UMMM;
I'm married to my childhood crush. and soulmate, We've been together for 16 years-since I was 14, and he was 16 years old. I had a crush on him for a year (when I was 13-I just thought he was SO CUTE-he was totally that popular, funny, athletic guy and I was the english nerd, and a silly little junior) and I didnt know he liked me. Actually, I was positive he HATED because he was very mean, and the "prefect" or class captain of his grade, who used to boss us kids around-I was in Grade 7 and he was in grade 8 then.
I can tell you, though that I was crazy about him, even though he'd pick on me all the time, following me around and teasing me and making me cry!!! He would even make me write lines as punishment whenever he could. Then when I was 14, he and I had to do a school debate thing together, and that was that. We've been together ever since, and married for the past 5 years. We even went to the same college and then worked in the same company before getting married. And frankly, we are best friends too, and kind of grew up loving each other, and shared everything, so being married isnt that different from just being together.
I totally get Barun's thing with his wife. Neither of us even know what its like to love or think about anyone else-when you find that soul mate, its kind of silly to even imagine being with anyone else-it cant possibly be as good as with each other so why bother, or feel jealous? There is really no one else you'd rather spend time with. Its kind of weird for my friends, who are dating and breaking up all the time, but I've never really "dated" my husband-we were just together.
No wonder Barun's wife is totally laid back and confident, even though he's a babe magnet. It just doesn't matter-to her, hes just..hers.
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