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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 7:03pm | IP Logged
This drama is amazing...depicts reality of oppression!!

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 7:18pm | IP Logged
There is another possibility.  

As Vidya's mother led Vidya's father away, he demanded she tell him.  And she tells him basically what the doctor said, that Gaurav has never been with Vidya.  

But I don't know... his anger seemed way  than that.  Yes that itself would lead to anger, but if it's just an inability to perform, it could also have been a revelation to Gaurav after marriage. (Not that the men really expect other men to be celibate till marriage.)   The way her father was sure and angry that Gaurav married Vidya knowing his "state" makes me believe he understood what Gaurav was trying to say.

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 7:22pm | IP Logged
Arshie...yup...based on Vidya's dad's final reaction, that is the writer's intent...they meant to show that he understood what Gaurav's being gay meant. The initial reaction was not consistent with that...for me! Ermm LOL

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 9:53pm | IP Logged
i just hope vidya doesnt again say that i will stick with him and then again coz him more pain/ guilt. and he breaks up with karan agian. i hope she takes a divorce and unites karan and gaurav . i know not fair for her, but the way she is clinging on to guarav is further spoiling their life
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 1:13am | IP Logged
I too hope Vidya wont tel dat she wil sacrifice for Gaurav

anyways first tym watchng dis much of speed in a serial...
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 3:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by BheegiBasanti

Originally posted by indiaforums1234

Based on the father's first reaction, where he said something like, what is this gay, what is the disease?, it didn't seem like he knew what being gay was.

But what did Vidya's mother know and how did she explain to the father after she took him away for a private talk? From what's been shown in the past, Vidya never clearly explained to her mother what the issue was. 




That is what I felt too...he did not seem to connect with the word "gay" at all initially. I was shocked to see him come back shouting.



i think you guys are right that he didn't connect the word and meaning initially, but when he came back and said something like "people like you should be burned," to me it was clear that somehow he got to understand that gaurav prefers men.

Originally posted by likarsh

There is another possibility.  

As Vidya's mother led Vidya's father away, he demanded she tell him.  And she tells him basically what the doctor said, that Gaurav has never been with Vidya.  

But I don't know... his anger seemed way  than that.  Yes that itself would lead to anger, but if it's just an inability to perform, it could also have been a revelation to Gaurav after marriage. (Not that the men really expect other men to be celibate till marriage.)   The way her father was sure and angry that Gaurav married Vidya knowing his "state" makes me believe he understood what Gaurav was trying to say.



yeah, especially since we don't know what Vidya's mother knows, it's interesting to consider what she might have said. I really doubt that Vidya's father thought it was only an issue of inability to perform - I would expect more man-to-man sympathy and awkwardness about the issue of impotence, rather than the rage-filled confrontation...I agree with what you concluded, that his comments about Gaurav knowingly ruining Vidya's life show that he understood what the problem between them is.
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 4:15am | IP Logged
Initially Vidyas father did not know what gay meant. But once her mother took him to the side and told him he clearly understood. But when did Vidyas mother find out  Confused
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Posted: 20 December 2011 at 5:02am | IP Logged
ya...how cum vidyas ma know d meaning of 'gay'?

i rem wen longbak vidya told ma dat gaurav loves his friends karan only...her ma replied wats wrong in loving a friend...and vidya was fed up of making her understand the meaning of gay

as far as i knw vidyas ma only know dat garurav cant give her a child...but dnt knw dat he is gay

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