I'll make a small analysis
today. It's a holiday here so don't have much time on hand. Loved today's
episode, donno why, but something special it was. The "Silent Treatment" and
"Ignoring someone" is the best way to break one. Yeah, an episode where the last
part made my heart ache. Any person of any persona can handle anything but
silence and ignore from the person whom you hold dear and near to your heart, NEVER.
Today's episode reminded me of last week's episode when Arnav lost his voice
and how Khushi despite being happy was kind of depressed. Yeah, like she missed
his hurtful talks that day, he missed her jibber jabber today. Maami
appropriately named them "Gutur Gutur Love Birds". Indeed they are. Today's message was all about
"Maan - Abhimaan".
Let's come to the episode. If
you watch the episode at first you may feel the story hasn't moved and it's
just filler. No. It's not filler rather the story did move forward with the
stage being set for Arnav and Khushi's brain to start the work that was pending
since long. Right from the first scene it was perfect even with Maami-Payal
scene. Yes, their bond has become stronger and she is happy to have a
daughter-in-law who is golden at heart but still Maami being herself was really
a fun to watch. How can the creative change her character??? When a person has
not changed in the last 45 years (I guess that should be her age), how can
anyone change now??? Her character was perfect in today's episode and she was
plain sad for not winning. The reason was Payal's righteousness but that's how
Maami is, sarcastic. I am glad that CVs didn't change her. This is the
Maami I like and I need her English Vocab for future references.
-- I too liked the fact that they've retained Mami's character - she's great as she is - and, though she did say 'Gets out' to Payal, it didn't have the same 'mean' tone like earlier - it seemed like a slightly mellowed version of her former self, but not too diluted too.
Then cometh another character - Shyaam Manhar
Jha. Finally I got my Villain and his character traits back. Manipulative, Selfish to the core but
portraying his caring side to the world, portraying to be the perfect partner
for their "apple of their eyes" - Anjali, Treacherous, Opportunist, Focused. This
is Shyaam Manohar Jha who CANNOT take money from ASR. That is completely
against his mission. So, here comes his scheme. He manipulated Naani so that he
can get a proof of where Arnav keeps his Key. Didn't he know earlier that Arnav
keeps his key in the wallet when Payal interrupted his mission??? Anjali and HP
caught him red handed??? I guess so. Then
why did the CVs forget that; Anyway, I liked that he purposely stumbled upon
ASR and now, I think Anjali will provide the hint to Arnav that Shyaam was searching
the file in his closet with the thread. I love this husband-wife duo. They are
match made in heaven. Anjali will hand over the "Sacred Thread" to Shyaam in
presence of Arnav or may be Khushi but I want both Arnav and Khushi as then
they can connect the dots separately. Khushi will connect with the file that
Arnav didn't wanna discuss in front of her with Mr. Roy and Arnav will connect
with today's Wallet and thread scene. He'll realize it's all about the file and
this will trigger Arnav that if Shyaam - Khushi is close then why Shyaam didn't
ask Khushi for the file. She could have easily helped him, right??? There comes
his first confusion about the "fishiness" in "Shyaam ' Khushi Business".
-- I love the way you process your thoughts... never thought about these various angles to the situation.
Now comes Khushi's turn in
connecting the dots. She will start also, Just a trigger. If she finds out
about Shyaam trespassing to their bedroom and to Arnav's closet, then she might
connect it with Mr. Roy's documents which should lead her to Arnav's declining
to talk to Mr. Roy in her presence. Now this should lead her to the conclusion
that Arnav is suspicious of her being involved with Shyaam. Khushi being Khushi
the moment she figures out Shyaam is the catalyst in this entire situation she
will definitely demand answers from him; there comes another round of face-off
between Shyaam and Khushi.
Coming to Arnav-Khushi face
off, well it will happen but how, can only say on Monday. For this to happen, the
first scene today between Arnav and Anjali was very important. Well well,
didn't I just tell you yesterday that Anjali will clear the air about why
Khushi kept quiet in front of Arnav. Eventually, Arnav will also figure out that
though Khushi could have easily disregarded her promise to Anjali of keeping
quiet but she maintained her promise; she took the wrath of his anger yet,
didn't open her mouth not for Anjali's sake but for his sake, for he will panic
learning of Anjali's dizziness. Then his confusion will be clouding more about
Khushi Kumari Gupta. This loop that I described yesterday will only close when
Arnav will learn why Khushi didn't speak what her fiance did, that day by the
pool to Arnav. He will realize that day, Khushi didn't disclose about Shyaam's
truth because of "his sake".
Before I get into the details
of "Maan - Abhimaan", I'll just talk about some points in my little chat to Star and 4 Lions:-
1. Thanks to you 4 Lions and Star that you
listened and stopped drying clothes by the pool. That was so not suitable to
Raizada's status.
2. Secondly, I liked your appeal to the viewers about watching
Star Plus from 7-9 pm through Khushi's voiceover - "haftein mein paanch din aap
humare saath rahenge sham 7-9 baje, thik hain". Good for the TVR and TRP but, don't forget to educate
the viewers about TRP also, the viewers will learn definitely. Make it direct
so they learn.
3. Thirdly, internet does teach many things so does books otherwise
various publications wouldn't have released ebooks for kindle and other
gazettes. 😃
-- 👏 👏 👏 Awesome DB!!!
"Spiteful words can hurt your
feelings but silence breaks your heart."
Today's episode portrayed
beautifully to one important aspect of love and that is "Chagrin" or "Abhimaan"
in hindi. In the words of Mother Teresa - "See how nature - trees, flowers,
grass - grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in
silence...we need silence to be able to touch souls". Isn't it??? We really
need silence to touch our souls. You know what I do when I am in the juncture
of taking important decisions of my life??? I just take my car and drive away
closer to the nature, where there is tranquility, where there is calmness,
where there is peace and sit and think what has happened and why did it happen
and why I let it happen in the first place. Then looking at the trees and stars
and the vastness of the sky, I realize the answer this nature provides
silently. Intellectuals said it appropriately that the answer is always in the
question.We have to figure out the hint. Yes, Hint.
Today when Khushi had
eavesdropped Arnav and Anjali's conversation at the dining table her heart and
soul were crying for the answer that she is unable to find; her heart was
questioning why this person is so complicated to read. Yes, she is confused and
why she will not be??? It was just yesterday when during the Heer-Ranjha act
Arnav had almost poured out his heart and when she questioned him about that,
she was blatantly refused. What can this girl do if she gets contradictory vibes
from the only person who has won her heart??? Today she saw him caring for his
sister but at the same time she also forgot that day when he cared for her too.
Did she remember that??? NO. She will when she questions herself. That day also
when she fainted and the entire family were with her but it was Arnav who was
more worried, the same way he was today at the dining table. But yeah, how will
she remember if just some hours back he thrashed her heart a-gain. That's why I
said, she needs to question herself on why he is indifferent all of a sudden???
What happened in between before and after haldi ceremony that his attitude have
taken a complete 360* turn??? Why this sudden volte-face in his emotions and
attitude??? Of course she was hurt witnessing him loving and caring towards all
of the family members, esp, his Di except her but she is not realizing
that the people who are angry with you, they feel the right to do so. You have
given him the "Authority" for your heart beats for him; for he is the one from
where you need the most affection from.
The same way Arnav felt when Khushi denied answering his questions. Yes, when she left without
answering Arnav said the first word - "So, what if Di ne kahan dawai lane ke liye,
Khushi Shyaam ke saath jane ke liye maana bhi toh kar sakti thi". This was
"Nothing" but purely "Abhimaan". Yes, it was. It was the "lover" in Arnav
demanded and not the "brother". The brother in Arnav should have been happy
that his wife had taken care of his sister but no, the moment Anjali confirmed
Khushi went 'coz she requested, he bid adieu from there and went straight up to
Khushi to apologize.
[I loved the small touch by
the CVs where Naani came and asked Arnav whether he is searching someone. He said - No and then when HP came he asked about Khushi. I hope therez a continuation
when Naani passes this view of her's that she found Arnav looking for someone
and HP informs her that Arnav was looking for her. She will start thinking a
bit and it's high time she acts towards it. I know she started today and after
today's "Ignore" and "Silence" act, she will be able to connect the dots. ]
Didn't I say that both are
equals for both have said spiteful words to each other? Khushi said
- "humhein aap ko kuch bhi batane ki koi zaroorat nehin hain" and Arnav
said - "yahan toh you've made my life hell anyway". WOW. I love these two. They are perfect for each
other. It was hurtful, really really hurtful but the mighty Arnav Singh Raizada
has no idea that what "IGNORE" is all about. He blurted this is hell and Khushi
decided to show him what a hell actually looks like. I loved her attitude - "so
you wanted this, well I'll serve you with a silver platter". There you go Arnav
Singh Raizada, ENJOY. She started giving him the "Ignore" and "Silent"
treatment; first day he didn't feel much of a difference because right now he is under the impression that she doesn't love
him; but the second day when he came back from office he started experiencing the
"VOID" that his heart was feeling; without that one voice, without that one
look, without that one smile, without that one bickering, without that one
warmth. His heart was empty, his room was empty, his entire world came to a standstill.
I loved the "Last Rabba Ve" where Arnav went to freshen up and he turned back and started remembering the moments touching the stars, that was PERFECT RV till
date, of all the Rabba Ves. That moment my heart really ached; I really felt as,
if she comes right now in this room, he will run and hug her and exactly remember
his Di's words and say - "kahan chali
gayi thi tum ??? pata hain how worried I was??? Don't you dare do that to me
again???" Yes, he would have said for as Helen
Rowland says ~ "A man is like a cat; chase him and he will run - sit still and
ignore him and he'll come purring at your feet".
Look at the below picture how
he came purring at her feet :-
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