwise. It takes a lot of guts to actually walk out of a bad marraige as much as to stay in one.
Btw, the women that I mentioned above ,all chose to be with their husbands. I do not judge them for their decisions because that was the best they could do considering their situations. And with this post, I am not promoting any regressive ideas that women should be bound to their abusive husbands for life, but rather the thought that we can try to be less judgmental about those that choose to do so.
Ok, done preaching for tonite😊
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