Originally posted by: ananth12
We cant be too kind at Suraj ,.. He has to acquire all the senses one day and be Sorry for his way of acting.
Why shoulnt we expect a sorry ,many in this Forum expressed a Disliking Feeling on Sandhya , when she bursted in the room on the consummation . To us Both are same , We have to Equally Look at Pain they are suffering with ... Cant be Partial at one ..
Actually I dnt expected her to say sorry / Thanks on that day , but when i came to Forum , Everything was Upside Down , everyone is Bashing her ,.. I felt 🤢 seeing the Forum Posts ...
We have to Aceept Pain of Both People , Not Looks Of Person , whos Playing Suraj , We hav to watch show not with eyes , with Heart ,...
If We Say thats a general dng goes between Spouses , then u should also have same kind of Feeling when she Realised his Tan Ka Prem , Man ka Prem ...
It looks Unsensiccal ,when the other does the same dng ,we are paying kind Attention to him , but For Sandhya , Harsh Stmts ... I read Many People Stated they are Fighting for His CONJUGAL RIGHTS . I Pity this Kind of Silly Going in Forum ...
Being Unacknowledging to his Behaviour Looks Silly and Unwiseness
I think there is a difference between when Sandhya lashed out and Suraj's current behavior.
Suraj has seen divorce papers...he's under the misconception that Sandhya is going to walk out on him and ruin his family...It's a misunderstanding. Something the CVs conjured up to add spice to the drama after they bled the Bhabo angle to death. It must be working because people are raising voices and bashing one character or the other. 😆
On the other hand, there was no misunderstanding between Surya, when Sandhya lashed out at Suraj. He had in fact done everything a more than perfect husband could do to help her.
She on the other hand was frustrated and felt cornered by her situation the cause of which was Bhabo...this was understandable...but all her anger came out on Suraj instead. Okay...even this is understandable...I mean who else could she turn to.
But then she gives Suraj (and us, the viewers) the impression that she'll never be able to accept him completely. 😲
This was a bit difficult for us to hear. I mean...take your time...but to say I'll never accept you was going a bit far.
Does that mean I or others were fighting for Suraj's conjugal rights, when we supported him? No...You need to go back and read those posts again properly...they all said Sandhya should take her time. Suraj was not pushing her either...but eventually accept him or forget the marriage...those are normal expectations.
I'm not showing any partiality to Suraj because I'm a female fan drooling over Suraj's hunky looks...please...I'm really not interested 🤢...
Many of the same people who supported Suraj before...have called him spineless when the situation warranted it (myself included) and are disgusted at his current behavior...so you should watch it before you make such a generalization about anyone who is not bashing him.
...(that we watch the show with eyes only)
I don't like Suraj's behavior, but It's only been 2 days since he's changed...I personally think he's up to something...that in the long run will help Sandhya...I mean his character can't change so drastically overnight.
So...I choose to...reserve my judgement and give him the benefit of the doubt., until further evidence is in. But that's my POV...and you're entitled to yours.
Edited by ummesulaiman - 12 years ago
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