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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by purvimeh

As Much as I understand how everyone feels for Kastur... But reality in Indian culture and society still affirms to believe and preach their daughters from Child hood that " Your Ultimate destination and Life is HUBANDS & INLAWS" 

I do not see anything wrong what Kastur was made to say today..by the Creatives...! Maybe some do not see it but it is preached directly or indirectly even till date...! 

Its a clash of btw being practical and being golden ideology & CV are doing a fab job.. 

Its a Soap after all..! 


I already said this highlighting or showing how society thinks is all good but projecting it as right approach is something i can never accept .. kastur is suppose to be  on the right in this show ... and when they make her utter all that stereotypical non sense it means they project it as right approach which is disgusting for me, if you think its alright thats your opinion and like always i have no problem with it but being a woman i can never approve of it

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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:25am | IP Logged
It would have been so much better and more positive if they had actually shown reena take a divorce and get a new man in her life 

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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by likarsh

Originally posted by purvimeh

As Much as I understand how everyone feels for Kastur... But reality in Indian culture and society still affirms to believe and preach their daughters from Child hood that " Your Ultimate destination and Life is HUBANDS & INLAWS" 

I do not see anything wrong what Kastur was made to say today..by the Creatives...! Maybe some do not see it but it is preached directly or indirectly even till date...! 

Its a clash of btw being practical and being golden ideology & CV are doing a fab job.. 

Its a Soap after all..! 
So Reena had an arranged marriage. Okay. But Baapji's letting her stay in her Mayka so long still doesn't make sense. After all, shouldn't he have forced her to go back? That's within his character But they didn't do that.

Kastur said long ago her thinking is not old fashioned. And yet she espouses this crap. I understand wanting to make it work, but saying... marriage is it, you stick by no matter what... what a bunch of regressive bullshit.

I wouldn't have a problem if were were shown that Kastur too needs to mature rework her beliefs and views. She too needs to change and learn.  But I don't see that being the case.  Kastur's beliefs are the right beliefs... apparently.  She's going to stick by them, and we're supposed to root her on.

I'm off for now. I'll be back later.


I don't see what so regressive in her staying. How will Kastur learn in her in laws house I ask cause I don't see any woman in that house volunteering or is good enough to do it. If Kastur is acting on how she was raised then what is it that is her fault?

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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Soaps1

It would have been so much better and more positive if they had actually shown reena take a divorce and get a new man in her life 
Word. I wanted to say this yesterday, but I wanted to make sure I understood the situation correctly...i.e. read the update.


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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
i agree d CVs always tried 2 project baapji nd kastr ight 4 d viewers..
always they project saroj nd mohan as wrong, but actually d case is opposite..
if u r a human u shud hv gud nd bad qualities, u shud feel bad nd gud, u shud speak 4 urself nd bcum selfish nd den def trie 2 make ur luved ones lives better..
but wateva baapji nd kastur does is pathetic.
baapji tortures nd insults every1 nd name it as unity.
kastur is ready 2 agree wid him only bcos he is d eldest nd not bcos she feels it right.
baapji wont let ne1 fulfill dere dreams bcos he has 2 save family parampara nd kastur feels dat fulfiiling ur dreams wont giv u happiness if sum ppl in d family disagree.
i mean 4 god sake in which book did d CVs read all dese??



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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by --Ramyaks--

Originally posted by silky_harshad

Originally posted by --Ramyaks--

Is anyone writing the update or Shal I ? LOL am yet to watch epi ConfusedEmbarrassed

thanks for the linksTongue
di meri! Tujhe update krna hai na toh first five mins n last part ka kro...tumhare liye better hogaROFL
itna kharab tha kya epi AngryDead i hate writing melodramas Ermm bus 4 paras main khatam kardoongi AngryROFL
middle part is total nonsenseDead but yea last part is fab,as a pankhi u will love it...

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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:29am | IP Logged
silky i think only 4 d last part a bullshit has turned out 2 b a million dollar epi...
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Posted: 21 December 2011 at 10:32am | IP Logged
Rani, I said long back that I'm not so sure Kastur will leave that house. I don't have a problem with her staying.  I've also said her reaction will vary according to how the truth is revealed to her.

She can be angry at Mohan while staying at that house.  She can leave.. She can do a variety of things. Before this, I never thought it would be regressive for her to stay, and work it all out with Mohan. I still don't.  Because it depends on how MohUr develops.

The problem is that I don't see Kastur's views being shown as something that needs is naive and wrong.  But I'll wait till I see the episode to talk more about it.  Yes, we see Kirti saying the other side.  But I honestly don't see them setting up Kastur as someone who will grow, and come out of what she's been taught.

It's not her all fault.  Like I said... it was apparent when her own mother told her that horrible advice.  I think that post must have been the longest on this forum.  

The fact is, I see Kastur and Shradha's thoughts as going unchallenged. 

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