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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 10:10am | IP Logged
Well Im not sure how many of you have actually been in asian countries where marriages are arranged. The society & family values teach women & men that you love your spouse whom you marry. Im fine with any marriage let it be love / arranged as long as one knows what one is getting into...neither in both can a person know other person all thru...Yeah in a love marriage you have the feeling of love deciding in the decision of marriage...In a arranged marriage...spouses try to know each other, be friends but also know that this is the person who is ur life partner...the relationship moves thru different stages of love ...attraction, friendship, physical love, first stages of love etc...u never know when u exactly fall in love with the other person (similar to u never know when you have fallen in love in a love marriage) it could be at time when you first see each other or when you meet each other in the marriage, mayb after a month, or years or at the end phase of life or you may never fall in love...in any marriage the important thing is when this love moves & becomes a strong bond which tugs & pulls each other thru eternity !!!
 
Coming to Gopi I do not see it wrong that she fell in love with Ahem even before she saw him...all it depends to see if this love will get stronger that it tugs both of them...or will it just melt by !!!!
 
For Ahem he is just getting to know Gopi so we do not know when & if he will fall in love...So lets wait & C if this marriage will become strong to become soul mates !!!!

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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 11:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by navyab

Well Im not sure how many of you have actually been in asian countries where marriages are arranged. The society & family values teach women & men that you love your spouse whom you marry. Im fine with any marriage let it be love / arranged as long as one knows what one is getting into...neither in both can a person know other person all thru...Yeah in a love marriage you have the feeling of love deciding in the decision of marriage...In a arranged marriage...spouses try to know each other, be friends but also know that this is the person who is ur life partner...the relationship moves thru different stages of love ...attraction, friendship, physical love, first stages of love etc...u never know when u exactly fall in love with the other person (similar to u never know when you have fallen in love in a love marriage) it could be at time when you first see each other or when you meet each other in the marriage, mayb after a month, or years or at the end phase of life or you may never fall in love...in any marriage the important thing is when this love moves & becomes a strong bond which tugs & pulls each other thru eternity !!!
 
Coming to Gopi I do not see it wrong that she fell in love with Ahem even before she saw him...all it depends to see if this love will get stronger that it tugs both of them...or will it just melt by !!!!
 
For Ahem he is just getting to know Gopi so we do not know when & if he will fall in love...So lets wait & C if this marriage will become strong to become soul mates !!!!
i gues u also dont have a clue about asian weddings when its arranged al girls who come to know this is going to be my husband now they start dreaming about love with him like gopi did the puppet show his pic in newspaper and that dreaming starts strengthing that love if even the husband feels the same for her
with love marriages it is also true it never remains the same why becausebthan she was only loving the man now she also has to love the family of the same man she loved on heels now if that doesnt happen we say or see that even love marriages trash

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