For all those who have berated her so long for "loving" Jagya - did they notice how easy she was yesterday with his engagement news ? She truely does not see him as someone she can aspire for. She did have a hard time of it on his b'day when Saanchi came into her room and taunted her and the news was so sudden. But she worked on herself and told herself this was ridiculous and she won't let herself feel bad for something good happening with Jagya's life.I think at this point after the rattan singh incident and sumitra's behaviour, she knows that even if she marries Jagya she will always be unwelcome in the house.Even if she aspires to marry him, Ganga is a gharelu type and wants to lead a family life in a joint family. She would only marry Jagya if sumitra accepted her as daughter in law unhesitatingly without reservations. She is also sensible and realizes that not only she herself, but even Manu will not be accepted there. She realizes that life with sumitra and co. would be a living hell.The only option after marriage is then to separate and live a nuclear family of three. That would involve yet again tearing Jagya away from his family, and she has enough loyalty to not do that to the singhs particularly after learning about his past.So all in all, I think even if she had aspirations, she had the foresight to think a few steps ahead and realize that it just could not be. She made her peace with the situation.But somehow, I have never found ganga's love to be either emotional or physical or material towards Jagya. It has always been a sort of deep spiritual partnership she feels with him -- that he is the avatar of devi maa in her life. I doubt marriage was on her mind at any given time.
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