Posted: 21 December 2011 at 2:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by soapbubble
Originally posted by gohem_forever
I know whatever i am going to do next is blasphemy. But...just for the sake of it... imagine gopi as the spouse of jigar and bahu of hetal... She would have got whatever she ever wished in her life. Gopi wouldn't have to fight for every bit of love she receive from koki-ahem gang.Jigar would have made sure that his wife is treated like a queen ...no more than a queen... He normally treats raashi like a queen, who does not even deserve the treatment of the maid. Jigar - Gopi would have made a loving couple. But alas we would have missed our gohem...
Ok Ok i am back from my dreams... bash me for the blasphemy...
Yes, it's true, Gopi would have been VERY happy with Jigar. He'd have treated her nice, Hetal would have been truly maternal, Chirag would've patted her on the head everyday and they would all be very happy...
I have this theory about people and who they fall in love with. About self esteem, karmic bonds and looking beyond the social to the person.soul underneath.
If you look at it technically, Ahem is WAY out of Gopi's league. He's educated, sharp, classy, sophisticated. Gopi is uneducated, naive, simple, innocent. She shouldn't have DREAMT of a man like Ahem. But the thing is Gopi loves Ahem. Not for duty, not because he's her husband, not because she's supposed to. Gopi loves Ahem, she's in love with him, she's attracted to every aspect of him, even the harsher bits, she fancies him... she's always LOOKING at him, every chance she can get.
I think this is Gopi's innate self esteem - basically she thinks she deserves an Ahem Modi. She feels she can handle him, take him on. I don't mean this at the level of psychology but call it soul knowledge, maybe?
And Ahem is now slowly looking beyond the surface to see Gopi - even is she's simple and all those things, there is no denying that she's a powerhouse. And he's beginning to see that.
Gopi & Jigar grrr rr ...gohem_forever yes, you uttered blasphemy!!
I agree with Bubble that Gopi would have been happy with soft spoken, clean hearted & peaceful Jigar Modi. She would have been like a doll on a doll house. But her life would have been one dimensional
. There would not have been any life & salt in their relationship...Knowledge of Good & Bad makes us all human. Just imagine the DNA of GOJI lol
Gopi & Ahem are like chalk & cheese but their shared need for combat ( one is fighting for love & other is fighting for hate
) makes their relationship so insanely exciting, adventurous & special. Our dearest GOpi had to shed lots of tears, had a broken heart, but she knew what she had signed
up for from the first night itself. Highly illogical but completely
dillogical...even after all the bad things you put me through, after
all the tears I shed over you, after everything you said that wasn't
true...for some odd reason, I'm still in love with you. The inference
being obvious...Gohem's love is bitter sweet. They have successfully expressed themselves beyond their masks & roles. Their love allows one person to complete the other.
Bubble the part in the bold 100% agree with you. Rest of you...To understand us you'll have to page Dr. Freud The
best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what
true love really is. As gold is tested in fire...love is perfected in Pain Do I have to write the DNA of Gohem baby ? lol
Combine anger with innocence, passion with truth, love with
values, impulsiveness with forgiveness, biceps with palla on head, childishness with arrogance, smile
with smirk, mom ka Ahem with adarsh Gopi vahu...
Edited by 5cents - 21 December 2011 at 2:06am