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Ahem and Gopi were deeply effected by the split which baa had announced. Though Gopi knew about the entire plan & was executing under Baa's direction, it pained her to see that all of her family members were undergoing deep hurt & pain because of it !!!
Gopi knows her Ahemji very well & how much he cares for his family. Though he not very vocal & verbal in expressing his feelings out, he has always been there for the family ! Seeing him being effected by the pain of separation between the families troubled her heart but as she trusted in Baa's wisdom, she held back from sharing the plan & easing him out of it !!! It hurt Gopi deeply to see her Ahemji badly hurt...but to ensure the overall goal that the family was always together forever, she endured the pain of him being hurt in silence !!!
Ahem was really effected by the decision of Baa to split the family. As Baa did not listen to anyone & even to his suggestion, he felt helpless. Ahem as person knows one emotion in which he masks all his other emotions & that is anger. He was angry on what was happening & his lack of control to stop the decision. With Gopi entering into his life, he had started to relate to different emotions but when things never went his way, he still ended up being angry. When Gopi had gone to her peehar without informing him & then stayed back & as she did not pick his calls, he was angry on her. The moment she called him, he took out his anger on her & then immediately realised what he had done & tried to cajole her to speak to him. But what Ahem did not realise today was that Gopi was also undergoing similar pain & hurt & that she would need his support & love to overcome it , but yet hestill maintained distance unknowingly from her !!! What he also did not realise was that the pain he was undergoing could have been reduced if he had shared his pain & hurt he was undergoing with his love, his wife, his Gopi but yet he still maintained distance from her !!!
Ahem & Gopi though have been married for a year +, they actually started to evolve in their married relationship only from the time Ahem had started to teach Gopi, where he got to know about her & she about him & both are still trying to understand how a relationship between spouses married to each other, works out. At times they are there for each other at different situations & circumstances & at times they did not know how to reach out & be there for one another !!! Today is one such incident...As soon as Ahem realises this undefined distance he is maintaining unknowingly with her when things are not going in the right way, he will be able to work on it & share all he feels with her !!! But if he does not then it may lead to complications of misunderstandings in future !!!
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