Nice post Rinky. Well I feel jjkg has raised some good points. Indu might have grown up but still she is insecure from inside. It reflects in her behaviour.
I agree she needs a friend... but where to find such a friend. Amma was her biggest support system who was also her good friend... but thanks to CVs she has disappeared from the show... Ishaan also understands her well but he is too small but talks big for his age that too because of rishi's influence on him. We are thinking about vidhit also but his condition is not that good. I'm not even sure about his character... he seems not so strong...& we can't expect him to be very strong after a series of problems which he underwent in his life... if he emerges that strong it would be like superhuman quality...
Coming to rishi... he has provided her support in all conditions as a friend & lover both... still Indu never opened up to him... though she loves him she never became friendly with him... so trust factor is missing... but it's not her fault completely...
Still I feel rishi can also become her friend... & no external force is required.
Agree with you.!!!!
If Rishi is not a friend, what is he? He loves Indira but at no point of time did I see him make physical advances towards her. Once or twice he was just trying to tease her but he has been such a friend!!!! Such a gentleman!!!
He has been with her in all her problems at all places at all times!!!
Coming to Indira (please, I am not bashing her character here, just trying to analyze a bit),
I really doubt if she truly loved Rishi. Time and again I get this doubt. When she first proposed
to him did she only want a person who was prepared to share her responsibilities? It looks like that.
She is worried about him, fearing that he will break her trust ( he has lied to her, soo I can understand this!!!). But in love, the first question you need to ask yourself is :
"What can I give to this relationship?" (Indira seems to ask Rishi everytime.. what can you give for this relationship?). (maybe the fact that mentally she is the angry 17 year old is forcing this behaviour form her)
With this mindset, the very foundation of love gets shaken. Rishi has shown time and again what he can give for this relationship. Indira's turn is overdue.
I don't entirely blame her like a lot of you have correctly pointed out. Maybe she can just take him as a friend for now and allow the relationship to build. I always thought she was too too fast in proposing marriage. (both times). Again the need to have a companion who can share her burden seems to be topmost in her mind.
If she needs a friend, I don't see why she needs to look beyond Rishi. She need not think about love or marriage. Over time, her feelings for him might become stronger and she might appreciate what he means to her...
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