Posted: 14 August 2013 at 12:53pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sherma
Originally posted by soniiyaa
Originally posted by sherma
Originally posted by sk11
Why is purvi selfish now bc she's finally thinking of herself ?
How many times ovi asked for purvi to be thrown out of house? What about all the times ovi mistreated Archu prior to accepting her? She didn't find out the truth either abt Archu just like people are upset purvi isn't finding out the truth abt onir?
What about when ovi was drinking madly inspite of being pregnant? Her sorrows were so important she had to harm her innocent baby. How self centered is that?
The list can go on and on about ovi... Just as you can probably make a list now about purvi.
I don't object to opinions being expressed but this is just daily bashing. There is no constructive critism just any little issue picked up and a new topic posted to bash purvi.
Regardless of whose fan you are, I think it can be agreed now that everything is happening the way it should have. Whether you hate them or not, they're getting married to one another. Onir got his license back. Ovi had matured and taken a positive turn. The mess is finally being cleaned up... !
if u read my post i said ignore and her angle wid arvi cause it will involve many debate,i am nt evn talking abt arvi and their marriage.my topic was only abt purvi and her equation wid onir.wat exactly purvi had to do in court that she needed to b convincd so much.evn ovi shld have grudge against onir,but still she took an effort.i am happy ovi showed her the mirror that purvi initiated the swap thing nt onir.
I understood what you said.
So what purvi needed to be convinced? Wouldn't you need to be convinced if your hubby started to act shady and then you became suspicious slowly and finally he reveals he has betrayed you? This shady onir track was played for quite a few weeks so how do you expect purvi to suddenly be jumping to help onir?
And in terms of convincing ... Ovi needed convincing to stop drinking too. At least purvi is being convinced bc she feels betrayed which is a reasonable emotion and she's unaware of onirs truth. In Ovi's case, she knew drinking was harming her innocent child but she still continued it inspite of being convinced by several family members and onir himself.
At the end of the day, ovi made the effort but it's purvi who in the end d much decided she would testify. She didn't have to agree with ovi.
this topic is nt to glorify ovi even a bit,is dis the same purvi who forgived punni n number of times although she knew hw much punni hated her.
if i wld b purvi i wld have sued onir for marryng me although having a wife,i wld have neevr forgivven him.
but here onir is stuck cause of purvi,she knows wat kind of gud doctr onir is,she has lived wid him fr 9 mths,she has seen onir helping poor and needy,i mean y shld sum 1 convince purvi to help onir to get his license,whn she knows she was responsible him loosing it.
i used to think if purvi will speak the truth she will b jailed,but it was just a 2mts statement,and purvi was throwing attitude to onir like she did a favour.
see, from your post though I feel as if you're comparing the two sisters. You're not glorfing Ovi here but you said in your first post that if Ovi is selfish and self centered then Purvi is Maha selfish etc. you also seemed from what i interpreted from your post upset that purvi needed so much convincing to do this for onir. this is why I've posted to show you the difference in my opinion between the girls when it comes to convincing and selfishness.
You're absolutely right Onir has been stuck. However the responsibility for this "being stuck" doesn't merely lay on the head of Purvi. Purvi is known to be overly mahaan and emotional when it comes to pleasing the family and keeping them together. This has backfired on her several times. She giving up the child is expected since she was able to give up Arjun. It's not a shock. But here, Onir being the doctor and level-headed person in the situation should have refused to do such a thing. He could have controlled the issue. He could have told Purvi that he would never do such a thing and it'll affect his career. Purvi gave him the idea, ultimately Onir carried it out. Just as there was no gun pointed to Arvis heads when they agreed to the deal by Ovi, no gun was pointed to Onir's head either.
Now im not saying this towards you but its a general question: if ovi can be forgiven for the deal as she merely just proposed it because in the end Arvi carried the deal out then why is only purvi responsible for onir's state? Didn't purvi also just merely propose an idea to Onir like Ovi did with Arvi?
Purvi did feel guilty for Onir when he lost his license. she even stuck by him after and went through the troubles he faced. Why it's taken this long for Purvi and Ovi to make this trip to the court? I don't know. But I disagree with you when you say that purvi shouldn't have needed so much convincing especially since onir lost his license just for her and bc of all the good hes done for her. I disagree because I'm trying to understand Purvi's emotions here. I'm putting myself in her shoes and thinking if someone betrayed me in such a big way how I would react. I'm also thinking how betrayed she must feel seeing this real face of Onir. All the good was shattered for her about him. Imagine finding out someone who was always there for you and did everything in the world for you is actually not really that way and in actuality has been lying to you etc?
This is my opinion of course. I don't think we'll agree here on this topic. It is what it is.