I love this post!
My problem with Sanchi is her treatment of Indu's love towards her. I
completely respect the fact that even though Indu loves her truly she herself
has no affection for him. Just because someone loves you it doesn't mean that
you have to love them back.
And yes Indu's love for Sanchi wasn't wrong but his methods of wooing his lady
love were either stupid or plain wrong. But seriously at any point why didn't
Sanchi sit down and think to herself, 'Does Indu Singh, actually love me?'
Is that the reason why he declared so in public? Is that why after I humiliated
him by saying no, he didn't seek revenge on me? Is that why he always tells me
he does? Is that why he sends his friends to watch over me? Is that why he
won't allow any of the students or teachers to bully me? Is that why he gets
upset when I cry? Is that why when I yell at him he cries, and instantly
softens?
I really wish Sanchi had confronted Indu and told him why she didn't and
couldn't love him rather, then just yelling or constantly harping her mantra of
'I hate you', 'I will never marry you' and 'I will never love you'. Don't just
state it Sanchi, explain the reason for your words too.
Indu said he knew you were decent caring girl, that's why he loves you. If you
explained how his violent and aggressive nature scared and disgusted you. I
actually think Indu would have understood. Add that his temper is the root
cause for all your dislike towards him, and I do think Indu would have tried to
change and control it for you.
The way Sanchi disregarded Indu's love was really sad. She treated his love for
her as a personal affront. The way she acted, I actually think she would have
preferred it if Indu had rather than saying he loved her, slapped her instead!
There was no worse insult in her eyes than Indu's love for her.
Hopefully one day Sanchi will realise the worth of Indu's love. I truly want
this, just for Indu's sake.
I love this post!
My problem with Sanchi is her treatment of Indu's love towards her. I
completely respect the fact that even though Indu loves her truly she herself
has no affection for him. Just because someone loves you it doesn't mean that
you have to love them back.
And yes Indu's love for Sanchi wasn't wrong but his methods of wooing his lady
love were either stupid or plain wrong. But seriously at any point why didn't
Sanchi sit down and think to herself, 'Does Indu Singh, actually love me?'
Is that the reason why he declared so in public? Is that why after I humiliated
him by saying no, he didn't seek revenge on me? Is that why he always tells me
he does? Is that why he sends his friends to watch over me? Is that why he
won't allow any of the students or teachers to bully me? Is that why he gets
upset when I cry? Is that why when I yell at him he cries, and instantly
softens?
I really wish Sanchi had confronted Indu and told him why she didn't and
couldn't love him rather, then just yelling or constantly harping her mantra of
'I hate you', 'I will never marry you' and 'I will never love you'. Don't just
state it Sanchi, explain the reason for your words too.
Indu said he knew you were decent caring girl, that's why he loves you. If you
explained how his violent and aggressive nature scared and disgusted you. I
actually think Indu would have understood. Add that his temper is the root
cause for all your dislike towards him, and I do think Indu would have tried to
change and control it for you.
The way Sanchi disregarded Indu's love was really sad. She treated his love for
her as a personal affront. The way she acted, I actually think she would have
preferred it if Indu had rather than saying he loved her, slapped her instead!
There was no worse insult in her eyes than Indu's love for her.
Hopefully one day Sanchi will realise the worth of Indu's love. I truly want
this, just for Indu's sake.