Sacrifice! - Page 4

I completely agree with this! I agree that many people were hurt by this deal, marriage, baby swap and they ALL share blame (Arjun, Ovi, Purvi, Onir for the baby swap, Archana).

The ONLY person who is truly innocent is Pari. She deserves a mother who puts her first. But time after time, Purvi has not put Pari first. She should be her very first priority but instead the little baby has been the biggest victim of this whole debacle.

@ilovedhanjanird

I don't think Arjun is crticised for loving someone and sleeping with someone else ...he did NOT do it without a choice but WITH  a clear cut choice , many many times . Nobody would have faulted him so much if he had filed for divorce . He did not . He went and told absolute LIES to the wife who was about to move on that We can make this work when he had no intention or capability to make it work just bcoz his ex influenced him . If u don't have that capability , say so and move out . What Ovi did today could have been done by Arjun a long time back , without bringing a child in the picture . He did not . He is not just a flawed human being anymore , he has crossed that line and become a jerk . And Purvi , well , she is a criminal . It is the union of a jerk and a criminal ...but i don't think the criminal will have him . She will dump the jerk yet again .

I dont see the need to feel sorry for Pari. Shes certainly not in dire straits anymore. In fact she never was... Edited by pallavi25 - 10 years ago

No , i haven't left my babies with roadside strangers whom i was suspicious of . Neither have , i prefer to believe , the group i discuss the daily show with . I have no doubts that it is 'normal' in the 'changed India' though .

I feel sorry for Pari for being the VICTIM in all of this. A baby when she grows, knows her mom's touch, who had she known? Ovi right? 

When it comes to sacrifice people misunderstand. I dont think purvi made any sacrifice when it comes to arjun and ovi. It was a choice. She chose her mother's happiness over hers. She could live without arjun ( she actually left the town and in flashbacks when she was in that orphanage she was actually happy).But she cant be happy seeing her mom losing her husband. Even when she left, part of it was because she was pregnant and she didnt want to create havoc. I dont call that sacrifice either. The only one who deserves the title sacrificial lamb is none other than arjun.. I dont think i need to explain why because you already did. I liked the part where you said humans shouldnt be treated as belongings and poor arjun has been seen only as a thing where they grab it when they want and dispose it when they are done with it. Which is the reason why i think he should not be with purvi either because theres no guarantee that if something like this happens again she wont throw him under the bus for her family again.

she will be throwing him again renuka . Just wait till she knows Onir 'sacrificed' and see her transformation into Aishwarya Rai . I wonder what she will be wearing when she runs , a ghagra or a sari which she will lift cutely to her ankles or like a ghaati till her knees and i sure hope her horse hair wig won't fall off as she runs . Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 10 years ago

The babysitters parents in the US hire are mostly high school students who dont have background checks. Just recommendation letters from other parents. So that means all these parents who are leaving their kids with these teenagers are all BAD parents!