somethin abt the last episode

Ysterdays epi was lovely 90% of it was due to gohem , their relationship is moving along nicely towards a friendship but I picked up on a few things that has me feeling many different emotions. I thought I will list it so you guys tell me whether I am seeing something that's not there , pls comment :

1.When Gopi explained the rules of ludo to ahem although I was happy that she knew
   Something he didn't cos it displayed the balance each other will bring to their relationship
   As they complete each other but I couldn't help but feel ahem and gopi had alot in common
   than is seen on the surface. I felt a little sad for ahem cos no matter how priviledged his childhood
   May have been he lacked a few fundamentals of growing up like all carefree little boys as from a young
   Age he pushed to make up for the lack of ambition in his father , which young child doesn't know how to
Play a game of ludo , only somebody who was so focused on achieving in the academic field.Koki drove him
Into securing the title of heir to the family business and becoming a workacholic also robbed him of normal
Childhood. It is sad cos I thought to all da tyms they reminise abt their naughty childhood its always abt kinjal and jigar
Never ahem only once during the mango plucking incident ahem told gopi a little abt his childhood.
2.Gopi is falling inlove with ahem all over again , ok I agree who could resists this man , but I am afraid for her cos he is
Slow in realising wot he feels for her could lead to her being hurt again.
3. Is koki gonna again become the barrier in them growing closer and having a real marriage
4. Why was Chirag highlighting the fact that gopi has become an intregal part of their family.   

The best part of the epi was when ahem took the blame for playing ludo cos he knew who was gonna
Feel his moms anger so he protected what was his .

Def,loved your post😛

taniks first thing i loved the post a lot... got me to wear my thinking cap and all the points u highlighted might have huge impact in the upcoming tracks...
 
- i am always intrigued by his childhood... i made a couple of posts regarding this last week... A man so serious in attitude an such an introvert.. with very few words to talk... how could his childhood have been...
- with mom like koki whose whole aim is to be make her child the heir of their business and a mom who does not entertain any fun or laughter of any sort... how could be the childhood days of this guy,,,...
- i don't see ahem having any close friends... or any sort of friends for that matter...
- even i am worried abt the statement chirag made... koki is mom to gopi... does that mean we see a heart broken gopi(maybe by Ahem) and will be supported and cared by koki...


Edited by munnihyderabad - 12 years ago

1. Regarding ahem I agree with you. He has always led his life like a robot😆 I would love to know what he did in childhood. I think he has had no fun in his childhood. He has led a boring life without any friends. Even with kinjal and jigar I don't think his behaviour is anything like buddies.

2. Gopi has always loved ahem even if he has hated him since begining. She just tried to stay away from him for his happiness only. Now she has started to see changes in ahem and hence is more comfortable around him and expressing herself in front of him. So we get the feeling that she started loving him again but she has never backed off her duties as his wife.

3. Koki becoming a barrier between gohem I don't think so. Koki says she is the mother of gopi and if she starts feeling insecure of gopi about her son then she doesn't have to say such big things that she can't follow.

4. Its obvious that when a person lives for such a long time with you he becomes an integral part of your family.

Thanks guys for urs input , I feel that if given the chance gopi is gonna give Ahem the fun part he was missing. Last nites epi was a typical example of him enjoying himself , I have never seen him smile so much and so relaxed ,as he played it was almost as if he was looking at gopi for praise on his playing skills . He was like a little boy enjoying himself it is good that he can feel comfortable with his wife and let go of that cloak of responsibility and seriousness . I don't think anybody has seen him like this not his mom or anita but wud gopi he knows there will be no consequences of him just chilling so if u can't do that wud ur wife who can u do it with. He also trust gopi enough to let go and be a little softer than he usually is cos he knows she will never judge him or take advantage as everybody else around him would.

Spot on taniks!! Yeah he dint ve a childhood probably he was made to work very hard and was groomed to take over his chirag kaka s place. He was not allowed to play simple board games like ludo probably he was allowed oly chess to make him more smart.
Gopi fell in love with ahem and i never felt she was out of love even once so she s gonna be hurt a lot if ahem declares tat he does not love her once again.

Koki is concerned bout gopi and hopefully wants to shield her from the pain.

Great post taniks! 

Oh my great response shaun u are right abt ahem can never go back to his old self .when I say she is falling in love with him all over again I mean she seeing this caring ,attentative side of him she is falling more and more in love wud him, she has always loved him even though he gave a damn abt her nothing hindered her love for him but now she sees the changes in him , she will be having thoses feelings of the throes of being inlove which she had suppressed all this tym ,its already visible in her fbs and her missing him when he is not around.

Taniks, I completely agree with you...great post!!
Shaun, exactly my thoughts...Actors are packing too much realism in their acting hope Cv's  live up to our expectation. Hope they don't mess Kokila's character but it would be  interesting how Ahem will handle 2 imp women in his life without hurting & neglecting anybody...I guess all the drama lies in...How to be Saathiya with Koki mom around 😆

 Our dashing Ahem Modi today had a certain boy-in-a-candyshop air about him and he was totally unaware of what he has gone through in a matter few minutes while playing ludo. Yes, he was completely at ease & enjoying the game. Both Ahem & Gopi had to become responsible much before their age. Both of them are very take charge kind of person & work well under pressure. Ahem is physically strong & Gopi is emotionally strong.

Love is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship.