I don't frequently post in this forum but have seen enough posts to agree wuth you. I love Anjali as well. But I guess every young character (i.e the young generation characters which does not include the buas, nanis etc) is bashed except Khushi and Arnav . 😆
Even Payal is called dumb.
When I see Arnav's concern for her, I am warmed. Its not like Anjali doesn't care about him, she reciprocates the affection. The relationship between them is shown beautifully in my opinion, esp the bit about the childhood poem.
They have all they have had for so long, why should it be irritating that they are so concerned about each other.
Doesn't make Arnav care about Khushi any less. He is just being an idiot not trusting her or even telling to her face what he knows
And yes I agree, when it comes to your lover/husband or even in the case of a child /parents, people put a blind trust. And Anjali generally is a sweet person. Its not like she is people-smart about everyone else except Shyam, she comes off as affectionate in general.