ok after reading so many posts about Khushi and how she behaves around Arnav, it got me thinking...
See we have a jijaji in the family. He has a temper like you won't believe. Won't care whose there who is not will just burst out at whoever whenever. He is tall and punjabi with a loud booming voice so can come of as being very scary. Many people and family members are scared of him.
When I got married and came into the family I was quite young. Baby of the family. My husband is the youngest and so here I was even younger. But for some reason he didn't scare me at all. I could see behind the mask there was a heart of gold. So how did I treat the man and his temper?? Just like Khushi does with Arnav. Childish jokes. Pointing out his pet dialogues and all. Sometimes he would behave in ways that could be hurtful like ignoring or saying something extremely rude but I would just ignore him. Give him space and the next day pretend like nothing happened. Eventually he melted. Melted to the point where even my MIL if she wants to convey a msg she does it through me.
He treats me like a daughter now and my Sis in law loves the fact that I never misunderstood him. You can say took some crap but stood firm. So now we have an amazing family relationship.
In many ways I have this nature too. When everyones serious I'm not.
So i can see khushis childishness. Im 32 and a mom now and still do stupid stuff.
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