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Hi friend I am bijy, bijy bijy (sorry busy)...But still have to write this...
Must admit I was so very upset after reading yesterday's update about Mallu gifting Ashu the house and Rohan's weird behaviour indicating his turning negative...that I was happy I had missed the episode...Sorry standing on instant judgement about TV shows is a fault of mine...
But after logically thinking over the developments in the recent past I realised I had been hasty in my judgement...
We all know that Mallu loves Ashu...Her recent behaviour towards Nidhi though unwarranted and even malicious can be excused on these grounds...By buying the house and now gifting it to Ashu she has shown that she will go to any extreme to get Ashu...Is she wrong in doing this??????
Although her method of gaining possession of the house was bad..yet the motive behind her gifting it back to Ashu can be understood...(Let us forget that initially her motive was to separate Ashni)...We are all expecting Mallu to propose to Ashu...The million dollar question is should and will Ashu accept the proposal??? Ashu is hopelessly in love with Nidhi...and his love has actually been rendered hopeless by Nidhi's promise to her Baba...This is the very same Nidhi who had most confidently told Ashu (1) that she was much stronger than him and would not care what the world said...etc etc...Then when Ashu (2) wanted to fight for their love Nidhi laid down arms and ran away from the battle field without even an argument...leave alone a battle/fight...What kind of love is this????? Not only that but she makes a pretence of being happy and convinces Ashu she has moved in and asks him also to move on...Under these circumstances what can the poor man do? He has two options open to him...Spend the rest of his life loving and missing Nidhi... or alternately settle for the one who loves him and move on...I know its a tough choice to make but it has to be done...
I have tried my best to figure out the logic behind Nidhi's actions but am unable to find one...True she is doing this for her family's sake...but is she right in putting family over Ashu? That too when she knows that its because of her that the old introvert Ashu/Hardstone has changed into a loving, caring person...one who loves Nidhi to the extreme...Should Nidhi not think about the effect of her actions on him? She who claimed to love him so much just walks in and tells him "I have moved on and u too should do the same"...I actually felt like shaking her and telling her...'kya hua tera vaada...woh kasam woh irada" ...I agree that she was not wrong in thinking about her family...But sometimes to make our near and dear ones realise that they are wrong we can safely resort to some sort of emotional blackmail...I do that all the time...and believe me it pays off...I watch this show with my 11 year old and she pointed out to me that "mummy why does Nidhi not do what u do...U always show u are hurt when we are naughty...Am sure baba will allow her to marry Ashu if she shows him how unhappy she is"...She always says I use emotional atyachar on them...
The point i am trying to make here is that we are living in the 21st century and to find such a huge issue being made about a thing like age gap is a bit far-fetched in my opinion..True the age gap here is a fairly big one of 18 years...but still this is not an insurmountable problem in this day and age of modern thinking...After all it is upto the two individuals involved to solve any differences which may arise in this situation...I still can't understand why it is such a huge social problem...What has society to do with how old or young one partner is as compared to the other...It would be understandable if they were of different faith..because even today there are some societal norms regarding inter-faith marriages...But age-gap is definitely such a big issue now-a-days...Had it been 2-3 decades these things would definitely have been digestible...
Coming back to the main mudda...Just as Baba thinking that age-gap will ruin his family's reputation and respect is indigestible so is Nidhi's attitude to Baba's opposition...Arre yaar loving is not a sin...its simply how u feel for a person...if u can love him and live with him happily with all his minus points then what more can a person ask? I just want to say that the Cvs should give a valid reason as to why Nidhi has given up on her love and happiness without a fight...In my opinion thats not love...Ashu was probably right when he told Arman in the beginning that what Nidhi was feeling was possibly hero-worship...her attitude is proving that he was right in his assumption...Love cannot be switched on and off at one's will...Hope Ashni realise this before its too late...
As for Rohan...Just watching the episode and yes his SRK style is starting...the stammering and the expressions...all go to prove that in addition to a vamp we will soon get to see a villain also...They ware spoiling the image of this lovely sweet character...One more question...Whats with Nidhi????? Does she not even think that her actions may cause a wrong impression on Rohan...All this hair ruffling and all...Its enough to drive even a saint crazy...And after all Rohan is just a human...
Sorry for the long and boring post...but I can't keep quiet when I see a show or character being butchered...The only saving grace yesterday was Ashni's nainon ki bhashas and Nidhi's saying sotto voce..."adrak nahin hogi na"...sweetest thing I saw...Made me forget my anger at her for a moment at least...
Just hoping against hope that Mallu-Ashu engagement/marriage does not happening..Dont think if I will be able to watch that...
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