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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 7:16am | IP Logged
I remember a scene with Gopi and Panna and Panna had asked her what type of husband would she like.  They were standing watching a puppet show and Gopi said to Panna that she would like a husband who would cherish her and treat her like a princess or words to that effect.  So she does know of love.    But in an arranged marriage if you are lucky it will develop through appreciation, friendship and then love.  It is only the very lucky ones who are attracted to each other straight away.  Trust me.
 
 I do feel sorry for Gopi though.  With the upbringing she has had and her spirit broken by Urmila she will latch onto any bit of affection she is given be it right or wrong.  Maybe that is why she cannot see the evilness behind Urmila and selfishness in Rashi.   Soz it's a bit deep.Wacko

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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 7:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by queenyuks

<font color="#9900FF" size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Gopi does love him, but for all the wrong reasons, I think.

I mean, she immediately started to worship and idolize him, as soon as their marriage was arranged.

And she fell in love with him, not knowing anything about him. The more she learned about him, the harder she fell. But initially, it was only because she was to be married to him. She worships him like she worships her Kanhaji. Rejection from him is probably like a stab through the heart

Im sure that if her marriage was arranged with Jigar, or Elesh, or Umang, Gopi would have lived them the same way that she loves Ahem

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i know now she loves him but is not in love with him. She loves him coz he s her husband not coz he is ahem.
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Gopi is in love with ahem,not only bcoz he's her husband..she loves ahem for ahem..when its true love we r talking about,it happens the same time when u see the person who is made 4 u..coz that time u've a kind of feeling u never had and ur heart and mind becomes one...if gopi wud have married jigar,elesh or umang..she wud never hav had the same kind of feeling..she wud never have fallen in love with jigar,elesh or umang if she were to b married to any one of them.we shd remember jodis r made from heaven,u cant change it...but yeah,i dont get the fact of what made her fall in love with ahem tho..
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 9:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by vibz88

I know after reading the topic all of u want to beat me with a stick but hear me out.


An indian girl from a small town marries a guy in an arranged marriage not for love but coz her parents want it.she knows she will get a secure life but there is no love in between.

No kind of romantic love like v expect.the dates the flowers the chocolates dont play any part there.

Gopi has not been to school she does not have friends of her age.does she even know bout birds and bees?no i dont think so.

She worships ahem.he s her husband and she will support him be with him always.but wat about romantic love where your heart beats faster when u c tat special someone.ur heart skips a beat when they touch u.
I know am talkin crap but pl share ur views.am curious and thinking now.
Oh i guess u havent watched the whole year how gopi use to react when Ahm did something nice for her even with his anger the expressions showed love for him then before marriage how she acted over his pic in newspaper then the puppets how she drooled over it and panna teasing her and she going Embarrassed thats gopi in love
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 9:05am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Eva456

Gopi is in love with ahem,not only bcoz he's her husband..she loves ahem for ahem..when its true love we r talking about,it happens the same time when u see the person who is made 4 u..coz that time u've a kind of feeling u never had and ur heart and mind becomes one...if gopi wud have married jigar,elesh or umang..she wud never hav had the same kind of feeling..she wud never have fallen in love with jigar,elesh or umang if she were to b married to any one of them.we shd remember jodis r made from heaven,u cant change it...but yeah,i dont get the fact of what made her fall in love with ahem tho..
No gopi is a woman who would have fallen in love with even Dhaval a woman who thinks love is your husbandOuch
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 9:28am | IP Logged
Gopi does love Ahem I think, she's grown to by only focusing on what's good about him and if she didn't love him then I don't get why she would be so hurt by his rejections 

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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 9:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by pearlali

Originally posted by vibz88

I know after reading the topic all of u want to beat me with a stick but hear me out.


An indian girl from a small town marries a guy in an arranged marriage not for love but coz her parents want it.she knows she will get a secure life but there is no love in between.

No kind of romantic love like v expect.the dates the flowers the chocolates dont play any part there.

Gopi has not been to school she does not have friends of her age.does she even know bout birds and bees?no i dont think so.

She worships ahem.he s her husband and she will support him be with him always.but wat about romantic love where your heart beats faster when u c tat special someone.ur heart skips a beat when they touch u.
I know am talkin crap but pl share ur views.am curious and thinking now.

<div></div>Oh i guess u havent watched the whole year how gopi use to react when Ahm did something nice for her even with his anger the expressions showed love for him then before marriage how she acted over his pic in newspaper then the puppets how she drooled over it and panna teasing her and she going Embarrassedthats gopi in love
am talking bout romantic lovey dovey love. Not the real love which grows with time.
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 9:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by vibz88

Originally posted by pearlali

Originally posted by vibz88

I know after reading the topic all of u want to beat me with a stick but hear me out.


An indian girl from a small town marries a guy in an arranged marriage not for love but coz her parents want it.she knows she will get a secure life but there is no love in between.

No kind of romantic love like v expect.the dates the flowers the chocolates dont play any part there.

Gopi has not been to school she does not have friends of her age.does she even know bout birds and bees?no i dont think so.

She worships ahem.he s her husband and she will support him be with him always.but wat about romantic love where your heart beats faster when u c tat special someone.ur heart skips a beat when they touch u.
I know am talkin crap but pl share ur views.am curious and thinking now.

<div></div>Oh i guess u havent watched the whole year how gopi use to react when Ahm did something nice for her even with his anger the expressions showed love for him then before marriage how she acted over his pic in newspaper then the puppets how she drooled over it and panna teasing her and she going Embarrassedthats gopi in love
am talking bout romantic lovey dovey love. Not the real love which grows with time.
well she is an easter girl (mashraki larki) who waits for his man to make a move and we l know her man than she has moved a lot of time but again she has faced negation from her man than she just a beautiful cultured eastern girl a tha tha thai not rock and rollTongue

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