The push and pull - RM - Page 4

Originally posted by: _charu_

Shruti, i have this feeling that TRP aunties will be in support of Madhu ..bec. she's trying to be a good wife, good bahu, good heroine at the same time...toh they will always like Madhu worrying for parantas, her MIL, doing poojas etc...and a husband must be supportive towards his wife ...If RK asks Madhu to not fast for him bec. it may affect her health, he will be bashed for being insensitive to a woman's feelings and turning a blind eye to her wishes ! 🤢 last yr nahi dekha? woh marr rahi hai , food poisoning hai but she won't break her fast  ! she's getting bitten by rats , yet she'd doing the pooja and uske baad reported to the sets !! these festivals and poojas lose their essence when such things happen...

Originally posted by: Poluk

Yaar I am working and the first thing my boss told me after my marriage was every working wife needs a wife i.e. in short a maid. Here MB has an army of servants and still needs to do everything herself. Women aren't robots. Most of the TRP audience comprises of MILs who would love to see their bahus behaving like this. So yes may be it will click with them.

Just one random question : If a woman is pregnant does she not get an exemption from Karwachauth. She is put on a fruit and juice diet for the day, isn't she. So why is that not considered hurting religious sentiments and breaking a fast for health reasons is?

Hail Indian mentality.

But even I feel that RK forcing her not to keep fast for his zidd is wrong.He can easily shoot scenes not involving her for one day if he wants.  

Originally posted by: Valar.Morghulis

Charu. Awesome post as always. 

I am actually enjoying this track. It is refreshing to see that we are finally having a track in the show that leaves so much to analyze and discuss. We are looking beyond the clunks and now having healthy and constructive discussions.. never thought this day will come after you know what happened in our beloved show.. 

Anyways.. coming to your post. I am enjoying this track. The way I see it.. both RK and Madhu are correct in their point of views. If you step into RK's shoes, you will see that he is, for the first time in the entire run olf the show, has evolved into a thoroughly professional person. We have always seen him as hot-tempered and nakhrila superstar who packs up at the drop of a hat.. now he is facing what his producers must have had faced when they starred him. He is evolving as a professional. He is taking things seriously as now his career is at stake.. his money is at stake.. and most importantly, his ego is at stake. If you remember that OTT and completely unnecessary scene where RK tries to commit suicide when things start falling apart at the press conference.. though I despise that scene as any RK fan would, but it showed something very important. It showed that RK would sooner die than accept defeat of his ego in front of all and it is only the love RishBala share that stops him from doing that. He still loves Madhu and can only bend his knee in front of her and he has put her first before anything but too much is at stake and I will never blame RK if he snaps at her and go a little rigid towards her at professional front. In fact, I expect it from him. He has evolved, however, he is still a work in progress and some things about him will never change and I love him this way only. 

Coming to Madhu.. she is back to her character completely now. She is a simple girl who actually had no ambitions of stepping into the glamour world. She only had bad experiences when it comes to facing media.. (remember the whole RK ki Laila fiasco?) so she is quite scared. The way she reacted was instinctive. I don't blame her. She has a different mindset than RK's altogether regarding the whole issue. As you said she is being pulled back to her world by external forces like Pabho, RJ and Dips and her typical middle class mindset. She had this delusion that she can both manage fulfilling RK's dream (being his heroine) and fulfilling her dream (being RK's wife and Kundra family's bahu) at the same time. But now things are falling apart. Soon she will have to completely let go of her dreams so she can do justice to RK's dreams. Woh kehtay hain na do kashtiyon pe sawar nahin hua ja sakta.. same is happening with Madhu.. she is not doing anything perfectly and this scandal is just what she didn't need at this moment.. this is everything she didn't want to happen.. 

RK and Madhu are both right in their way. Madhu is taking too long for the transition and RK is just loosing patience since he is not just a husband but also an actor and a producer who has kept all his eggs in one basket.. He is just getting frustrated..

They both were raised in two different worlds and so, their mindset is totally different. If one is a tornado the other is a volcano.. even the way they love is different from each other.. their love story is not typically that of two people getting married after crossing hurdles to live happily ever after. They have to fight the world, their own differences and sometimes their own destiny to be with each other.. It's everyday battle.. but I am sure they will win as they both are born fighters.. 

Originally posted by: MarathiMulgi

Abhi muze kya do do jagah per likhna padega kya? 😕

Madhu's problem IMO is that she is trying to please everyone except herself and hence failing miserably. Like a juggler she has many balls in the air and  they are all falling down instead of she able to catch them and throw them back in the air. She wants to be housewife do all the chores and also at the same time get decked up and face camera for work. Thanks to CVs there is no child added to this otherwise this  would have become a perfect dilemma of a working mother !!. 😆

I have a perfect solution for Madhu...

She needs to learn to delegate (after all ghar uska hai - cooking to Rji, Pooja paath to Pabo, ghar ki safai to Dipali) and just go to studio for work. Over there, she should delegate the work of handling media and MC to RK, delegate handling Simmy aur us ki mummy to Roma.  She needs to become boss of everyone rather than other way round. 😆😉

Originally posted by: Soundarya22

Lovely posts all of you. 

Rji is definitely playing the role of the shocked TRP crowd who would frown at their bahus in the movies. Apparently Jaya B was upset at Aish's kiss with hrithik in Jodha Akbar...she is an actress, her whole family is, and her DIl was an actress before marriage...imagine if she felt awkward. FIlm industry does have double standards, I think that is also what they are trying to show. 

btw, Kareena refused to keep KC vrat...that would probably be Anamika😆

Originally posted by: BeautyForAshes

Awesome Post Charu.👏...

tweet this link to  nautanki's please...i wish they get some senses...pabho is DEVILISH😡 !!!