The Man is really pissed off.. A few quite words from his wife; all he can react is go simply ballistic.. A reasonable demand of explanation of the scene that happened in the middle of road in a foreign land... Nothing wrong in asking; either as a wife or as a new found friend..but does it really warrant such a reaction from from Ram??Its really annoying..
Lets go a little deep into his characterisation and personality, to get an insight into his behaviour..
He is a man who has sacrificed for long at the cost of his own pleasures and happiness..What was the incident, that was a turning point in his life will get revealed sooner or later..But so far he has been totally brain washed by his evil family or is like an Ostrich burying his head in his work and refusing to see all those machinations of his so called loved ones..
A friend in the form of Vikram has been his pillar of strength so far..But even he can only put some sense in Ram, to a certain extent.,as there is a limit when it concerns his family too..Dont know how far Vikram is aware of the whole past of Ram..
Now amidst all these like a whiff of fresh breath comes Priya into his life..Agreed its difficult to change himself in just a few weeks of marriage...But am sure this marriage of compromise will soon get dissolved into one of, need and Love..But thats another matter altogether..
Coming to the point,Ram's behaviour towards Priya stems from insecurity..A fear that his past will definitely cast a shadow in his present and a future tha tmight turn ugly..He is typical, in a male thinking that wife or otherwise dosent have much say in his decisions or his life..He is his own master to handle things that he see fit and in his own way..
Priya does evoke and stir something inside him, that he is not able to title it..But now he feels threatened that his past may upset the present and future lives of everyone in his family included..That he really cant handle..He had an aim , a goal in his life; to work for the Company and make others happy..Now if that apple cart is upset he will go to pieces.. Thats a mortal fear for him..
So the best way to solve this sudden problem is get angry unduly and refusing to talk about it to anyone;including himself... Trying to distract her, he has evaded to give the accountability , she deserves.. A closed mind and heart and refusing to do any retrospection, is all he is capable of.. The net result Priya gets the blast of his ire, the full force of his fear and insecurity and a glimpse of his battered and beleaguered soul..
It has all snowballed into this , "Who gave you the right to ask and You dont have any Right!!"...
BTW its has become a lengthy post..All these days it was pissing me mega time and now am out with it, leaving it for your valuable comments..ππ
Edited by maris08 - 12 years ago
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