Posted: 16 August 2013 at 9:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweet_tania
Originally posted by MishtiPrasad
Originally posted by sweet_tania
Not only she... Others are also deserves to be happy...and others also have HAQQ to take their life's decision...all made equal mistakes...some do mistakes on the name of bhalai or sacrifice and others do mistake to fulfill their own wish... No one were on gun point... Arjun was nt on gun point when purvi FORCE him.. Purvi was nt on gun point when Onir ASK her for mrg... Purvi was nt on gun point when ovi Put deal...so nt only she suffer due to all this mess..but she is also one of reason for all this mess...
Yes everyone deserves to be happy, but you see Ovi got what she wanted when she married Arjun, Purvi didn't get what she wanted.. Arjun.
Arjun and Purvi are not happy without each other. so everyone got their happiness, Ovi had Arjun (she herself decided to divorce him).
Soham got back his family.. Archana and Manav are happy.. so you see everyone is happy.. now if Arjun and Purvi are back together, the pair of them will be happy.
Of course purvi wasn't at a gunpoint when ovi made her agree to her deal.. she had the 'daughterly' feelings any daughter would have for their mother, so because of that she agreed to ovi's deal for archana.
but you cannot blame purvi for this mess, everyone is equally responsible for it.
Hey see again wat I have written... It's ONE OF REASON... So I am blaming everyone nt only purvi for this mess...and ya as u r saying that purvi had 'daughterly' feelings that any daughter would have for mother i agree with your point..but nw she is nt only daughter or lover or mother of sm1... She is someone's WIFE also... After knowing truth she has nt a single reason for her PUNARVIVAH(exception of her pehla pyar)...her husband is also included in her FARZ dictionary ...if she is such a goody goody personality and used to think everyone's bhalai like her mother,sister than why she is ignoring sacrifice of her husband- a person who is loving her,caring for her..there is so many things beyond lv which is also matters in life... And ya as u said they can't be happy without each other...if this is the only reason than why she marry to Onir if she always knows that she can't be happy without arjun...only because of her need???(it's nt point who ask whom for mrg..fact is their mrg is happen)you tell me is it good thing to make relation when it's need of time..and leave that relation when you got wat you want..is it really good thing??!! If they can't be happy without each other nd if they already knows abt it than purvi should nt accept ovi's deal ...she should leave her aai on destiny or try other way for her aai...but by this stuff ...onir's life is also become miserable...if someone is good that doesn't mean other have HAQQ to take disadvantage of it...
Yh you said
and ya as u r saying that purvi had 'daughterly' feelings that any daughter would have for mother
You see if ANY daughter would have that feelings for their mother, then Ovi wouldn't have used Archana(her own mother) to get what she wanted (Arjun).
And you also said.. why did she marry Onir if she knew she couldn't live without Arjun.
Well she married Onir because firstly he asked her and she needed someone for support and the sake of her daughter she married Onir. (she didn't ruin his life and didn't make a mistake by marrying him either because he knew about her past).
Also Purvi tried to forget Arjun for the sake of her daughter and for her husband(Onir).
However when Ovi and Arjun's relationship didn't work out (same with Purvi and Onir), obvisouly she would go back for Arjun as there isn't any barriers now agianst their relationship, i mean he is the father of her child and now she knows she can't live without Arjun.
Onir's life has become miserable.. Purvi is not responsible. Onir is himself. he chose to marry her, he chose to fake a marriage with shalini.
Yes i know she should have not accept Ovi's deal, she was wrong.. but then again my point was 'a daughter can have daughterly feelings for their mother, and cannot bare her mother in pain' (which Ovi didn't have for Archana at the time, she was just obessed with Arjun).
she thought that she was the reasons for it, and she didn't want to be the reason for Archana's pain.