Originally posted by: -Naiina-I think many things are considered to say whether a person is having e-affair or not.Like most of the time if its just flirting...I think its normal..
But if someone is married/in a relationship but is spending more time with someone online more than their partner near him/her,and needs to hide it from their partner then it is cheating...
But sometimes its like someone make online relationships for emotional support but there is not sexual then I don't think it could be affair...
Also I think there can be e-feelings,e-crushes,e-affairs...but can't be e-love as love takes a lot more than a virtual identity and couple of private messages.
Also,for e-affair,how would u know u are having an e-affair???If someone mutually agree that they both have e-feeling for each other and will always be e-together...
e-flirting cant be e-love as u would never know the other person is really flirting...or joking..or if that how someone's personality is.
Also I do feel that mostly teenagers have e-crushes especially on FB...And I think on I-F its mostly like u cant stop admiring some people's thoughts,or wittiness,intelligence etc which are one of few things people get attract to so there's e-attraction.
@Blue: That's a very good point of yours. I have seen few married men flirt on the forum while their partners might be sitting next to them, it's quite disturbing to even think about it. What I don't understand is why spend all that time and energy flirting online with few XYZ when he or she can spend it on their respective half. It confuses me at times to see someone act in a similar manner π€
@Green: Tell me you haven't come across someone so silly and foolish "always be e-together" ππ
@Pink: I agree with you there. On IF people's virtual personality can definitely be impressive from their writing style to their thoughts to multiple other reasons. And I am sure one can get attracted to someone's virtual persona, but as long as people know it's a virtual web, it should be cool. I mean who knows it can be some 60 yr old sitting behind the computer π
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