Posted: 20 December 2011 at 10:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by fairy17
Okay so let me just treat this place where I can vent a little about today's episode, as well as comment on a few other things.
As much as JM are close, inseparable, etc. I really am not fond of this entire calling-all-the-time thing. Maanvi is one thing, but Jeevika is older, mature, and she is married, has a family now. Both of them really need to just sit down and sort it out that they won't stop talking, but they have to limit themselves. It's not the end of the world, if they don't talk 24/7. Let alone Viren's family, but Jeevika has a HUSBAND now...who loves her immensely! Which brings me to m 2nd point here...
Oh em gee..gimme a break from Jeevika's coyness...when will she give in?! I'm not saying give in completely and show us on screen, but Jeevika needs to give into the fact that they're married now...yes, being shy is one thing, going overboard with the shyness and not opening upto your husband is another. Bechara Viren is already getting disappointed bar bar...with all the interruptions, be it his upset stomach, lunch time call, mandir visit, or his cold.
Lastly, I know Swamini is a grey character, in the sense that she's very strict and hates Manvi without a reason, ANYWAY. But without being bias, I feel that her anger today was totally valid. As I mentioned earlier, Jeevika needs to set a limit on how much the sisters will interact, she's not in her maika anymore and somethings just have to change. It's the reality of life. Instead of making a big deal out of it, they can accept and be HAPPY about it that Jeevika's is happily married.
I'm sorry if I offend anyone. Nothing that I said was intended to bash anyone...all of it is pure opinion for the sake of this discussion.
oh trust me all the posts here have been in accordance to the erratic stuff shown today.. arey have some semblance..
on your point no.1.. is swamini really out of line to think manu is being a hindrance.. she doesnt even know abt the kheer fiasco.. she wld have flipped out.. see last time owing to manu call jeevika forgot sugar.. this time she forgot swamini is talking.. arey baba love, attachment is one thing.. forgetting the world for it is totally out of line..
you mean to say as a teacher she wld stop her lecture and attend to Manu's need.. why cant she see this as her job too..
secondly I totally agree.. I dont expect her to be on the same page of investment as Viren.. but be responsive.. she is coming across as thoughtless... how much the guy is bending for her man.. who does that in real life.. the whole barn sbs also gives the feel she will keep cowering.. any guy wld lose patience.. like she has been forced into this..
i mean.. she was more enthusiastic of the whole equation before marriage.. even called him on her own few times.. chalo its only been a day.. but one can see she is not emotionally invested to her hubby.. why does yer mom in law have to tell u.. to arrange for yer hubbies clothes..
as for swamini she put her finger on a sore.. rather early.. she can foresee it.. and is being the villain for viren's sake and her own convictions.. yes she goes overboard.. but then who is really being in limits and appropriate here.. Jeevika.. Manvi who.. Jeevika can come and say sorry 2049271 times.. but she has to consciously stop herself from goofing up.. how long will viren or virat cover her back..
and I repeat.. every opinion whether we agree or not will be respected in my threads.. so feel free to express yourself..