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Arnav is wrong, Is Khushi right? (Page 22)

serialjunkie IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:04pm | IP Logged
ok girls, i gotta go sleep now, so you can hurl all your insults, brickbats and sarcasm while I am sleeping.

tomorrow will be another day and who knows, we may actually get a decent episode, we can actually discuss something more enjoyable than comparing flaws of our lovable characters.

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sukri Goldie

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:05pm | IP Logged

I don't understand why we are comparing the mistakes done by Arnav and Khushi.

What Arnav has done so far is much worse than what Khushi has done. Even if Khushi had told Arnav then, how can we so sure that the situation might have been any different?

Arnav always acts in the spur of the moment to regret it later. In this case we know that in future the regret of Arnav towards Khushi is going to huge cause he knows the extent of mistakes committed by him.

BTW if Khushi hadn't agreed, he would have found other ways to get married to her and might have still inflict the same pain on Khushi.



Coercion is an act of forcing another party to behave in an involuntary manner (whether through action or inaction) by use of threats or intimidation or some other form of pressure or force.

In law, coercion is codified as the duress crime. Such actions are used as leverage, to force the victim to act in the desired way. Coercion may involve the actual infliction of physical pain/injury or psychological harm in order to enhance the credibility of a threat. The threat of further harm may lead to the cooperation or obedience of the person being coerced.


In psychological coercion, the threatened injury regards the victim's relationships with other people. The most obvious example is blackmail, where the threat consists of the dissemination of damaging information. However, many other types are possible e.g. so-called "emotional blackmail", which typically involves threats of rejection from or disapproval by a peer-group, or creating feelings of guilt/obligation via a display of anger or hurt by someone whom the victim loves or respects.





Goon kidnaps a child who is a school bully, calls up the dad who is a small time corrupt Politian and tells him to pay 100k without getting police involved else Goon will kill the child.

Corrupt Politian has choice of not paying 100k, going to Police and let the child die or pay up 100k and get the child back alive.

Politian pays the money, but the child is scarred for life as he was terrified of the entire kidnapping experience.

So we according to the post, we should agree that though what the goon did was wrong, however, Politian deserved it more for being corrupt and he should be taken to court and tried and the child definitely deserved it for being a bully.

Are the crimes of the goon, Politian and the child comparable?


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enigma17 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by serialjunkie

ok girls, i gotta go sleep now, so you can hurl all your insults, brickbats and sarcasm while I am sleeping.

tomorrow will be another day and who knows, we may actually get a decent episode, we can actually discuss something more enjoyable than comparing flaws of our lovable characters.

Goodnight SJ
Sleep well

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canzasana Goldie

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:09pm | IP Logged
I think zoha Shockedthey are both wrong hiding things from eachother is give space to a third person to damage their relationship. we can all see shyam Pigis benefiting from both sides. I think if khushi is tolerating arnav's anger evryday so why not just tell him the truth Cryeven it hurts him. I think if she cant tell anjaliGeek she can tell her husband, buaji, payal. but she is keeping everything to her selfThumbs Down. creep is getting creeperAngry every day and she is giving him chance to do something big with her, Oucharnav on other hand doing same not asking her directly what is the story with jejajiCry.  he is believing a person Confusedwho is admitting in front of him that he used his sister. also  he always said he used his head Coolwhy he is not investigating khushi's pastUnhappy she is very important to himHug so why hesitating. Ouch
they are lacking TRUSTThumbs Up the big and most important key ingredient of any successful relationshipApprove once they build that... all will become well. and then we can all sing all is well Dancingwith a big smile on our facesBig smile till then have faith on ARHIWink. and as ZEE-News said MU will be clearing soon my hopes are high Day Dreamingand just waiting to see how the track is going to develpSilly . for me ARHIBlushing rocks.

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Johny.S.Raj IF-Sizzlerz

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tttttt1 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:10pm | IP Logged

khushi is wrong by hiding the truth about shyam , not to arnav but t anjaIi

but isn't arnav making the same mistake , he is very much aware of shyam heard it fron shaym himseIf abut his intensions s why isn't he digging deep , if we are trying to justify reeI characters that is

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AR-ARHI_naila IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by serialjunkie

[QUOTE=UltimateBarun][QUOTE=serialjunkie]i would just add one thing here. Khushi did not ask Arnav to marry her, he forced her to marry him.

there is a saying in my language, paraphrasing here.
if you pick a venomous snake and decide to put it in your pocket, how do you not expect to be bitten by it?

so if arnav dragged khushi into his sphere of influence, he cannot expect to be not hurt by her reactions.

<font color="#ff0000">khushi is flawed no doubt, but what arnav has done to her is nothing short of criminal under any court of law. </font>

now, i understand this is drama, so I will take it for the sake of drama to allow the story to move forward. But in reality, what Arnav has done to khushi is a grave injustice of massive proportions and not at all comparable to the fact that khushi hid shyam's truth from him.

Had he not dragged her into his house, she would not be in danger of facing shyam day in and day out. right now, she has no one to protect her, in her own house she had atleast buaji.

so lets not mix reality and fiction. in fiction, i will watch this for the sake of drama. But in reality, khushi's faults pale in comparison and ASR's forced marriage is criminal under Indian Penal Court and Hindu Marriage Act. Lets not gloss it.

No offence meant, zoha, I hope you understand. you know i am a sensible and reasonable person, but i dont want the fictional comparisons, understanding and/or justification of ASR's actions to gloss over the reality of it.

I will comment on the red part of your post zoha

Khushi's acts are idiotic, - they are not criminal
ASR's acts are vicious - they are qualified as criminal in any court of law 9coercion, fake marriage, abuse etc etc)

Big difference between idiotic behavior and criminality. They are flawed but their flaws are NOT EQUAL and they are not comparable on any scale.

Hey, u just spoke my words, Smriti( I guess its ur name). And I wanna let u know here that I enjoy ur posts a lot.

@ all: I am a big big fan of ASR and Arnav, but I do agree that what he has done or what he is doing is totally wrong. And is not even comparable to khushis fault. But everyone has to accept that its a fiction and we fell in love with this ASR from the very beginning. So there is no need of so many hate posts everytime he made a mistake. It makes me really mad sometimes. Now I have learnt to ignore these kind of posts, still just seeing the title gives me a headache.
anyway, ur post has become a big hit zoha and Im enjoying reading the responses. A great topic for the weekend.thnk u for this entertainment. LOL

Edited by AR-ARHI_naila - 08 April 2012 at 11:17pm

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sunaina02 IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 08 April 2012 at 11:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by serialjunkie

actually su, i found the tone of sarcasm very childish. sorry to say. but i did.
i enjoy a good debate and i know you are capable of intelligent debate. lets stick to that.
we can have a fun post where we can sling sarcasm at each other and you know i can do it well too.
I know and acknowledge you to be the master of sarcasm - no doubt about that Big smile 
ASR is a criminal and khushi is an idiot . You know very well who rules in the real world - criminals or idiots . Wink
I am being childish again LOL

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