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Understanding Arnav's behaviour *edited* (Page 3)

manjha IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 8:06pm | IP Logged
Perfect justifications! Like you said, Arnav for the first time came infront of La. ASR wanted this marriage for well we all know the reason. Arnav never wanted it and ASR let Arnav take over him to realise what he's doing was wrong! I respect La so much! One of the best characters IMO on the show and I hope that she really doesn't turn negative! 

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aa123.80 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 10:16pm | IP Logged
Someone's back from camp! Hug

Wah wah, you said it all. Clap
I agree with everything. What I don't get is WHY ppl had problems with Arnav's behaviour with La in the first place?? How else should he have behaved? Confused Should he have just said "BYE" and walked off? Or should he have kicked her out for being so understanding? And who the HELL even thought that the hug meant he was ATTRACTED to her???? ROFL Like seriouslyyy? I missed that post! Otherwise I'd have LOVED to ask whether every friend we hug means we're attracted to them. ROFL

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-Drishti- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 3:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by HeadOverHeels

Great justification, and there's not much that can be added to that I think. It's simply the way mature adults own up to their mistakes, and try to rectify them. There is no perfect way to do it, but that does not mean both adults shouldn't give it their best shot, and that is exactly what Arnav and Lavanya did.. The best they could in a bad situation, putting aside any indifference, finger pointing, and resentment. In fact, they took it a step further, and bonded as friends, which many people do not have the ability to do after a break up. 

The show also highlighted perfectly how adults are not so fickle that they shift gears immediately after a break up, and begin oogling at the first pretty little thing at their door. I think it's very important that people try and see that.

Again, great thread. Thank you for starting it.

Well put! These days, after breaking up most adults just don't keep in touch with their former partner, no matter how close they were. In this case, Arnav and La were never close...he never shared his feelings with her and she wasn't bothered abt it much either. That day, for the 1st time i saw both of them actually talking like mature adults...saying what they truly feel, and it was so touching to see it!
bingo abt the adults not being so fickle wud have been weird had Arnav gone all gaga over Khushi when she came in to give him the that scene i liked how he felt guilty as she spoke abt his engagement with La..
Thanks for the reply!

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-Drishti- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 3:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by barunroxx7

Good post !!
People justify Arnav when his actions cant be justified but this time when he actually didnt do anything wrong,noone justified good justification and i totally agree with you .
I hope the people who had problems with ASR hugging La reads this post.

lol, hell yess! There were times when he did unforgivable things, yet there were people defending him.. WHY because Khushi was involved! Here, he did a great thing..but people don't understand him..WHY because it was Lavanya! Unbelievable LOL

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-Drishti- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 3:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anu17

this is what ws in my mind too...
he now got to knw whats the love means case of Khushi...
so thanks for this lovely post really lovely...
and next week will be a interesting one for us...may be emotional one...

thanks for replying :)
-Drishti- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 4:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Jordin

You have explicated Arnav's actions well! ClapClap

Lovely post. Smile

thank you :)
-Drishti- IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 4:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Infofan

Well said Dhrishti. Nice to read a mature take on the situation and last week's episodes.

thank you! :)
merrydock Goldie

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 4:56am | IP Logged
i totaly agree with you, i have always thought of the character as two people in one, the hard, angry ,mean and ruthless ASR who cares a dame about anyone. who developed a strange obcession for khushi. since he was unable to stop thinking of her. he attributed the feeling to hate and the ASR in him thought of ways to harres her. in the begining. while the Arnav in him was developing a soft corner for her. Arnav would worry and show concern for her, it was Arnav who raced to save khushi from the falling building, Arnav who felt pain to see tears in her eyes, Arnav who took care of her when she fell ill, who said sorry and fought with goons for  her. Arnav who was brokenhearted at the news of her engagement. and for a week he hid behind ASR once again after that. till khushi's pain brought him out again. Khushi brought out Arnave time and time again.
So when Arnav said sorry ot la it was truly touching. he realised he had hurt her and that he could never feel anything for her as Arnav and as ASR.  so he could not hide behind ASR any more to keep up the pretence. because both Arnav and ASR are now in love with Khushi. As ASR he had given La hope for a furture he could never give her and he understood her pain as he sort of went through it himself when he learns of khushi engagement.  so he said sorry for the pain he caused la. his regret is genuin and the least he could is at least comfort her in her pain. and since he still does not know about khushi broken engagement he is not doing this for his benifit but for lavanya i realy sulute.
way to Go Arnav/ASR, you are truly a hero worth adoring.

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